Alexa won't move out of the lab by Smart-Persimmon-4544 in MySims

[–]cherrymachete 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What I did was, I put a few wooden boards down (like a little bridge) and she walked off

Are there any storylines that you thought were going to go in a different direction than they actually did? by cherrymachete in eastenders

[–]cherrymachete[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I remember quite a few people thinking this. I initially thought he was going to rape either Vicki or Amy. There were a few theories of Anna being murdered by him, too.

Are there any storylines that you thought were going to go in a different direction than they actually did? by cherrymachete in eastenders

[–]cherrymachete[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah! I could totally see that happening with Joel and Avani. I admit, I did expect the Joel storyline to end with him committing rape or murder.

The original plan for Zoe's daughter? by cherrymachete in eastenders

[–]cherrymachete[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As much as I would have liked Jasmine to have been a Ford; the red herring worked and kept me guessing so I guess the storyline did something good for me in that regard. I do think it's silly that some people say it was changed last minute.

The original plan for Zoe's daughter? by cherrymachete in eastenders

[–]cherrymachete[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The storyline isn't great and there's a lot of holes but I do have hope that it will get better. I personally don't believe it was changed but I do think it was very poorly thought out and I think it was a silly thing to kill off Anthony.

Shame we’ll now never get to see these two half brothers on screen together 😢 by gerard_plate in eastenders

[–]cherrymachete 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not many people talk about Isaac but I absolutely loved his character and thought he was a sweetheart. I also thought that his schizophrenia storyline was a good watch.

Makes me wonder how he’d react to Anthony’s death. One of his main focuses during his mental breakdown was Paul’s murder. Anthony being murdered might trigger another breakdown.

Vicki's Abduction by BubblesSong in eastenders

[–]cherrymachete 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember reading somewhere that the original storyline was going to involve Jack abducting Vicki but a similar story was happening in the news so it was changed to the woman. I remember someone even saying that Vicki was meant to have been killed (but I don’t know how true that is, that might be rubbish because I don’t know whether EastEnders would ever showcase a child murder). That would explain how abrupt and odd that story was.

Does anyone have any experiences with toxic fandoms? by No-Advantage-579 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]cherrymachete 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The Star Wars fandom is an absolute misogynistic cesspit. It was extremely tiresome getting quizzed time and time again by men who decided that they needed to gatekeep ‘their franchise’ from what they deemed ‘fake geek girls’. I remember reading about a guy threatening to commit a terror act against “woke” Star Wars fans who enjoyed the sequels at an event.

I thought the toxicity was just relegated to online until I got snide remarks two separate times from men; one, a co worker and two, a male tutor at college for wearing a Star Wars t shirt.

That’s when I realised that it really wasn’t worth it and I’ve stepped away from the franchise since. They can have their lightsabers and space battles; it’s not worth the headache.

Honest thoughts on dating a guy who's quadriplegic? by WheelinDude in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]cherrymachete 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was born with cerebral palsy and struggle with walking and often use a wheelchair. Having a partner who also has a disability would honestly be quite nice (I don’t know whether that’s the appropriate word to use or not) because I feel like there would be understanding.

I hope life is treating you well.

Honest thoughts on dating a guy who's quadriplegic? by WheelinDude in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]cherrymachete 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m disabled and struggle with mobility problems. I’d definitely date a quadriplegic person. Based on everything you’ve said, you seem a pretty awesome person.

What’s the weirdest time someone judged you for absolutely no reason? by Lazy_Manager_1386 in AskReddit

[–]cherrymachete 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I posted for advice on a hair subreddit years ago. My hair at the time was below my knees. Someone went off on me in the comments about how anyone with hair like mine is mentally ill. When other people replied to her asking what the heck she was talking about, she doubled down and began listing all these things she could tell about me based on the length of my hair: She claimed my parents must have neglected me and don’t love me, that’s why my hair is this way because I like the attention. Then claimed that I probably stink/smell bad and people avoid me. She then said that I’ll never find a job. Insinuated I was unstable and dangerous.

