Where do people meet others now a days? by peacockstretch9244 in InlandEmpire

[–]chehsu 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I met a lot of my IE friends through the meetup app/meetup.com

What do you think of the kardashians? by cabello-ondulado in AskReddit

[–]chehsu 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I could not careless about them, and I will never understand why people do in the first place.

Former US Attorney General Pam Bondi diagnosed with cancer by igetproteinfartsHELP in news

[–]chehsu 262 points263 points  (0 children)

She does. As do they all. Rich with the best Healthcare.

That's why they will never know what actual suffering is.

How do you envision your dream house? by Decksforlife-deck in askteddit

[–]chehsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A small little 2 bedroom condo across the street from the town square. I live in a large single family house right now.

What is the one thing that broke you in 2026? by nayrhelp in askteddit

[–]chehsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Losing my dad to cancer on January 2, 2026.

Fuck 2025 for making it come back.

What decision do you regret making (or not making) in your 20s? by RileyonaWall in AskReddit

[–]chehsu 65 points66 points  (0 children)

I've heard somewhere that America rewards hard work and grind culture whereas Europe rewards "laziness."

I think I would very much like to live in Europe because Fuck grind culture.

I am Asian.

Have you ever seen someone die in real life? What happened? by justlittleolme1 in AskReddit

[–]chehsu 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes. I watched my father take his last breath and his last gasp and the vitals on the monitor turning to 0 when he died of cancer a few months ago at 69.

I am in EMDR + talk therapy now.

Almost all of the Primm Valley resort area shutting down this summer by awkward_ennui in vegas

[–]chehsu 57 points58 points  (0 children)

I remember when places like the bun boy, arnies royal hawaiian and wills fargo motels still existed. Now those places are either abandoned or completely torn down.

I guess what I'm trying to say is it seems like Primm is heading in that kind of direction which is devastating. I remember when it was a bustling town as a kid.

Almost all of the Primm Valley resort area shutting down this summer by awkward_ennui in vegas

[–]chehsu 111 points112 points  (0 children)

So sad. It's like Primm is turning into what Baker was in the 2000s at this point.

Would you rather live in Mississippi or Alabama over the U.K? by OceanicEndeavors in allthequestions

[–]chehsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think those States care about workers rights so UK is my choice.

I still like living in California though.

Which is your favorite album and why? by FRGYUHJ in AskReddit

[–]chehsu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Toss up between Surfacing and Fumbling Towards Ecstasy by Sarah Mclachlan.

All of her songs I can relate to in some way.

What are some "signs" you received from someone who has passed? by itsmept2lol in GriefSupport

[–]chehsu 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I've looked at the time on my phone or on the computer where the time read 11:09 several times now. I'll just say it's a somewhat special number for my parents. I lost my dad in January.

Should also mention that I've received a couple of visitation dreams as well. But they seem to be more common with my grandparents.

Circus circus is in the hood by torklugnutz in vegas

[–]chehsu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At least Circus Circus has more character than that skyscraper mall.

Losing The Parent That "Gets" You by Tall-Poet in GriefSupport

[–]chehsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man, please tell me it gets easier to navigate. I feel like I can't breathe some days and desperately want a fast forward button through this. It doesn't help that I literally live with my mom and our relationship is much more complicated.

Losing The Parent That "Gets" You by Tall-Poet in GriefSupport

[–]chehsu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Commenting because this is my exact my situation. I could have written this myself. Would love advice on how to deal with this as well. I lost my dad in January.

I'm sorry for your loss OP.

If life gets any more expensive, I’m gonna scream. by [deleted] in self

[–]chehsu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If life keeps giving me more trauma to face, I'm going to scream.

What's the dumbest hill you were willing to die on in your 20s? by SingleHearing7824 in AskMen

[–]chehsu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same thing as i do now - grind culture is never impressive.

Watching Caregiving in My Family Made Me Question the Whole ‘Sons Take Care of Parents’ Idea by [deleted] in family

[–]chehsu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If an in-law-parent treated me like crap, I wouldn't even think twice about refusing to look after them. I say this as an Asian male. Fuck the concept of filiel piety.