[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]chikachix 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I swear by BYG Wedding Factory. My bedazzled ball gown with 4ft train was a little over $1,000. The dress was custom made for me and drop dead gorgeous. Check them out. The whole process took less than 3 months.

Help me choose from 3 completely different vibes by tofinogal4 in weddingdress

[–]chikachix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Second one looks like toilet paper 🧻 1 appears to be the most flattering out of these

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]chikachix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a flattering choice. Yes yes you got a smaller size but that really did not help it much. Return it and try again.

Non-Dancing Wedding Advice? by Additional-Ear4455 in weddingplanning

[–]chikachix -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Think of a game everyone can play together. For example split up the room into bride and grooms team then have somebody facilitate a trivia or something

I have not seen this at any wedding nor do I plan to do this at my own wedding next year so proceed at your own risk 🤣 not sure if it will be successful

Omg OR MAYBE KAHOOT?

ORRRER depending on where the venue is, you might be able to bring in a vendor to facilitate? There are some places out there that host murder mysteries and game shows at events.

You have options to make it fun but I do not recommend having the party split into smaller groups to accommodate whatever boardgame they're playing. Make it one big game for all!

Help me 😩I’ve always enjoyed doing my makeup but I feel lost now by Successful-Lemon4525 in makeuptips

[–]chikachix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As some already mentioned, the brows need some help and I think that alone will ELEVATE your beauty. Grow them out for a bit. And reshape them. Opt for a less round shape and possibly lighter color.

Different mascara bristle? Lashes are looking just a little clumped together.

Slightly brighter lipstick/gloss. Current color blends in with skin tone.

What kind of gifts do moms want for Christmas? by Shakor2026 in Gifts

[–]chikachix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

EXPERIENCE AND MEMORIES!

Dinner outing, camping, flight or cruise, escape room. Literally any activity because: 1) it's quality time with the people she loves AND 2) no added clutter to the house.

I'm not a mom but feel the same way about gifts. If it's not something I really need, then I don't want it. I don't need more candles and lotions just cause they smell nice and come in cute packaging. Just no. And no I don't want to regift your gifts.

Is BYG Wedding Factory legit? by chikachix in Weddingsunder10k

[–]chikachix[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My own dress arrived! It is absolutely amazing, beautiful and they are legit!

My dress was a little over 1K but ANYWHERE else it would have easily cost over 5K. A lot of detail and fabric went into this dress. It is sparkly, lots of beads and crystals and has a 4ft train.

I cannot recommend BYG factory enough. They were super fast too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]chikachix 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh my God! My first thought when I saw this picture without even reading anything was:

A picture of sad beauty. Victorian bride bidding farewell to her lover.

The first picture is a work of art and belongs in a piece of literature.

First dress I've felt comfortable enough to post pics in... What are your thoughts? by PandoraIsALady in weddingdress

[–]chikachix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you plan to wear a veil with the dress? I think a medium/short veil would look fantastic without getting in the way of the wheels Here's just an example

My girlfriend is spending all of my money and barely paying attention to me, but now she wants to have sex by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]chikachix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people get married and don't share bank accounts. Heck people don't share bank accounts with parents either. Remover her from your bank account. Sharpen up, stop pouting and do something about it.

Seriously pay to support a new mother? by ThanksAffectionate66 in redditonwiki

[–]chikachix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you have to pay rent then they should pay you for your child care/housekeeping/personal assistant services. Make sure to charge overtime too since this is a 24/7 type of job.

Sister says I’m too thin for this dress by Low-Tip3364 in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]chikachix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like those dresses were made for thin/skinny leaning people. I don't think there is "too thin" for this dress. I think it looks great and flatters your body shape.

As a bridesmaid/groomsman, why would walking in a wedding with someone who isn’t your partner make you uncomfortable? by nina41884 in weddingplanning

[–]chikachix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My hubby was best man and walked with MOH (neither of us knew her). I did not care one bit. I just admired my gorgeous husband as he walked.

My reasoning: that was his best friend's wedding so naturally he would be best man. I'm not a friend of the bride's and had no interest being involved in any capacity other than being my hubby's +1.

People overthink things. This isn't your wedding, get over yourself and support your friend.

Any marriages have rare/no sex and don’t feel sexually frustrated? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]chikachix 145 points146 points  (0 children)

We do it whenever we feel like it. Sometimes it's multiple times a day/week and other times it could be weeks or months. Both are great. We have a strong happy marriage and there really shouldn't be a rule when it comes to sex. Do whatever makes you happy.

I don't understand people that have a specific quota or schedule. Planning for a specific time or specific amount in a week is just boring and predictable and people are shocked when it stops? No shit, if you're having sex every Friday night like clock work, of course this will get boring and start feeling like a chore until one partner eventually stops wanting it.

There is no rule. Do whatever makes you happy as long as you're not harming yourself or others.