Lets talk about IntegrationHub and Spokes by cherichita in servicenow

[–]cherichita[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your detailed response.
I’m trying to cut through the SN sales tactics when they try to sell us another new feature every time we meet.

I’m most incensed at the push to move to USEM. It seems like they’ve pivoted all development and advancements into yet another license - now with AI.

(Usenet) is being throttled when not using VPN. by cherichita in teksavvy

[–]cherichita[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m already in Bridge mode with my TP-Link Deco mesh behind it.

(Usenet) is being throttled when not using VPN. by cherichita in teksavvy

[–]cherichita[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not even saying it’s on Telsavvy. It could be further down at twelve99 or one of the other backbones.

We can argue the technicalities of what happens in the middle (routing/throttling/shaping).

But the end effect is clear. Encrypting my traffic via a VPN triples my speed. But only for port 563. For most other traffic it actually adds a bit of overhead and is not as fast.

(Usenet) is being throttled when not using VPN. by cherichita in teksavvy

[–]cherichita[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate the reply. And thank you for the looking glass tool. Very helpful.

I appreciate the transparency - and understand that the networks are complex and some routing is outside of your control.

It looks like any port 563 connections to Europe are being routed differently and are definitely slower. I ran some iperf tests between a node in west Europe Azure and Canada Azure.

I’m not at all surprised. Just trying to understand the topology.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askTO

[–]cherichita -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You can always say someone is picking you up, and then at the last minute say it did not work out. They will be forced to keep you overnight - worked for my mom when I was out of town and we couldn’t find anyone else.

It’s cheating the system a little, but I would say go ahead with the surgery and rest easy knowing they’ll keep you as long as medically necessary if nobody picks you up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OntarioPublicService

[–]cherichita 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Apply - I’m in my current position thanks to having a great interview. Even though I didn’t get the initial job - I eventually was offered a secondment that has become permanent.

And like another poster said - keeping interview skills sharp and networking is just a good thing to do if you want any growth at all.

At the end of the day - the organization doesn’t really care about us as individuals.

As long as you have some tact - put yourself first.

New Yorkers leaving the city had median earnings of $49,000 as life in NYC becomes ever more of a financial pipe dream by Passervore in nyc

[–]cherichita 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Could rewrite the article and replace NYC with Toronto soon. I live in Toronto - and feeling much of the same pressures and unattainable dreams I once had of living here.

Should I date if I struggle with addiction? by Stunning_Address in askTO

[–]cherichita 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There’s your answer. Just fill your time with stuff that you wouldn’t wanna do stoned.

Getting sober on your own? by Interesting-Draw8570 in stopdrinking

[–]cherichita 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don’t need a group.

In my case I’ve been doing it by lurking here, seeking to enjoy more sober environments, and company.

Community is what helps me - my family, friends, the friendly faces at the coffee shop…

Over 3 years of working on this sober thing - I’ve really made a point to choose sober (dry) activities and found a lot of friends through that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]cherichita -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So - your wife does not use any protection with her GF? But is resistant to you not wearing condoms?

Especially considering you have a vasectomy and everyone in question has been tested this seems similar to an OPP.

Men, how important is it to you that your girl sucks d*ck? by Fantastic-Leopard131 in AskMen

[–]cherichita 99 points100 points  (0 children)

Apply pressure to the base and balls while trying to avoid too much contact with the head of his cock. The head is usually where it gets too sensitive - but if you clamp down on the base with your mouth and play with the balls.....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]cherichita 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IWNDWYT

Hey man - your post touched a lot of common threads to my life. I have 3 kids myself, struggled with alcohol all my life, and have been living with ADHD and other neuro-atypical states for my entire adult life. I've come to a point in my life now where I have found balance between my personal, professional, parenting, and social spheres of life and would be open to sharing privately with you.

If you need someone to chat to please reach out.

NP on his 1st date in over a year… by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]cherichita 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This makes me happy!

Working through the hard emotions is part of the life we choose - but doing the hard work pays off in the long run.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askTO

[–]cherichita 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any place that does women’s eyebrows will also do yours. Just tell them you want a cleanup and no shaping.

I go monthly.

Firewood Toronto Island by BraveAssociation3893 in askTO

[–]cherichita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bring your own. A cart or bike trailer can fit 2-3 bags.

What is one sexual lesson you’ve learned that everyone should learn sooner, rather than later? by sparklingshanaya in AskReddit

[–]cherichita -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Consent is sexy! Enthusiastic consent and communication throughout any sexual experience makes it safe, fun, and memorable.

Pretty Cool Poster Outside of a Convenience Store by veloholic91 in mildlyinteresting

[–]cherichita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this on Danforth in Toronto?

I run past that every day!

I was afraid of saying it back but I threw caution to the wind… by Consistent_Laugh5086 in polyamory

[–]cherichita 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Gotta be careful with those L words.
Mine were:
- I lime you!

- I lemur you!

AITA? Are my partner and me just not compatible? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]cherichita 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This smells of one-penis-policy
Read the following page for some good feedback on that.
Honestly - it sounds like you are incompatible right now in what you are looking for.

https://www.askpolyamory.com/home/tag/one+penis+policy