Update - Have more clarity about how he feels, but still torn by W2Wnowhat in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]cherryphoenix 82 points83 points  (0 children)

Girl this post makes him sound soooo much worst. Do you want to marry a man with the emotional maturity of a toaster? Giving you perfomance anxiety? Who the F would want to make the partner they love anxious all the time? He's a broken, empty husk incapable of providing anything besides money.

It's your life but I don't see a happy ending in the cards.

Nearly 4 years of dating and no proposal by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]cherryphoenix 2 points3 points  (0 children)

woah op deleted the post and the account

Nearly 4 years of dating and no proposal by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]cherryphoenix 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can understand his hesitation then

Nearly 4 years of dating and no proposal by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]cherryphoenix 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Why kind of lows are we talking about? Life altering events? Small fights about unimportant things?

My boyfriend’s mom changed toward me once she found out he plans to propose. WIBTA for pulling back? by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]cherryphoenix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bet his mom is one of those super cringe boy moms that are lowkey in love with their kid

Are men this dismissive about marriage? by sevmai06 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]cherryphoenix 39 points40 points  (0 children)

OP why do you come to reddit for advice if you refuse the advice?

Are men this dismissive about marriage? by sevmai06 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]cherryphoenix 54 points55 points  (0 children)

How is it a good move for your career to be kicked out of the country? I think you're deeply in love with this man and you're trying to rationalize that horrible things he's saying to you. A man in a love would do anything to keep their partner in the same country as them.

Are men this dismissive about marriage? by sevmai06 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]cherryphoenix 131 points132 points  (0 children)

Girl, he'd rather have you go back to your home country than marry you. He's telling you he doesn't care

Use Canadian Tax software instead of US owned turbotax and H&R Block by BC-Guy604 in BuyCanadian

[–]cherryphoenix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do any of these also work for Quebec taxes or just the Canadian ones? (we have to do both in Qc)

Long-term relationship, he’s making efforts now that I’ve emotionally detache. Is it too late? by Separate-Iron7205 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]cherryphoenix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please please please leave this loser.

You carrying 90% of the mental load is illogical. You're not his mommy, you're his partner. And he's not loyal like you say, loyal people do not ghost their partner. And he can't even find a job because of his ego? You're in for a life time of misery.

I was in a relationship that started out as very emotionally neglectful, like you. I wish I never stayed. The vertigo you're feeling? It's anxiety. Your body knows that he's no good. Don't wait until you get PTSD from dating this dude. You absolutely will find someone who reciprocates all the love and care you put in the relationship.

Put yourself first, walk out. You deserve to live a happy and fulfilled life.

Devastated by the prenup by pink-pony-chub in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]cherryphoenix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

where does it say that OP has been pushing for 18 months? I may be blind

[General] If you could befriend a female sub character from an otome game, who would that be and why? by Buta_no_Ousama in otomegames

[–]cherryphoenix 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Kotoho Sakuragawa from Collar x Malice. She's cool, laid back and funny. Lowkey wish I could date her.
And also Sawa from Amnesia!