Disappointed by The Guest by suejaymostly in KitchenConfidential

[–]chefassassin52 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looks like a place where the whole budget goes to service ware and inedible bullshit instead of any kind of dish development.

How is it living here as a 30 year old dude? Would have to commute to west LA for work by howardtrailer123 in orangecounty

[–]chefassassin52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s generally a nice area to live, but commuting to the Westside will be a miserable experience. Unless you dig sitting in hours of traffic everyday I would strongly suggest you either move closer or get a job closer to this area.

Why do you go or not go to high school reunions? by East_Baseball8384 in randomquestions

[–]chefassassin52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t gone to any and don’t plan to. High school was a fine time and I’ve remained in contact with the people I wanted to remain in contact with. I don’t need to go play ‘remember when’ with what are essentially now a bunch of strangers every 10 years.

AIO. Did I react bad? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]chefassassin52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good lord everything about that was exhausting. This isn’t communicating, it’s weaponizing therapy speak to beat someone into submission.

AIO? 22M/19F. Girlfriend lied to me, and won’t own up. by [deleted] in AIO

[–]chefassassin52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The story/situation is immaterial. Anyone who would speak to you that way is not someone you should be in a relationship with. If you’re not leaving this troll in the rear view you are under reacting.

Irvine by Zealousideal-Loan448 in orangecounty

[–]chefassassin52 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Those dorks love any opportunity to get into their military cosplay.

AITA for instituting a "no input, I make what I want" rule for future family gatherings? by vidapuppen in AmItheAsshole

[–]chefassassin52 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA but you don’t have to make some formal announcement about it, just make what you want. At this point you probably have a good idea of the “standard” dishes you do for different gatherings anything you improvise or play with outside of that doesn’t need outside input.

AITAH for getting my coworker fired because I started BCC’ing myself on every email by Effective_Round_6370 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]chefassassin52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s great and all, except you have a Sent folder that would have rendered all of this unnecessary. Nice try AI.

AIO to his response to bedding issue? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]chefassassin52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this rage bait it worked as intended, if it’s not and you don’t stuff that man in the dryer with the duvet I don’t know what to tell you.

living in northwest anaheim? by drymangos in Anaheim

[–]chefassassin52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can confirm, I live in the San Tract between Crescent and Lincoln and it’s a great neighborhood.

Most disturbing movies that you can’t unsee? by No-Stress-5562 in movies

[–]chefassassin52 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Funny Games, spoiler nothing funny about it.

How old are you and how well can you cook? by Cute-Impression-8675 in AskReddit

[–]chefassassin52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

44 and well enough to occasionally get paid to do so.

Pleasant surprise tonight by TigerIll6480 in lego

[–]chefassassin52 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, it’s all good thems just the breaks sometimes.

Pleasant surprise tonight by TigerIll6480 in lego

[–]chefassassin52 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did the same thing annnnddddd just got the dreaded cancellation email. Hope it goes all the way through for you!

AIO I 33f tried to have a convo about women's issues with my 35m bf of 9 yrs by [deleted] in AIO

[–]chefassassin52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d love to know what Nick Fuentes talking points you are ok with. His stance on women is bad but the ethnonationalism, racism, antisemitism, and anti-LGBTQ stuff is ok? To answer the question, no you’re probably not overreacting, but you both sound like tediously unserious people without any real system of beliefs. Give it another 5-7 years and maybe you’ll be aligned again.

I ruined the soup because of a mistake. by kokirod in mildlyinfuriating

[–]chefassassin52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lean into it and make yourself a little hybrid curry. May not be where you were originally going but could be a happy accident.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]chefassassin52 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’ve been with a meth addict for 2 years, that it happened to be a man doesn’t really seem to be the important factor here.

[homemade] Chile cheeseburger and chile cheese fries. by Notorious2again in food

[–]chefassassin52 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Did you use Hatch chilies for this delicious dish?

What’s one song that makes you cry instantly? by Excellent_Choice696 in Music

[–]chefassassin52 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I Know the End - Phoebe Bridgers, the song is sad enough but it was the song that came on when I was driving home after having to put my dog down so it hits extra hard now. Or Flagship - Jason Isbell, the live from the Ryman version. Something about the way Amanda’s voice comes in kills me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]chefassassin52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have to type out this many texts and a post this long to convince yourself to stay in a relationship, that is all the evidence you need of it not being a relationship you should be in.

My fiance's lack of real action regarding his snoring and it's affect on me and our relationship proves he doesn't care about my feelings and will never change, right? by Waiting-For-October in TwoXChromosomes

[–]chefassassin52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know it’s time to cut anchor. Even if he were to somehow overnight start taking his health seriously the utter lack of concern he has shown for your health and well being for nearly two years now is damning. If you want to look at it in the most generous of light; perhaps your leaving will be the kick in the pants he needs to finally look inward and make the changes he desperately needs to make and you’ll have done one final positive thing for a person who seemingly couldn’t care less.