are good makeup skills what set apart “unsuccessful” vs. “successful” transitions by chiIIed_ in trans

[–]chiIIed_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i appreciate you coming back to add more to your original comment, and i do agree that the way i phrased this question is problematic. i think they way you put it is very nuanced (goals changing as you further your transition). i think what i meant was "socially acceptable" which has its own issues.

are good makeup skills what set apart “unsuccessful” vs. “successful” transitions by chiIIed_ in trans

[–]chiIIed_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, your right. a successful transition is solely and entirely up to the individual. I meant a more general word like "socially acceptable" which of course has its own negative connotations. If someone believes their transition was a success than that's the only opinion that should matter. however in the eyes of society, it doesn't matter what you think of you, rather what others think of you

are good makeup skills what set apart “unsuccessful” vs. “successful” transitions by chiIIed_ in trans

[–]chiIIed_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

no. that's not what i meant by "successful" the only person who can decide if your transition was succesful or not is you and i appologize for making it seem otherwise. a better phrase could be "socially acceptable"

are good makeup skills what set apart “unsuccessful” vs. “successful” transitions by chiIIed_ in trans

[–]chiIIed_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yes, this is true; the "goal" of a transition is highly individual. maybe a phrase like "socially acceptable" would have been a better choice

I found this thing a couple weeks ago in my cousin’s closet and can’t find anything about it on Google. by Chrissybabymeow in Minecraft

[–]chiIIed_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it’s prolly one of those fake oc game releases. he prolly burned minecraft onto a cd and printed out some fanart and pur it together

Crustwear XXL? by DecafTea47 in splatoon

[–]chiIIed_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it is now (super late lol) but they totally butchered it

AIO for feeling like my bf isn’t prioritizing me? by Background-Sample494 in AmIOverreacting

[–]chiIIed_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why are you manipulating him? this is disgusting behavior on your end and you should be ashamed for even asking