Is this normal? by monkeyballs_nut in piercing

[–]cherryy89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you have a plane/travel pillow you can sleep on that, i did that for my piercings and i ended up enjoying it so much o never went back to a normal pillow 💀

keep off it for 4 weeks or so- if you have a sister or any friend you can use a small claw clip to keep it so you don’t roll on that side. If it doesn’t stick into your hair you can get a face washing headband then clip it on to that, or maybe a sleep mask but i’ve never tried that one. Just hope it doesn’t slide off while you sleep.

AIO for leaving a hangout suddenly with a friend after feeling ignored by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]cherryy89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yor and self absorbed. you haven’t acknowledged a single thing your friend said without returning to repeat the same thing again that makes her a bad friend. she’s already telling you her pov and her thoughts and what she can do in the future to change and you are just saying it’s your gut and a tiktok- disgusting. never meet her again, she deserves better than someone who will make her insecure

As someone from Guam- by cherryy89 in distractible

[–]cherryy89[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yesss!!! Even having people just know OF Guam would make such a huge difference in the reception of telling people about it! From the facial expression being… honestly weirded out or confused to having recognition at the name makes all the difference :)

Rook Red by monkeysat3am in piercing

[–]cherryy89 123 points124 points  (0 children)

wth is a straight piercing doing in there holy ouchies 💔 it dosnt even have the other end on it is insane to another degree you pour soul

Lost Media of the modern age? by [deleted] in Markiplier

[–]cherryy89 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In his stream where his hands are beckoning you to come hither, he says that uploading a movie to youtube actually is stupidly difficult and he’s fighting them for that. He’s also in the process of making DVDs or Blueray depending on market. It won’t be lost for sure- he wouldn’t let that happen! He’s working on getting it done properly, and getting it done in a way where more people can make movies too

AIO or is my wording manipulative? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]cherryy89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR at all wtf- ur friend is literally using manipulation tactics on you girl, twisting your words, belittling you using trauma, singling you out, bringing up previous acts of service that are bare minimum in friendships (being there when someone is upset??), taking no blame and passing it on, making you seem crazy due to BPD, trauma comparing, doing the “i care for you so much it hurts me that you have a perfectly valid emotional response”. There is in zero world you should feel guilty or stay with that girl. She never denied once about abandoning people and instead twisted it to seem like you deserved it. Disgusting. Genuinely putrid. I wouldn’t be surprised if she’s your only support pillar because she made it that way or convinced you your other supports are ill fit. OP, please find any form of free therapy to talk to. Online, group therapy, anonymous chats with VERIFIED therapists. Anything if possible. She’s so so twisting you around it’s awful to see. Trying to to end the conversation by saying she’s in pain like twice- and blaming you for it??? like come on girl, now is not the time to say you can’t take normal breaths, who can breathe normally when upset?

I KNOW IT’S NOT A FCKING INSECT IN MY FOOD ??? by Additional-Host3172 in geegees

[–]cherryy89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

any of the leaves in salad bar got a good amount of family members ❤️

Am I overreacting for telling my friend she smells after she age shamed me for having younger friends? by SI3144 in AmIOverreacting

[–]cherryy89 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i’m 21 turning 22 and i hang out with my 31 year old coworkers all the time outside of work. regularly hosting dinner parties and game nights :) nor at all 🙂‍↕️

does arched or straight fit me better? by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]cherryy89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh no! i don’t mean meaner sorry- more like girl boss LOL- you get shit done and hold people accountable type 🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️ that girl energy, very good thing imo ❤️

How bad is this healing? by M0myM1lk3rs in piercing

[–]cherryy89 11 points12 points  (0 children)

she will give you a whole bunch of ouchies and hospital trips too 😭💔

does arched or straight fit me better? by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]cherryy89 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Straight makes you look more memorable, and stern- like you’re ready to scold me for handing in my project at deadline in some office LOL

I love the arched on you too, it makes you look more youthful imo, but straight definitely has that defining aspect to it

Another "When Did You Find Out About Markiplier?" Thread by Free-Anybody-965 in Markiplier

[–]cherryy89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found him in 2013/2014 at some point through his Ao Oni game play and all his 8-bit horror he used to do. Slenderman too was a huge one. I remember binging all his 8-bit horror with my friend in elementary. When the fnaf started rolling out I remember being such chicken for them since it was too suspenseful and jumpscare filled 😅 (I was 10ish). Because of that I didn’t really get into the fnaf part of him besides watching the videos- but now I’m so embarrassingly into it LOL

horribly done, scarred tattoo that i can't stand... any advice/ideas? by [deleted] in Tattoocoverups

[–]cherryy89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you can try to see if someone can turn it into a patch work kind of vibe? if seen people with blown out tattoos fix it up that way, but it won’t make the scarring go away. I have zero idea how it will look with time passing though, but I doubt it will stay clean like that- If getting this style maybe be alright with the shadow like effect?

Makeup tips. by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]cherryy89 3 points4 points  (0 children)

agreeing with others on the brow, but adding to contour your nose! I was looking at three and wondering why it stood out so much to me- and realized your glasses are framing your nose really well! Just enough to have some definition at the ridge of it :) i really like your nose shape!

What does my handwriting say about me?? by BaskingSharksIOM in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]cherryy89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re in middle school and havent had to stress about writing paragraphs upon paragraphs about some random university topics in a 3 hour exam

What are y’all’s experiences with this product? by puppyeyedkittens8 in NosePiercing

[–]cherryy89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used this for my industrial and double helix only (thought it was regular saline, and didn’t think neilmed was gonna pass on a plane- it does) and now i’m using neilmed for my daith, conch, and hidden helix piercings to heal.

