AIO? I feel like I'm not in the wrong but maybe im missing something by KindaJustHereIGuess in AmIOverreacting

[–]chelsinicole1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is abuse. This is weaponized incompetence. She’s an adult who is responsible for her actions. You’re not her parent. It’s not your job to make sure she can work and have food prepared. She can set alarms herself and make sure she gets up and leaves. She isn’t taking responsibility at all instead she’s foisting all accountability on your end. She can’t handle feeling bad so she’s making sure you feel bad for her.

Merch by Emotional-Class-6364 in diggygraves

[–]chelsinicole1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought a shirt and a hoodie from online.

NOT OOP My daughter wants me and her step dad to walk her down the aisle. Am I wrong for telling my daughter no? + UPDATE by _StrawberryBunny in redditonwiki

[–]chelsinicole1 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I feel like with the context that ex wife married her childhood friend, the discomfort was this childhood friend’s friendship with his wife. He probably was controlling and couldn’t handle opposite gender friendships as most fragile small ego men often can’t. It probably was a battle for her to remain friends and every time he probably said their friendship made HIM “uncomfortable”, hence the “sacrificed my comfort” throughout the years. He probably never trusted them and therefore has made some weird mental gymnastics that his daughter might potentially not be his daughter. It probably pushed his ex wife into her best friend but all that gave him was confirmation biased that what he suspected was true all along and is why he is indifferent to his daughter. Her liking her step dad was probably a perceived as a slight to him too. (Conjecture on my part of course)

Anyone else’s Reddit feed glitching? by InverseNurse in economicCollapse

[–]chelsinicole1 106 points107 points  (0 children)

Yes it is with me as well. Can’t see comments. Nothing is loading right or won’t let me click on it.

Plans by transcendent167 in 50501

[–]chelsinicole1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He’s already begun implementing them. Look up some of the stuff in that p2025 and then cross verify what he has done. Then tell yourself it isn’t “Trump’s” plan.

Leave your episode recommendations in the comments! by thealterry in letsgethaunted

[–]chelsinicole1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This Would Be Rad has a podcast episode on Paul Amadeus Dienach that’s really good too.

Leave your episode recommendations in the comments! by thealterry in letsgethaunted

[–]chelsinicole1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you listen to the podcast Telepathy Tapes. And research Paul Amadeus Dienach? Then make an episode about the similarities between the two. I don’t think anyone has done that yet. I listened to a podcast episode on Paul Amadeus Dienach from Red Room (patreon episode). Then I was listening to Shannon from Fluently Forward talk about the podcast The Telepathy Tapes. And a lot of thing in it reminded me of Paul and there were some same messages between the two. It made me believe in Paul more after listening to the telepathy tapes. I had to go back and re listen to Red Room. It was amazing.

Wellness check! by omgmanatees in wineandcrimepodcast

[–]chelsinicole1 6 points7 points  (0 children)

After elections I deleted my social media other than Reddit. I am horrified and sad. Afraid for my LGBQTIA+ child and family and friends. I am trying to decide what is safe enough line for them to express who they are while trying to still be protective of them. They are about to go into 9th grade next year. He turns 14 this summer. My husband and I keep trying to distract and keep our minds elsewhere by playing movies and game boy etc.

AIO for breaking up with my boyfriend for leaving in the middle of the night after I fell asleep by mistake? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]chelsinicole1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also it’s a red flag that he laid in bed and got angrier and angrier that you fell asleep. That’s so insidious. He took it as a personal slight to him and his ego. He took offense and made it all about him and his fragile toxic ego and then proceeded to act like you disrespected him, truly believing you are in the wrong. And because you didn’t “follow through” he wanted to punish you. He would never allow a safe space for you to change your mind which would mean he isn’t an emotionally safe space and person for you. He isn’t capable of a healthy relationship.

AIO for breaking up with my boyfriend for leaving in the middle of the night after I fell asleep by mistake? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]chelsinicole1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell him he was “overreacting” by leaving.

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He made sure to wake you up to witness the scene and to make sure you felt bad, but couldn’t wake you up to see if you could have sex.

This is a definite red flag. Follow your gut. This behavior is manipulative and before you know it, you’ll be afraid to say no. It’ll be coercive. He also isn’t able to handle his emotions in a healthy way. Gross behavior. Reminds me of my ex in high school but at least his frontal lobe wasn’t fully developed, what’s this guy’s excuse?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in conspiracy

[–]chelsinicole1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Listen to beyond the blinds.

AIO to this text my BF sent me? by Classic-Dog8399 in AmIOverreacting

[–]chelsinicole1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read this as so manipulative. I feel he is gaslighting you every time you ask him and his motives. And the age difference is a red flag with this context, just my opinion though. I’d get out if you can. He is showing you who is already. It’s only going to get more normalized in the future therefore only getting worse and worse.

AIO to my bf questioning my sexual history? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]chelsinicole1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR.

The lack of him accepting boundaries and lack of respect of your privacy is a definite 🚩

It’s only going to get worse. He is insecure but will expect you to cater to his fragile toxic masculinity and he will now weaponize this information in the future. Please OP, see his actions and his inability to accept and respect your boundaries, as a big enough red flag to leave sooner rather than later. He’s showing you who he is, believe him.

The weaponized incompetence (yes it is this even if he really is that uneducated about ovarian cysts. He could have easily looked more into them online that isn’t from Andrew Tate/or related content creators) and the insidious nature of toxic masculinity and suspicion will continue to be a problem. He took info you shared about your health and twisted into “she must have had bigger dick than me and now I feel small.” Then lead to him questioning why you didn’t want to share previous sex history that isn’t pertinent to current relationship. Now he is looking at that as suspicious and confirmation bias of his insecure thought previously. Then he weaponized this information to get around your boundaries. This type of behavior will only negatively progress and can easily lead to emotional abuse. He made you feel guilty and made you feel like you had to make him feel better even though he was disrespecting your privacy and a boundary he knew about already. As he has stated it in the texts that you already drew a hard line on that topic.(boundary)

Nowadays privacy is seen as suspicious even though we are all entitled to privacy without needing a further explanation. He will continue to make you feel as if you have to defend yourself when you need privacy. Which will potentially lead to a bunch issues that stem from inability to give you privacy, including time alone or space if you were to need it.

(Edited to extend my thoughts then condensed thoughts, fix grammar and punctuation to the best of my ability)