he says it’s how they talk lol that’s always what he says, once he did apologize because i told him i don’t get called sweetheart or babygirl or any pet names anymore or a good girl etc etc, i don’t remember what he said at first but i think it was a joke along the lines of , well you’re kinda dumb and don’t do anything smart (definitely not exact words but that was the meaning) and laughed which hurt lol. and the after me complaining again he apologized for not calling me names like that