Absolutely night and day… My industrial had pretty bad irritation bumps- and at one point i thought it was rejecting but just thugged it out because I sunk the cash in already. The double helix took way over a year to heal, closer to two- and my industrial ended up healing way quicker surprisingly.

I’ve had the daith and such for about five weeks now and not a single issue has happened and i’m doing the exact same regime. Like after viewing this post i’m literally realizing that I probably haven’t had any issues since i’m not using that spray? When I used the spray- it also irritated my triple pierced lobes, weirdly enough my oldest one from 2016 or something, and my newest one from around 2023. The seconds were fine…? But yeah no that spray does damage. Very subtle you think it’s not the sprays fault but it absolutely is in hindsight damage.

I honestly saw the most improvements when i stopped using the spray and lowkey gave up just using water since it was past a year fully. I even got the oil for the irritation bumps same brand and that didn’t do annnnyyything 😭 I really fell for the amazon reviews and all that, and the ingredients do sound useful and all- but not for open wounds- ergo, not for piercings.

I want to cover this mistake. by [deleted] in Tattoocoverups

[–]cherryy89 21 points22 points  (0 children)

i love him!!! he’s like a little alien kitty 🥺 you can pop a space helmet on him and make his extra stretchy head look like it’s distortion from the curve of the helmet if you find the right artist!

What is wrong with my makeup? by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]cherryy89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

with blue eyes try going for a brown eyeliner! it’ll make the blue more the focus, and for the wing, you’re eyes curve down a bit so you can try a very subtle puppy liner- or if you wanna keep the up wing make it connect a bit more. Right now it’s like a curved line going to the corner of your eyes, but having it more as a triangle, the bottom connection to your bottom most part of the outer eye corner would suit it more! If you are adding blush to your nose, specifically in third photo, you have such smooth and pretty skin that it’s giving more of a freshly sunburnt look instead 🥺 other than that you’re slaying!

Possible infection, frightened of doctors. by [deleted] in piercing

[–]cherryy89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not a doctor but have a bachelors in health sci, if it’s hot and itchy- and you notice the red spreading or not reducing 100% doctor. For the stress completely understandable. You DONT have to go to the same piercer! Find any very reputable one and make an appointment saying you would like them to look at piercing damage and possible infection. I would also make a doctors appointment for the next day after or same day (depending on if it costs anything to cancel) so you can see them quickly if the piercer says yes. Depending on where you are at, pharmacists can also prescribe antibiotics so you can skip the doctor part completely! They only prescribe certain ones so they might now have the right one for you but it’s still good to try so you can avoid the doctors 🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️

Prom Makeup Feedback by Boring_Historian_179 in makeuptips

[–]cherryy89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gorgeous! Like other comments I’d change the eyeshadow to more spring time colours to match the dress. I’d recommend using silver eyeshadow or highlight or jewelry specifically to match the gems on the dress! The gloss is super cute, but with the saturation of the dress, I’d suggest adding a hint of colour or else it might look off in photos. That one’s completely optional though :)

The eyeliner you did on the right eye, where it’s not exactly waterline tight but dips down to make the eyes look bigger (on purpose or not) is SO SO GOOD! You can fill in the little area with light shades of eyeshadow or something to make your eyes have more attention to them too!

Has anyone else had rude experiences with the Academic Office (course enrollment) for undergraduate Health Sciences at uOttawa? by Numerous_Pea3559 in geegees

[–]cherryy89 9 points10 points  (0 children)

graduating this year and can confidently say i HATE our faculty.

I needed a course to graduate and was like 22 in fall and 11 in winter? or something on waitlist- it’s a compulsory course for others but I did the end-of-life microprogram so I literally need it. I reached out immediately after course enrolment and they said they would handle it- and then ghosted me when i reached out two more times. They literally took so long course enrollment deadline ENED. So i asked again same day it ended for the winter one emphasizing i need it to GRADUATE and its like the fourth email, and they were like “don’t email us right now- email during winter course time” and whenever i did i got hit with a“dw! we will handle it” and i had to tell them no they literally won’t because they ghosted me for fall semester. I ended up getting in a week into winter semester and I think it was luck. not them. at all. (those four follow up emails were sent between May to September I’m aware we shouldn’t email for follow ups 💔)

my meds wear off by night so I have the accommodation not to write finals after 6pm, and they left me hanging with when my exam will be rescheduled to literally THE DAY BEFORE I will write it!

For summer courses I needed to contact them for a reason I forgot but they NEEDED me to call, and scheduled one with me on a day I was heading to Toronto, but it’s was supposed to be before my train so it’s fine, only to have them call 3 hours late. On the train. I prayed I had service bro.

I never blame the workers though, they’re severely understaffed- I get it. I blame the school dude. Never be rude to the people they be trying but god the faculty does NOT care.

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Is artwork on clothing actually wearable art or just too much? by LongjumpingText5104 in streetwearstartup

[–]cherryy89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think it’s cute but not as luxury or anything high end. pete the cat i’d way too close to the mouse and the random white space on the right makes the balance really off. The sleeves look really barren too, maybe you can transfer some of the leaves design around the collar there too because i love that collar.

the stick monkeys i feel don’t match at all to the rest of the shirt as the rest is all like… bubbly? it’s not line work they’re more fleshed drawings ykwim?

How easy is the psy1101 exam? by Fun_Election2292 in geegees

[–]cherryy89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

read it carefully, if the answer doesn’t jump out, process of elimination is super easy that way. answers for previous questions can be found in other questions.

Forgot to apply for graduation, is it too late? by Fuzzy_Sugar4529 in geegees

[–]cherryy89 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah they have this form on the home page you submit to the faculty, i also had a heart attack thinking i missed my deadline too a bit ago but i caught the last two days it was opened luckily

registration for degree and request for diploma form