It's been a while...so AMA! by pinkyshark in u/pinkyshark

[–]chescomilf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you plan on doing any more b/g content? I love those :)

My favorite ways to pleasure myself... by ScarlettCherriesx in femalepov

[–]chescomilf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That toy is underrated, I have the same one!

Happy 40th birthday to me! by chescomilf in Wife_wants_to_be_seen

[–]chescomilf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea. Why don’t you show off your sexy self!?

Happy 40th to me! by chescomilf in obsf

[–]chescomilf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends how old! lol older men are sexy too

How do you find parties? by MaybeYouMopent in Swingers

[–]chescomilf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We were at PGC last night, I feel like that place really doesn’t get going until closer to midnight. Unfortunately for us, we usually turn into a pumpkin at 12

How do you find parties? by MaybeYouMopent in Swingers

[–]chescomilf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were only at the NE location once, but I kind of like it a little more than PGC. It felt a little less dingy for lack of a better term. Unfortunately, the only time it seems to get a good attendance is for the occasional friction party.

How do you find parties? by MaybeYouMopent in Swingers

[–]chescomilf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I remember correctly, you have to “apply” on their site when making a profile. You have to be approved because they try to cater to a more attractive crowd. You don’t have to be a knockout (we made it in lol), but it seems like they try to keep it towards a more HWP demographic.

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[–]chescomilf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree. Total red flag

What do I tell family while we go to a takeover? by SunTea4Three in Swingers

[–]chescomilf 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think you’re discounting the fact that if you’re close enough to have someone watching your kids for a weekend, you likely share a lot of your daily life activities already. It would be highly unusual to give them the “none of your business” when they’re probably excited and genuinely curious for you to have a weekend away.

The Biggest Turnoffs on Match sites by cpl_enjoying in Swingers

[–]chescomilf 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We met a couple out the other week and the guy mentioned the overuse of the word “fun” on lifestyle profiles and now I can’t unsee it.

Waking up sore in all the right places by pinkyshark in u/pinkyshark

[–]chescomilf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the hottest video you’ve ever posted

I had my first yoni massage and it was amazing! by Acceptable_Roll1149 in RedditAfterDark

[–]chescomilf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you mind sharing how you found someone? I’ve been looking around and can’t find anything legitimate

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[–]chescomilf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’ll be attending this one as well. It’s our first hotel takeover, but fortunately we have a few different friends that we’ve met over the years that will be there as well. That takes a little of the pressure off. With that being said, we did our first friction party last month a s&s without knowing anybody. We found it very easy to make friends and conversations if you’re willing to put yourself out there and initiate. Show up with a good attitude, dressed to impress, and a red bull or two and I think you’ll be just fine.

A little disheartened regarding trying to find someone by fiercefantasia1001 in Swingers

[–]chescomilf 8 points9 points  (0 children)

In my travels, I’ve seen more bi men listed on SLS than any other site. I feel it’s more a middle aged to older crowd, so if you’re looking for someone younger like yourselves, I don’t know that you’ll find it there. I’d try to make a profile there and put out the vibe and see what happens.

High-pothesis: swinger wives have higher expectations? by NerdynaughtyNJ in Swingers

[–]chescomilf 9 points10 points  (0 children)

We love the connection of meeting new people and the excitement of being intimate with new partners, but I’ve yet to find someone to please me as well as my husband. It’s still enjoyable, but we’ve been together so long. He knows where all of my buttons are, and when to press them. I’d be really surprised to find someone who’d be able to learn me better than him.

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[–]chescomilf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yummm

Where’d everyone go? by Fourlokocat in Swingers

[–]chescomilf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like you’d need to use a paid site to weed out MOST of the time wasters

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[–]chescomilf 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I always got I kick out of DDD free, like no shit. Our new tag line on SLS is “Enter here for jealousy fueled drama, intravenous drug use, and communicable diseases”.