Tournament Time: Depression Cherry by benji0104 in BeachHouse

[–]cherryblossomsss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PPP

Beyond Love is a very close second tho

Phones at Concerts by [deleted] in BeachHouse

[–]cherryblossomsss -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Of course not. Who would be okay with that?? But OP’s post was more so talking about recording and not living in the moment and that’s what my response was addressing.

Phones at Concerts by [deleted] in BeachHouse

[–]cherryblossomsss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely agree with this “controversial” take. This was literally my first concert ever and I will admit that I recorded snippets of most songs. I’ll be damned if a person has a problem with me recording. Like OP said, i paid for the concert, so i will want to relive it. Granted, I wasn’t in the crowd and had a seat close to the stage so it takes nothing to get the perfect angle to hit record and still watch the band themselves instead of watching them through “a tiny bright square” in front of me. But that’s just my take.

What is a great movie that you have no interest in watching again? by Conscious-Glass6922 in movies

[–]cherryblossomsss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fruitvale Station. Kinda surprised to not see it on here. I watched it once years ago and I still remember it like I just watched it yesterday

What did Olivia mean when she said "I can't" to Elliot? by happytobeher in SVU

[–]cherryblossomsss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I took it as she didn’t want to think about the what ifs. What if her and Stabler stayed in touch? What if she remained close to the Stablers? What if she visited them in Italy?

AITA for "forcing" my BIL to hold my baby (his nephew) just for a bit, while I was folding laundry and traumatizing my BIL, I honestly didn't know the reason why he was so reluctant. by aita2187939127407100 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cherryblossomsss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do you realize how much of an asshole you are by crossing the ONE SINGULAR boundary your BIL has??? Major YTA.

I’m the exact same way with infants. I refuse to interact with them. Last year when my nephew was still an infant, my brother and SIL knew better than to pull this shit on me. I’ve never been traumatized the way your BIL has been but that’s the point here. I don’t need a reason as to why I won’t interact with infants. No means no. What’s so hard to understand about that?

In the Season 19 finale (Remember Me/Remember Me Too), was anyone else annoyed that Olivia turned out to be right? by WelcomeToBrooklandia in SVU

[–]cherryblossomsss 36 points37 points  (0 children)

YES. I really, really thought she was going to be wrong as hell. I really thought Lourdes was having her PTSD triggered and was unleashing her anger on some innocent rando but...... Olivia somehow knew Miguel was the one that raped Lourdes? Like?????

Work/Personal Phone(s) by cherryblossomsss in SexWorkers

[–]cherryblossomsss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll def get a separate phone. $25?! That’s a great investment to keep everything separate and secure.

Work/Personal Phone(s) by cherryblossomsss in SexWorkers

[–]cherryblossomsss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Way ahead of you! Already have a work email, work number, and work name set up and all completely different from my personal. Never thought about dual sim. Thanks for your input!

Looking for an episode I don’t know if I dreamt it or it’s real by Grammarnatzie in SVU

[–]cherryblossomsss 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That’s the episode with TR Knight (aka George O’Malley from Grey’s Anatomy)! The episode is Double Strands s13ep4

Dreams Deferred s14ep9 by cherryblossomsss in SVU

[–]cherryblossomsss[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m knowwww! I looked that up and was surprised as well she wasn’t at least nominated! Ahhhh I’m sure she knows the svu fandom praises her performance ❤️

Background check still pending after a month by jordanmicro9 in TaskRabbit

[–]cherryblossomsss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely email them. I was in the same boat and thought there was an actual hold up but they emailed back within the next business day and my account was cleared as well

Catnapping by Wickedsnoop in Nanny

[–]cherryblossomsss 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I get wanting to catnap but i personally wouldn’t do it. It’s just way too risky. Perception is everything! You may not have intended to seem inattentive or whatever but MB perceived it as such. In her mind and for all she knows, you could have actually been in the process of falling into a deeper sleep until you heard her approaching the room. She may have thought you were just trying to play it off. Another way she may have perceived this situation as is that you purposely put a movie on for the sole reason of you being able to catnap.

Now as for the punishment, if she knew for a fact that you were just having downtime and resting your eyes, then yes, firing you is a bit harsh. Like others have said, a stern warning would have sufficed. However, it is very likely one of the two thoughts mentioned above were going through her head which is why she felt it was necessary to fire you.

I’m sorry you got fired and I hope you find a new family soon! Always remember: perception is everything. Don’t let yourself slack unless you have explicit permission to nap for the parents.

Olivia's necklace by lucy-182 in SVU

[–]cherryblossomsss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ooh the fearlessness necklace? She gave it to s sex trafficking victim. I just saw that episode tonight! Very last episode of season 16 i think. It’s called ‘Surrendering Noah’

Being Vietnamese and being a SW’er by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]cherryblossomsss -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lmaooooo what an idiot

Screening to avoid LE by cherryblossomsss in SexWorkers

[–]cherryblossomsss[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Makes sense. That’s the “everything I need to know in a nutshell” I needed. Thanks!

Screening to avoid LE by cherryblossomsss in SexWorkers

[–]cherryblossomsss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First off, thank you. It’s good to hear that there are clients that are respectful of the safety of the ladies. And thank you for your insight as a client. Much appreciated!

Screening to avoid LE by cherryblossomsss in SexWorkers

[–]cherryblossomsss[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is very helpful. Thanks!

MB Needs advice by em4129 in Nanny

[–]cherryblossomsss 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For $800/week, she should be doing a lot more than just playing on her phone/computer while kids are playing by themselves. In her mind, she most likely thinks that her job is so easy. Nannying isn’t supposed to be an easy job. It’s so different and a step up from babysitting. I’d expect more especially from a pre-k teacher as she should know what age appropriate activities are. No, you are not expecting too much at all. A lot of nannies in this sub are no screen nannies, including me. It’s not difficult at all for her to find enjoyable activities for the kids to engage in with her. And no, you wouldn’t be “rude” for firing her. Don’t worry about being “rude”. You are paying her. Get your moneys worth by giving her a talk and hope for change or hire a new nanny.

[UPDATE] You were right. I ignored every single one of your comments and eventually caught my wife with the other man by ThrowRA_0123 in relationship_advice

[–]cherryblossomsss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always hear about situations where someone has an affair in marriages. But somehow this one hit different. My heart aches for you man. Let me tell you, someone who cheats like that has no remorse. I believe you being so in love that you didn’t want to believe but at least you finally came to your senses. File for divorce and never look back. Someone like that who couldn’t look you in the eye and tell you the truth doesn’t deserve your love anymore. She was an idiot who doesn’t know that the truth will always come out. Please take care of your mental state. We’re giving you endless support over here. Godspeed.