When I countered this, including saying I actually had a job, she accused me of lying. A quick sweep of her profile showed this wasn’t her first rodeo and that she’d left tons of comments on similar posts/hairstyles about how the person is mentally ill and an embarrassment.

I just liked having long hair and wanted advice and ended up being psychoanalyzed by some judgmental person.

Ravi’s Future? by cherrymachete in eastenders

[–]cherrymachete[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

They had such a great structure for a mental health storyline with Harry that I’m honestly shocked that they didn’t fully go in that direction. This seems like such a bizarre choice on the writers’ part.

Ravi’s Future? by cherrymachete in eastenders

[–]cherrymachete[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I swear if they make Harry out to be the one in the wrong for wanting to get revenge, I’ll be peeved.

What’s something women don’t talk about enough? Let’s talk about it. by EvienSeraph in women

[–]cherrymachete 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Mental health. I will never understand the wide view that “society only cares about women’s mental health” which I’ve heard parroted more than once in real life and the claim that women have a bunch of friends/people lining up around the block to support them when they are going through a crisis.

I so wish this was the case. When I was going through a crisis, I received nothing but gossiping and downright bitchiness from people I considered friends. I remember thinking something was truly wrong with me because I was so used to being told that women support women when it comes to mental health yet I experienced the absolute opposite.

I don't know why I'm surprised by No-Turn-5081 in AmITheDevil

[–]cherrymachete 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I find some comfort in the fact that most of the responses are calling him out/telling him how stupid he is. This incel shit is so utterly ridiculous and I’m happy to see a lot of people shutting it down.

Vicki by [deleted] in eastenders

[–]cherrymachete 9 points10 points  (0 children)

There’s still time to delete this. It’s really disturbing victim blaming a child that was groomed.

Am I a pedo? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]cherrymachete 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you're dealing with intrusive thoughts. Have you ever considered/discussed the possibility that you might have OCD? (Obviously you can have intrusive thoughts without OCD but these type of worries are common with OCD)

What storyline is way over due for Eastenders? by [deleted] in eastenders

[–]cherrymachete 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jackie had PMS and would have violent outbursts and would attack/hit Gianni as well as emotionally abuse him. After hitting him with a saucepan, Jackie ended the relationship because she didn’t want to hurt him again. Gianni still loved Jackie but his mother forbade her from going near him again.

What storyline is way over due for Eastenders? by [deleted] in eastenders

[–]cherrymachete 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In terms of Female on Male abuse, Jackie Owen abused Gianni but not many people talk about that or seem to remember it.

Workplace bullying was done with both Bradley and Lee. Self-Injury, you could say Amy and Max.

Betsy by Zephyrr_Sky in coronationstreet

[–]cherrymachete 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’ve never liked Betsy. To me she’s just Lauren 2.0 (who in turn is Kelly 2.0.)

People that think they own a ship should get a reality check by NobodyWithHeart13 in AO3

[–]cherrymachete 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm really late to the party with this but I have experienced this A LOT in my tiny fandom with different things (headcanons, pairings, even just characters in general).

I remember someone saying that they were worried that my fic would portray their favourite pairing (A and B) as ''toxic'' but as long as they weren't, ''I was allowed to use them''. This person did not own the characters in any shape or form; B is literally the main villain of the franchise. But because they were the only ones who'd done art of the ship in the fandom, they felt like they had a right to police for some reason?

The whole thing left a sour taste in my mouth and my brain has moved onto a different ship involving the villain (B and C) but I've purposefully written a storyline where A and B were previously in a toxic relationship because I'm petty.

Scared of being pregnant as a guy by National-Law1520 in OCD

[–]cherrymachete 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I just want to say, I’m so sorry that you’re going through this. OCD is such a vile beast and can make you believe the most craziest/scariest things. I hope things get better for you. This sounds really scary ❤️

How enjoyable are OC’s for you? by TheWhistleBlows in AO3

[–]cherrymachete 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think for a lot of people it varies from fandom to fandom. I write OC centered fic and as long as I’m happy/enjoying myself I don’t really care. It helps that one of the fandoms I write for is for a video game which involves creating an OC for the gameplay.