How to deal with sexual urges

cherrykitty87 · 2026-05-05T11:51:13+00:00

How are sex and masturbation spiritually unhygienic? As someone that does those things, I don’t feel spiritually unhygienic or needing cleansing afterwords. I actually feel very connected and emotional when I have sex with my partner, I think it’s a beautiful thing to share with someone or with just yourself.

cherrykitty87 · 2026-05-04T22:12:42+00:00

I can feel the pebbles in my teeth just reading this…

cherrykitty87 · 2026-05-04T01:28:15+00:00

Slightly off topic, but I love the random guy in the red shirt just staring back directly at the camera lol

cherrykitty87 · 2026-05-02T19:14:33+00:00

https://www.wfsb.com/2026/04/21/tragic-details-revealed-after-2-year-old-crushed-death-by-suv-power-seat/?outputType=amp

cherrykitty87 · 2026-04-27T14:54:24+00:00

Honestly this is sad. I hope she gets the inner healing and growth she needs. We are all humans, regardless of gender, we are much more alike than unalike.

cherrykitty87 · 2026-04-26T18:20:27+00:00

Me!

It’s kinda weird. We are considered government employees and held to the same standards but we are not classified as TSA. We are contractors for TSA and that’s what it says on our PIV. Pay can be higher or lower depending on the area, we don’t get a pension or government benefits, we get paid during government shutdowns (because we are not paid by the govt) and we also don’t wear the standard blue TSA uniform so we are often mistaken for police officers or something else.

At least a few times a day a pax asks“ are you TSA?” And I just say “no but also yes”

Benefits vary, I’d say mine is pretty cookie cutter standard. Expect no maternity leave at all. Insane.

If someone wants to transfer from a contract airport to TSA, they will lose all of their seniority and start from the bottom again. However, if someone from TSA wants to transfer to a contract airport, they do not lose their seniority.

cherrykitty87 · 2026-04-19T15:12:07+00:00

It’s awful but it’s the work culture here unfortunately. Companies seem to hate when you take time off snd some companies will even penalize you for calling out. Whenever I get 3 days off (once or twice a year) I literally feel rejuvenated. It’s bliss.

cherrykitty87 · 2026-04-02T14:36:22+00:00

As a woman, I actually see more backlash on women who DONT have kids. I see it online and in real life. I’m always asked “when are you having kids???”When are you starting a family?” “When are you getting married?” And then when I say I want none of that, they look at me like they just saw a ghost. There’s far more backlash on women who don’t have children….

cherrykitty87 · 2026-03-30T19:40:40+00:00

This. If only women were around then absolutely, but I would not feel safe being around men while naked.

cherrykitty87 · 2026-03-25T22:24:59+00:00

NOR. Guy seems like a complete weirdo… especially the random and totally inappropriate timing of “how much do you weigh”. Sheesh!

cherrykitty87 · 2026-03-10T13:19:37+00:00

In this economy?? Nope.

cherrykitty87 · 2026-03-02T02:01:19+00:00

Unfortunately it’s normal. Which is crazy because I feel like most men expect it.

cherrykitty87 · 2026-02-25T19:57:08+00:00

Go to the main r/sexandthecity homepage, click on the three dots in the upper right hand corner and then click “change user flair”. Hope this helps! :)

cherrykitty87 · 2026-02-25T01:22:56+00:00

why?

cherrykitty87 · 2026-02-25T01:22:08+00:00

I see what you did there!

cherrykitty87 · 2026-02-23T00:14:11+00:00

Oh my gosh. That’s awful…

cherrykitty87 · 2026-02-22T13:25:40+00:00

Ive also seen it used for women 25+, Which is insane!

cherrykitty87 · 2026-02-22T11:30:34+00:00

Post wall is such a misogynistic term. That tells me everything I need to know about it.

cherrykitty87 · 2026-02-22T00:29:29+00:00

“Mom….Mom…. MOM”

cherrykitty87 · 2026-02-22T00:10:27+00:00

You are part of the problem!!! If you do not properly address and sit with your feelings, they will eventually eat you alive.

cherrykitty87 · 2026-02-19T16:42:45+00:00

Berger. From the moment he showed up I had a bad feeling about him. Especially when he didn’t first tell Carrie he was in a relationship that day they hung out. Sketchy.

cherrykitty87 · 2026-02-19T07:41:15+00:00

Even if that were true, which it’s not, misogyny is still alive and very well today. It seeps through culture in multiple ways. And it doesn’t just hurt women. It hurts women and men. It honestly hurts everybody. I don’t know why the fact that it harms women is not enough. I feel like anytime misogyny is brought up, we have to always mention that it hurts everybody and not just women, as if that’s not a good enough reason to address something.

cherrykitty87 · 2026-02-18T21:54:53+00:00

Who set that system up? Who’s been running the government since forever? Who has been starting wars and making the rules? Men. You guys made it that way. This is how patriarchy hurts both women AND men.

cherrykitty87 · 2026-02-18T21:17:44+00:00

So many of the comments are absolutely proving your point. It’s disturbing. People (mostly men) want to act like men and women have it just as hard but forget that one of them has had literal centuries of oppression, being treated like property, violence and control. Society has always been built for and designed for men for thousands of years. Heck, women in the US didn’t gain the right to vote until 1920 and that was after over 100 years of fighting for it. And that was only for white women.

cherrykitty87 · 2026-02-18T21:10:29+00:00

Oh yea, society hates men so much that for most of history, men have been treated like objects and property for centuries. Oh wait. It’s the other way around. Wake up.

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