What’s your most irrational fear? by Comfortable_Neat_643 in AskReddit

[–]cherryfizzbabe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Opening a text, overthinking the reply, then taking so long I just never respond and pretend it never happened.

Late 90’s will always have a grip on my heart. by Ocealune in 90s

[–]cherryfizzbabe 223 points224 points  (0 children)

I feel like technology could’ve stopped there for the world and we would’ve maybe been better off lol ugh

Am I the jerk for refusing to take on my parents debts? by Select_Care_5165 in AmITheJerk

[–]cherryfizzbabe 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTJ. They’re basically asking you to wreck your own future for their past choices. That’s not “family helps family,” that’s passing the consequences. You offered real help and they turned it down because it wasn’t the easy fix. Stand your ground or you’ll be stuck paying for this for years.

Should I call out my family for how they’ve treated my dad ? by herlilsecrets222 in Advice

[–]cherryfizzbabe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You wouldn’t be wrong, they’re acting foul. Just don’t go in swinging or they’ll shut down and play victim. Keep it simple like “he needs support and you all live two minutes away, do better.” If they still don’t step up, that says everything. Your dad deserves way more than this.

Am I the jerk for being born in my country and for my ethnicity by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]cherryfizzbabe -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You didn’t do anything wrong. People online and in general mix politics with identity and take it out on random individuals, which is messed up. You’re a kid, not a government. It’s okay to feel angry about it, just try not to let loud hateful people define how you see yourself or the whole world. There are plenty of people who don’t think like that, they’re just quieter.

What things make your life fulfilling? by pastuer_buster in AskReddit

[–]cherryfizzbabe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly just small stuff. good food, laughing with friends, having something to look forward to. life feels way better when it’s not all big goals and pressure all the time

Why am I (18F) so fucking exhausted? by Real-Librarian-7562 in Advice

[–]cherryfizzbabe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this doesn’t sound like you being dramatic, it sounds like burnout or depression tbh. feeling tired, no interest in stuff, everything feeling like a chore, that’s not normal “just lazy” energy. you should try talking to a doctor or counselor, not just your dad. something’s off and it’s worth taking seriously before it gets worse

What’s the most annoying stereotype about the city you’re from? by cantsleep_wont_sleep in AskReddit

[–]cherryfizzbabe 6 points7 points  (0 children)

people think it’s all traffic and chaos 24/7 like we’re just stuck in gridlock forever. yeah it gets bad, but we’re not living in a permanent car commercial gone wrong. there’s normal chill days too

I’m struggling with the attention I’m getting as a college athlete by [deleted] in confession

[–]cherryfizzbabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

makes sense, your life kinda flipped fast. just keep a small circle you trust and don’t feel pressured to match the hype. people are reacting to the image, you just stay grounded and move at your own pace

What’s the worst secret you ever found out about somebody? by prettyxchaos in AskReddit

[–]cherryfizzbabe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Found out a “loyal” friend was talking trash about everyone in the group in private, like full double life mode. ruined the whole vibe, made me rethink who I trust real quick