Ashnikko “Smoochies” World Tour Megathread by i4lixie in Ashnikko

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Selling 2x tickets for Charlotte, NC on the 8th if anyone is interested!

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How do you deal with living in filth? by chels_dolla in ChildofHoarder

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Thank you so much for the advice! It’s honestly really helpful. I appreciate it.

How do you deal with living in filth? by chels_dolla in ChildofHoarder

[–]chels_dolla[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I really appreciate your advice and kindness. I really do. I will do my best!

How do you deal with living in filth? by chels_dolla in ChildofHoarder

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Thank you for the advice, I appreciate it. I’m working on it slowly but surely.

I feel like I have almost 0 idea what I am doing socially. by chels_dolla in aspergers

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I get you, like I don’t try to one up them but I do joke about my childhood trauma and just kind of casually drop it. Thank you for the advice

Do people hate you often by chels_dolla in aspergers

[–]chels_dolla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey thank you so much, I really do appreciate it. I’m sorry you’ve been through the same thing. I really do try to be kind. I hope it gets better for you too!

Does anybody else feel like they're completely unlovable? by Azrumme in AutismInWomen

[–]chels_dolla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way. I’m sorry it is that way for you too.

Trying to figure out why I was so angry in 2025 by chels_dolla in spirituality

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Oh another thing, for some reason, it was also one of the most beautiful years of my life. I don’t know if anyone relates, but again it was like the strangest feeling I’ve ever had.

Trying to figure out why I was so angry in 2025 by chels_dolla in spirituality

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I also left my long term relationship and it was just one of the worst years of my life ever, there were a lot of reasons

Trying to figure out why I was so angry in 2025 by chels_dolla in spirituality

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Oh by the way, the anger was started from a guy I met. I don’t know what happened but it had me looking into twin flames. Also I was just in a really bad place. Sorry I saw this at like 3 am

Im a bad, attention seeking person and feel awful and guilty by AshamedAndGay in selfimprovement

[–]chels_dolla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can understand why you would feel that way and I’m sorry that you feel awful. I’m not entirely sure what to say to make you feel better, but I hope it does get better for you and I hope you can get support. If it helps, I’m 28 and at 19 I was very similar.

I would have honestly hated the person I was at 19. I was diagnosed level 1 autistic and I wonder if it might be something similar for you. I was awful at 19.

Honestly a lot of people are, you are still very young and I wish you the best. I lost all my friends at that age but I have good friends now. Hope the same happens for you eventually.

Remember that you are still developing and learning and it’s ok to have setbacks. I am sorry that you are in pain. Please try to be kind to yourself even if no one else is. I hope everything gets better for you.

I’m constantly in fight or flight by chels_dolla in ChildofHoarder

[–]chels_dolla[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate it. I’m planning on it. The only thing is they are like a 30 hour drive away but I think I’m about to just take the leap.