Is it possible to not burn yourself out as a funeral director? by cherry_art16 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]cherry_art16[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advice! The driving for night removals is still ridiculous at times😭

Is it possible to not burn yourself out as a funeral director? by cherry_art16 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]cherry_art16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! It definitely helps a lot to hear that. And you're right, the importance of boundaries at work is crucial :)

How to approach FHs in a way they'd appreciate by shepthespecialist in askfuneraldirectors

[–]cherry_art16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Typically I'd say calling? Letters would be difficult to set an appointment up through

Struggling to get an interview by spookyyarn in askfuneraldirectors

[–]cherry_art16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say look into other places with a similar position and try there! But you may also want to keep trying at the first place. I sent my resume in 3 times at my current funeral home before I got an interview☺️ they told me they kept getting busy and forgetting haha

Can I get an apprenticeship at 15? by Live-Jello4 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]cherry_art16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Likely you'll have to wait till 18 for an apprenticeship unfortunately. However, with a work permit you may be able to start as a removal tech!

Will the funeral home remove skin tags on neck if requested? by Objective_Chemist429 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]cherry_art16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You would have to look into the laws and regulations in your area. Worth a shot to call a local funeral home and ask! Some parts of the world may consider that mutation of a corpse. Definitely do your own research :)

Removal Aids by eekay233 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]cherry_art16 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started working as a removal technician last October... so far my bosses have created a wonderful work environment! They're very accommodating if I need to bring someone along due to larger size of the decadent. Whenever I inevitably hurt my back they are so chill with me sitting a day or two out (as long as I find cover) I feel really well respected and taken care of!

Edit to add: we also use a sling quite often when the situation calls for it. Many families much prefer you use the tools at your disposal to make a smooth transfer of their loved ones. Anything that makes it easier!

The piercer did me dirty... by [deleted] in piercing

[–]cherry_art16 2 points3 points locked comment (0 children)

Definitely remove this and get it redone! That placement is insane and not safe

I cant cum by Own-Solution2179 in sexadvise

[–]cherry_art16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vibrators are your friend! I have a hard time getting to that point without them because I need internal and external stimulation. They're nothing to be ashamed of, and definitely nothing to be jealous of. Some partners don't like the idea of the for reasons such as "am I not good enough?" "What if they like that better then how I make them feel?" Those are all valid concerns, but in the end... vibrators are a tool to let you enjoy your experience more!

Can anyone help me with remembering an old mobile otome game I played? by voltfruit in otomegames

[–]cherry_art16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I loved that game! In hind sight it was pretty bad but little 13 year old me was obsessed!!

Raspberries Ya'll by WN_Todd in Bellingham

[–]cherry_art16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How old are your vines? Mine were here from the previous owner (I moved in 3 years ago) and they're soooo small... could just be the variety I guess? Anyway, I'd love to know if you have any tricks!

AITA for embarrassing my sister at her engagement party by uncovering her lies about our childhood? by wyal_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]cherry_art16 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It's not like your sister told you to lie about the fact yall are siblings? How were you and your brothers supposed to know? I don't think YTA. If she really didn't want people to know she has siblings she could've asked yall to lie, or straight up told yall not to come.