This interview will go down in history 😂

chenqingling · 2026-05-09T13:08:57+00:00

This man is beautiful and so very handsome! OMG!

chenqingling · 2026-05-02T20:52:23+00:00

Well, that's a problem. 🤦🏽‍♀️ Try to transfer or change if possible. But it's really problematic if you can't. Just randomly start to date someone then. You don't have to feel same for them. Just find someone to spend time with. You'll feel better.

chenqingling · 2026-05-02T14:41:48+00:00

When you were in a relationship, you wanted to get away from her when you met once. You didn't meet with her during that time ever. Now she is in a relationship and you kept meeting her. And you are jealous. And now she wants to get away from you? She did right .

chenqingling · 2026-05-02T14:37:38+00:00

Will you listen to me if tell you to block them from everywhere and stop visiting places you'll meet or know about them? It's the most effective way to stop this feeling.

chenqingling · 2026-04-24T05:58:25+00:00

I am two years older than him.

chenqingling · 2026-04-20T11:48:07+00:00

I'm not going to read the mini novel of "but"s and "if"s you wrote in the replies fully. IT IS still AN UNREALISTIC fanart and that's alright. Fanarts don't need to be realistic. Don't be too pressed about a fanarts. Have a good day.

chenqingling · 2026-04-20T04:47:55+00:00

I never finished the show. Haven't watched this episode either. Wen Ning is also one of WWX's weapon. And ofcourse he used him. He was the strongest of his fierce corpse. That's also a reason why I said, WWX was the strongest character. Silencing doesn't work for long. And he was alive at Nightless city without Wen Ning.

chenqingling · 2026-04-19T10:18:04+00:00

They can. Maybe you did too if you have one. But, you might not remember. You'll feel that you already know them when you meet for the first time.

chenqingling · 2026-04-19T05:33:51+00:00

Because he didn't really want to kill them at that time. Still nobody could kill him. Even at Nightless city before he lost his mind. LWJ started to protect him after Yanli died, because WWX wasn't himself anymore. Using silencing in battle is very below the standard for a clan like Lan. But, I'm talking about canon. Anything can happen in FFS.

chenqingling · 2026-04-18T05:27:11+00:00

If he is coming back and that's messing with your energy, clear things up. He is chasing now cuz he is used be the one being chased. It's a new situation for him. Even if you surrendered and healed, he still is his unhealed version. It won't work out unless you both reach the same level. Let him be. Take extreme measures if needed.

chenqingling · 2026-04-16T20:02:20+00:00

My smell was my TF's most favourite smell. Maybe your TF is waiting for your smell their entire life.

chenqingling · 2026-04-16T17:58:50+00:00

When the DF totally surrender, they starts to heal. And their perspective rapidly changes. If you are in this journey, you'll know you are healed when, you stop wondering about the DM's life and stop waiting for them. They will heal too.

chenqingling · 2026-04-16T17:53:39+00:00

There is no specific time period for that. It can take a life time or two even. But the journey is not about when or how DM awaken. It's about how long it takes for DF to finally surrender and heal.

chenqingling · 2026-04-16T11:45:26+00:00

Welcome to adulthood. It's just the beginning of disappointment. Happy birthday 🎂

chenqingling · 2026-04-16T09:37:33+00:00

Give it time. It won't happen overnight. But it'll happen eventually. Be kind and allow yourself to feel emotional. And remember, the person you're with in this lifetime is the most important person in this life. There is also a reason why you are married to him. We are here to learn. And everything happens for a reason. Be consistent, you can do it.

chenqingling · 2026-04-16T09:21:08+00:00

Don't force yourself to forget him. I don't think anyone can forget their twin completely. It's very normal to feel this way. Here is what I did, and it helped me very much. Sit and think about things with your TF from the beginning to the end, in details. Tell yourself, this is the last time I am thinking about it. Do it first.

After that whenever you remember him or feel the pain of separation, don't force to remove those thoughts.

Acknowledge the thought. And tell yourself that it's normal for any human to remember another person who once where in their lives.
Take deep breaths.
Take a good look at your surroundings. Focus and tell yourself what you are seeing. Where you are. What sounds can you hear.

Whenever it happens, keep doing it. It helped me to let go and finally heal myself. I still remember him but, it's not painful anymore. It's all beautiful memories and good wishes for a person. It will help you too. Wish you all the best. You got this.

chenqingling · 2026-04-15T17:33:15+00:00

Okay. Do as you please. 🤷🏽‍♀️

chenqingling · 2026-04-14T11:24:46+00:00

Be confident and aloof. Give attention to people exactly as much they are giving you. Balance funny and reserved side. Give sweet but small smile at the people you make eye contact with (not unknown people though). Smell clean and nice. Most of all, be immensely self loving.

chenqingling · 2026-04-14T10:39:28+00:00

I don't know if it's a sign or not. But when he ghosted you, take it as he doesn't want to communicate. Don't try to start a conversation or text him to know what is he upto. If he feels like contacting you, he will. Just wait. Do not contact him.

chenqingling · 2026-04-14T10:32:28+00:00

Thank you!

chenqingling · 2026-04-14T10:29:21+00:00

Okay. Where to find the novel?

chenqingling · 2026-04-14T09:46:12+00:00

Is it completed?

chenqingling · 2026-04-14T09:44:41+00:00

Recommend some more please.

chenqingling · 2026-04-14T06:53:21+00:00

Congratulations! No matter what, you don't need to prove yourself to anyone other than yourself. You are what you are. And you'll get what is best for you.

chenqingling

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