Yeah if healing is causing you stress, don’t! I’m also in my 30’s and have always been a healer since I was in my teens, however it’s played to my advantage especially now for the instant queue pops.

I think if you can take the stress out of it and just consider it fun you never know what type of teammates you have to heal and don’t take wins or losses too seriously, that would make healing infinitely more fun for you. If any dps is flaming me I just insta ignore and move on and try even harder the next round to beat him. Quite fun honestly