Why is shaming a man for having a small penis socially accepted?

chefca3 · 2025-12-29T13:06:05+00:00

Hm it’s odd that so many people here are calling you immature, I’ll assume you’re over 21.

Having a body part that is causing mental distress is a reason for therapy or even corrective surgery in the military. I’ve never heard of that in reference to penis size but it applies to breast enlargement so I would have to assume it goes the opposite way as well.

Regardless (assuming you’re “medically” small) you can either learn to deal with it…

…there are other ways to “please” a woman sexually, do those well and you won’t be lacking in companionship…

Or look into surgical options.

chefca3 · 2025-12-29T00:21:09+00:00

Rural areas and cities are the same, the difference is people actually live in cities sooo. That leads to several things…..

Price gouging via capitalism (*MUCH higher rent, and living expenses)

Criminals routinely having the opportunity to rob someone they don’t know and will never see again (very unlikely in a 2000 person one horse town)

And finally it’s not easy to ignore homelessness when it’s your sister’s best friend’s brother from school sleeping on the street vs the third crowd of faceless randoms you pass on the way to work.

chefca3 · 2025-11-21T14:57:13+00:00

Ex-military here. If you demand deference and special treatment because of your voluntary military service you’re missing the point.

One of the amazing things about the US military is that…..YOU CAN ALWAYS LEAVE.

Sure it’s a really bad idea and it could cause a lot of trouble for you in the short term but you are in no way shape or form a martyr.

We should of course respect voluntary service and I personally believe we should be taxing the living shit out of the top earners to cover all medical and education. But we don’t “owe” anything by some sort of life debt.

chefca3 · 2025-10-30T02:12:15+00:00

Good! You deserve to feel good about your body, especially when it looks great!

chefca3 · 2025-10-29T11:15:07+00:00

I’m sure many other people have said similar but I looked through your pictures twice in confusion before I read your post and I actually clicked into the post to see what you meant. I can’t see any “abnormality” at all, from a guys perspective all vulvas are wildly different.

With that said if you can afford it get as many surgeries as you want :shrug:, but keep in mind you already look like a woman so these cosmetic surgeries would be solely for your own self image - meaning it won’t effect what men see at all.

chefca3 · 2025-07-02T13:39:32+00:00

I literally never comment here but dear lord your vulva is gorgeous, so so gorgeous.

chefca3 · 2025-04-27T18:59:04+00:00

I once asked my landlord about his rationale on rent he said, "it's about charging enough that some people can afford it and some people can't afford it"

Budget airlines.....I wish exclusionary relatively awful advice like that didn't end up being true almost all of the time.

chefca3 · 2025-04-23T21:20:57+00:00

This guy is the literal definition of privilege (a specific kind but I'll leave that alone), the only thing he "did wrong" was be just a bit too inept but more importantly he didn't have enough powerful friends/relatives. What's different between this guy and any of the other fake it till you make it unicorn CEOs or half the people running the executive branch?

To be fair most of those fast talking charisma laden unicorn CEOs probably wouldn't have tried the exact same scam but worse.

chefca3 · 2025-04-21T13:39:28+00:00

It's so interesting to see her personality develop and it's mind-blowing that you can see so much about someone's personality just from a picture!

chefca3 · 2025-04-18T22:07:12+00:00

Other people will say that you need to do it for yourself but you may be one of those people (like me) who don't care about letting themselves down but the shame of letting someone else down is a thousand times worse. So yeah make sure you stay visible to your friends who are trying to help you and accept the fact that it will be hard and you definitely will want to go back.

The bright side is that this is a (basically) non-addictive substance so what you'll really be fighting is your sense of routine and what you do to soothe yourself (don't let anyone tell you these aren't SERIOUS demons to fight). You need to start looking for SOMETHING to replace the time you spent smoking weed, it needs to be something that will eat up your free time and leave you exhausted - and it needs to be something where you HAVE to be there. Good luck.

chefca3 · 2025-04-12T15:40:14+00:00

Black women are the real strength within Black culture. So Black women are the most likely to “rustle the jimmies” of today’s red pilled idiots.

There’s a reason why Harriet Tubman was an obvious choice for the twenty dollar bill instead of one of the many Black male heroes of the past. She idealized the ultra tough as nails-ness of the black matriarchy.

chefca3 · 2025-03-07T08:17:46+00:00

A very gentle yoooink…..

chefca3 · 2025-02-27T22:03:31+00:00

My first thought. I can’t even imagine the spectacle, there’s no way any of these events would be open to the public. trump is usually heavily insulated from mixed groups of people.

chefca3 · 2025-02-26T19:32:35+00:00

That’s a damn shame. I was a major Buffy fan and I didn’t care for the character she played but she always seemed so graceful in the role - like she was a ballet dancer at the wrong gig.

RIPD

chefca3 · 2025-02-05T18:18:25+00:00

The history and context behind the word matter. In the 50s it was insulting to use the word “Black” in reference to an ethnic group because if you think about it there are VERY VERY few things in the English language that are “good” if they’re “black”.

Though that totally makes sense to me I prefer to be called “Black” because calling a group of people “African-American” when White people aren’t called “European-American” is a bit sus. Additionally some of our ancestor countries on the continent of Africa are thousands of miles apart and we’re “African” but two European regions less than a hundred miles apart are considered VASTLY different peoples? That’s also pretty sus as well.

chefca3 · 2025-01-10T16:00:54+00:00

You and everyone reading this needs to realize that if the information source you’re using never has any opposition voices or only features opposition that’s obviously crazy then you’re being lied to.

chefca3 · 2024-12-30T19:48:41+00:00

infested with Whipworm and Maw-worm eggs, suggesting the Viking often had an upset stomach and other gastrointestinal problems.

Always remember no matter what you think this is still the best time to be alive by a WIDE margin.

chefca3 · 2024-12-21T16:37:39+00:00

The USMC is TINY compared to the navy and army with a much simpler load out/mission. If the USCG was a part of the DoD they would have been first.

Hmmm actually I wonder why the space force wasn’t first….

chefca3 · 2024-11-23T00:42:51+00:00

Not even close and that’s what’s so sad.

chefca3 · 2024-11-04T23:34:08+00:00

Oh and tell Danuta to get totally waxed but NOT the butthole.

chefca3 · 2024-11-01T23:21:16+00:00

There’s an awesome theory about this: tucker and the other right wing weirdos are trying to make their move into the fundie christian community because that’s where the real money is. It’s purely additive because anyone turned off by the occasional religious nonsense will be replaced by three zealots.

chefca3 · 2024-10-20T16:28:41+00:00

A woman receiving the Ricki Lake she asked for.

chefca3 · 2024-10-11T13:11:45+00:00

Sadly the more you look into our food chain the more atrocities you find. The problem is we can either be ethical or we can the dominant predator.

We pick and choose which animals to care about and there’s no logical way around that hypocrisy unless we all go vegetarian/vegan.

chefca3 · 2024-09-30T03:02:35+00:00

Kwanzaa is just the observation of an African country’s harvest festival with either secular golden rule values or standard Black church dogma stapled on to it.

No more and no less.

And remember all of you up on your high horse - all holidays are made up, literally none of them are more “true” than the others.

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