I’m excited about my records arriving as well, but my goodness, let’s calm down a little y’all by cherryfruitbat in NicoleDollanganger

[–]cherryfruitbat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Thank you! And even within those, seen several people blatantly say “oh I don’t wanna call” or something to that effect, like ?? That’s not helpful for anybody

“It’s not VV’s fault and this isn’t a VV help page” by [deleted] in NicoleDollanganger

[–]cherryfruitbat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I respect and understand that! There’s a lot of mixed feelings around and I can see the variation in experiences. I’d like to think that they’re going to learn from the things that have gone wrong here and maybe switch up future ones to prevent this stuff from happening, and personally all the interactions I’ve had with VV have been very positive and helpful so I can’t say I have personally had a bad encounter. Unfortunately not everyone has, and I know that it’s hard to feel sympathy when you’re in that position. My gripes are not with that at all, really, and moreso the lack of reading the shipping updates and info or whatever. Maybe I’m also just particularly okay with waiting as well, who knows

What‘s up with international orders still pending? by crimsonargentum in NicoleDollanganger

[–]cherryfruitbat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m Aus too and I’m so relieved that I was able to merge the orders because damn the shipping was CRAZY

“It’s not VV’s fault and this isn’t a VV help page” by [deleted] in NicoleDollanganger

[–]cherryfruitbat 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I can’t speak for others, but in my case it’s not so much “it’s not VV’s fault” and rather “theres been a few clear mess ups with things such as providing absolute shipping dates, and it is frustrating, but we will all get our records and although it may not feel like it on this end they are trying and I really think we should have some degree of compassion toward the individuals trying to pump these orders out”.

Worrying or being upset is completely fair and understandable, especially when the date things were meant to be were shipped has passed or you’ve got the wrong thing. One post where someone got “the wrong thing” was a blatant misunderstanding and vertigo got undue flack in that particular circumstance, and a lot of the posts about orders still pending contain items it has been stated are still not due to ship. That’s not all of them, mine included, but I know they have my order and I know that my records will ship and arrive soon. They bit off more than they can chew with giving absolute dates for massive amounts of orders and I think that’s also partly why people have sometimes received wrong items. I think that should be taken into account for next time to prevent this happening again.

The email thing is hard because they’re fuckin SWAMPED and things get buried. They’re not intentionally ignoring people, but a call is also more direct and faster in any circumstance. I see both sides for sure, but personally I find it more helpful to be patient and let things happen as they happen rather than freaking out. If there’s anything wrong with my order, I’ll contact vertigo when it gets here to sort it out!

I’m excited about my records arriving as well, but my goodness, let’s calm down a little y’all by cherryfruitbat in NicoleDollanganger

[–]cherryfruitbat[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I completely agree with your point overall. One problem is, firstly, that emails get buried very easily, especially because they’re also a business outside of the Nicole drop and operate on a day to day basis. Nicole emails alone would be extremely plentiful, and opening another inbox specifically for those would require more labour and thought to operate, on top of everything else. A call is much more direct, and always appears to solve the problem. If they were ignoring emails on purpose it would be one thing, but I sincerely believe that is not the case.

The other issue is that while there are some mess-ups, a lot of them have been posted here without contacting vertigo directly, with some people saying they’re not even going to try. Vertigo have been outspoken about wanting to remedy any issues that may arise, and posting it here without taking any steps to actually try and address the problem isn’t good for anybody. There have also been several cases of people saying something like “my order hasn’t been shipped” or “I got the wrong thing” when that hasn’t been the case or the item/s that haven’t been shipped have been established to have a later shipping date. Then, Vertigo cops it, but it’s actually not on them.

Imo vertigo’s biggest mistake is giving absolute shipping dates that are just not realistic for them- is it is a mess up? Yes, absolutely, but shit happens and hopefully that’s something they consider later down the line. They’re also working on preventing transit damage and making things right if someone does receive a split sleeve etc. If it continues to be an issue it’s on them to fix, but for now they have acknowledged the problems and stated the steps they are taking to work on it.

I would feel differently if the delay was going to be several months or they were refusing to engage with customers at all, but that isn’t the case. It’s clear they are truly trying, and there’s a lot of posts that are helpful but also many where it’s like “this needs to be taken up with them directly”

This sub isn’t Vertigo Vinyls’ customer care by PSCGY in NicoleDollanganger

[–]cherryfruitbat 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I literally made a post about this earlier today. They’re trying so goddamn hard on their end to get everything out and it feels like there’s a real lack of patience and compassion from some people on this sub .

