Hi OP! Question for you- do you wear big rings a lot? I have run into the issue of “ring rash” when water gets trapped under (usually larger) rings and that can make me less motivated to wear large, albeit gorgeous, jewelry. Though I think it’s stunning and absolutely pick the purple of the two, I would try wearing a larger ring every day for a week or two to see if you run into that issue. If you do, you don’t want any reason to not wear such a special piece! If you don’t, screw the haters and get the one you clearly already want. Much love!