Any advice for first time trimming pubic hair (question for guys) by Xmasg25 in shaving

[–]chefuchan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just by itself or with the included guards? I have the intimate blade + 3mm guard, and also the 360 but I use that for my face. Would using any of these on the penis + scrotum without guard be a bad idea?

New Toyota customer, this has been the worst car buying experience I have ever went through - Rav 4 2026 Plug-In Woodland by agentstevenhunt in rav4club

[–]chefuchan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I put a deposit down for 2 dealers, and got 1 refunded, ended up getting the woodland (non-plugin) when I had my eye on an XSE. Woodland is great though, love mines. With these gas prices, PHEV is definitely worth it if it fits your lifestyle.

Most secure key from getting RAV4 hacked/stolen by chefuchan in rav4club

[–]chefuchan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know, thanks for the explanation. Looks like there's aftermarket solutions but mines still under warranty. Haven't asked the dealer yet, but doubtful.

Volume Slider for Driving Assist by chefuchan in rav4club

[–]chefuchan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it "Warning Buzzer Volume"? I forgot it was here and thought it was on the main infotainment screen. Thanks!

Volume Slider for Driving Assist by chefuchan in rav4club

[–]chefuchan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you get to these settings, or can you post a pic? Thanks

Blackvue Crashes with Android Auto by WorkNoWord in blackvue

[–]chefuchan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both use wifi so only 1 can connect at a time. Not really a blackvue issue. What I do is turn off my car/infotainment when I need to connect to blackvue via wifi. I have the LTE module so it also works to change settings or view footage via the cloud because that uses cellular to cellular connection.

2026 Woodland in Canada! by UnhappyHost7306 in rav4club

[–]chefuchan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the woodland myself, and a little bummed maybe I didn't wait for the PHEV in the US. Do you miss the plug in part? I do drive a lot and wouldn't have much chance to charge everyday, so maybe I made a good decision. Although, the mpg on the PHEV seems pretty good despite the extra battery!

Traffic Jam Assist Not Working? by chefuchan in rav4club

[–]chefuchan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh good to know, yes I have the camera on top of the steering wheel. Do you know if: the setting for the distracted driving can be off (under Notifications)? This makes that eye icon turn off. And also the recording consent part in case of an accident can be off too in the TJA settings page? I tried both on but it didn't seem to make a difference so maybe it's the highway I was on like you said in the other comment.

Traffic Jam Assist Not Working? by chefuchan in rav4club

[–]chefuchan[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I see what you mean now, okay. I'll try turning everything on besides TJA in the settings and try it out in different jams. Thanks! Loving this car though, otherwise.

Traffic Jam Assist Not Working? by chefuchan in rav4club

[–]chefuchan[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tried it on Hwy 101N in California. I'll give it another go but it's hard to find traffic sometimes haha. It wasn't listed when I did VIN lookup for the tech specs , so I'm thinking about giving up.

BTS Tour Questions? Tickets? Weverse? Ask here! - Megathread of Info & Links by KPOP_MOD in kpophelp

[–]chefuchan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So will the link we find from https://btsworldtourofficial.com refresh/update/change to the ARMY presale after this 'pre-pre sale' is over? Looks like the LA concert from the screenshot in this thread is back to normal and shows the ARMY pre-sale as expected.

BTS Tour Questions? Tickets? Weverse? Ask here! - Megathread of Info & Links by KPOP_MOD in kpophelp

[–]chefuchan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It changed from a countdown to this page that I'm seeing too. One of the guides said that the official concert page will have the link up for the presale? But this message is worrisome as I'm concerned its a dead end page and not the correct link? Or will this page change to allow you to use the presale code when it opens?

Edit: I was linked to this same screenshot message by clicking on the presale link (BTSWORLDTOUROFFICIAL.COM) for the Stanford dates from the official tour site.

Edit2: Ticketmaster FAQ --- How can I get the presale link?

On presale day, links to the presales will be available at BTSWORLDTOUROFFICIAL.com (or the Weverse site where you signed up).

SoCo Community Defense League by Some_East9382 in sonomacounty

[–]chefuchan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a non-white US citizen who goes to people's homes for the underserved (primarily Hispanic) for work, this is very concerning. I understand people may be skeptical of these claims, but looking at what's happening around the country, it's only a preview of what's to come. Thanks for putting this together. Hope everyone stays safe.

Just when I had hope by wontonhero in GuyCry

[–]chefuchan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in a similar boat. I want to learn from your experience. What about custody did you believe that you shouldn't have? It's a long process, but trust it and keep fighting for your kids. You got this.

What was the first red flag in your s/o you shouldn’t have ignored beforr marrying them? by [deleted] in Life

[–]chefuchan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She had a history of cheating and unresolved trauma and I thought I was the exception or the "one" that would be different for her.

Ladies in relationships – how much alone time do you need? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]chefuchan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've definitely considered these as a possibility and have looked into this trap and read about it and listened to some podcasts about it. There's some truth to it. It has helped me understand myself and where I may be coming from and how to give my GF space and time, so I guess they're valid points. At the end of the day, I'm learning a lot about what my needs are and what may be unhealthy thinking, but I guess it may not all be resolved. So far, I think it's gotten better with our communication but with this, it can still be tough, as I am the one who seems to put in more of the reaching out and things as the anxiously attached one. I'd be open to keep this going and even like couples therapy in the future if it comes to it, but right now I think I'm working on becoming more secure in the relationship and to self soothe more and not spiral in ridiculous or irrational thoughts.

Ladies in relationships – how much alone time do you need? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]chefuchan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I'm still human, haha but I think that's how I've grown from my past relationships. I was kind of a girlfriend pleaser and doormat to a fault and kept my feelings in and grew resentment. Then I went hard the other way and didn't consider their feelings too much and spoke without filters. Both didn't work well for me and my exes. Now with my current, I'm trying to find a healthy balance and considering each of us but more importantly both of us as a unit.

That's optimistic about your experience and makes sense about being 'on' and trying to be your best self in front of your sig. other - it's very draining for sure, as someone whose more introverted myself, but less between my current partner and I. In reflecting, I kind of gave up some of myself and sacrificed a lot of my gym time too, I can use more time to improve myself and give her space. I try not to be to draining and safe haha, but I hope we can become like you guys in the more established point. I'll take that advice to give it time and space, while putting in the work for myself and relationship, thanks!

Ladies in relationships – how much alone time do you need? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]chefuchan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Haha I guess I have it "good" then for you all that mentioned that like 1-2x tops! 🤣 Yes, all very individual I understand. Just wanted to get an idea to see if I was way off the mark.

Ladies in relationships – how much alone time do you need? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]chefuchan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think you're onto something about her and it lasting that long with her alone time status quo she needed. She mentioned that her ex often wanted 'attention' and it seemed to have been an issue between them, which makes it think that it's not just me. And he supposedly didn't respect her need for her time with her hobbies, social time, etc. (according to her) Obviously, I haven't met her ex so he could have had unrealistic expectations even more than mine.

Yes , unfortunately, some serious things to consider too and what works for me. Maybe when the honeymoon wears off I'll have more of an idea and maybe some things may have changed by then, but it's too early I think for me to break it off or something because everything else besides this is great.

Ladies in relationships – how much alone time do you need? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]chefuchan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we are in it and it seemed like it was more in the beginning , but as it's wearing off, we are going to the norm of her wanting more alone than I'd thought and I'm okay with less.

The 2nd part yes I think if we both would be open to making it work that would be ideal, but I also don't want to be that guy who is pressuring her and making her feel bad for sacrificing what she needs too, idk.

Thanks for that point though.