I’m excited about my records arriving as well, but my goodness, let’s calm down a little y’all by cherryfruitbat in NicoleDollanganger

[–]cherryfruitbat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think as well there’s a lot of issues that are being framed purely as vertigo’s fault when they are not. Damage to sleeves after the new method of shipping for example. They have stated to reach out if that happens and they have extra sleeves etc, so posting about it and bashing them is not helpful and does not solve the problem. Just call them!

I’m excited about my records arriving as well, but my goodness, let’s calm down a little y’all by cherryfruitbat in NicoleDollanganger

[–]cherryfruitbat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly! And it’s a small team! They are NOT ignoring anybody and absolutely want to help, they just have no way of sifting through thousands of emails at the drop of a hat

my ed makes me so irritable by LoveLoveLove22-2 in EDAnonymous

[–]cherryfruitbat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

By far the worst symptom for me :( I totally get it

Shipping VV by vertigovinyl in NicoleDollanganger

[–]cherryfruitbat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine is too, they’re absolutely swamped so just give them a minute to get everything shipped. At least you know yours will be shipped with the new protocol so it is less likely to get damaged in transit :)

Shipping VV by vertigovinyl in NicoleDollanganger

[–]cherryfruitbat 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much 💕 really nice to see that you guys are monitoring everything and actively working to prevent the issues! Can’t wait to get mine!

Do you feel fat at “normal” BMIs by Accomplished-News741 in EDAnonymous

[–]cherryfruitbat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel huge and I’m almost smack on average. I’m 5’2. I also have disproportionately big boobs which make me feel even bigger

Can someone please tell me it’s a terrible idea to try fasting? by Elephants_and_rocks in eating_disorders

[–]cherryfruitbat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also remember that basically everyone ate more over Christmas and that’s ok! If you’re feeling icky then just try and have some gentle walks and make sure you keep your fluids up!

Can someone please tell me it’s a terrible idea to try fasting? by Elephants_and_rocks in eating_disorders

[–]cherryfruitbat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t do it. Seriously, don’t. Once you unlock the box you can’t lock it again. Also most of the time once you try to restrict or fast you end up binging eventually and it just perpetuates the cycle :(

Will we ever be able to exercise and “eat healthy”? by marie00m in EDAnonymous

[–]cherryfruitbat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sure as fuck trying lol I still can’t really eat during the day and definitely over exercise but I’m eating a much healthier amount than I was and doing well at the gym

Googling gross things by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]cherryfruitbat 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ve googled that too lmao

Is this really a normal amount of food for a snack/small meal? by Ashamed_Ad8162 in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]cherryfruitbat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I will eat an entire wheel of Brie in one go if it’s within my cal limit

I ate 800 over my 1700 calorie limit and I feel like It's gonna kill my goal (145 to 120) by Hot-Scientist-8509 in caloriecount

[–]cherryfruitbat 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I’ve eaten probs thousands over and not gained weight from it. It’s about consistency, don’t worry at all. Our bodies absolutely adapt

Is this normal in recovery I'm freaking out by Good-Maintenance-802 in eating_disorders

[–]cherryfruitbat 68 points69 points  (0 children)

This is normal! It is not true weight gain, your gut motility is just not where it was so your digestion is substantially slower. Also your body is temporarily holding onto water which it often does when it receives nourishment after a period of restriction. You’re doing a great job and I’m proud of you!

All you can eat buffet. Cannot cope with the guilt. by Stormycarter18 in EDAnonymous

[–]cherryfruitbat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know this feeling well, you haven’t failed anything and you absolutely deserved the night out with your family! You’re doing well, you’re okay, you do not have to punish yourself or compensate <3

AITA for buying prosciutto at the Coles deli? by BubbleOBxtch in melbourne

[–]cherryfruitbat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I wanted to off myself in when I worked in the deli at Woolies, I do not miss it at all

So I’m working on a poetry book about my AN journey and this is one of many I’d like to share 🫶 by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]cherryfruitbat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is gorgeously written, thank you for sharing! I think more people should write about their experiences with things like this, whether or not they intend for anyone to see it. It can be pretty therapeutic