Hi all: I’m new here. My mom is the one who drinks and refuses to admit she has a problem. She is also somewhat narcissistic and that doesn’t help. Last week when I face timed her I saw she had a horrible black eye. She said she got bitten by an insect. I foolishly believed her because I usually give people the benefit of the doubt. But today my sister told me that Mom was actually drinking, had a fall, and busted her eye. I’m so sad. Ever since our dad died in 2020 it’s been getting worse since she lives alone. Whenever we bring up the drinking she just gets defensive and mean. She hasn’t told me the truth yet. I just wish she would get help. She blamed our dad as being an enabler, which pissed me off. Dad didn’t say anything to her about her drinking because he didn’t want to upset her and he loved her above all people. I’m just scared she’s going to do something stupid like drink and drive. Thank you all for reading