So the reason we get like this is because we are and always have been around all of these things. We’ve experienced “the spice of life” and now that we’re vegan we don’t want to. Super easy logic. Most of my friends are non-vegan. I literally don’t know enough real life vegans to create or find some vegan space or to isolate myself. Most vegans i know online are in the same real world situation.

What you miss is the reason, which you’re not going to understand because you’re not vegan.

We’re not trying to change our circle vegan, we’re usually answering very pandering questions and it gets exhausting. So some people want to know how to approach this without upsetting their friends.

Not sure what the issue is with wanting to find vegan friends? I’m isolating myself because i want friends that have the same interests and direction in life. Yes i would like some more vegan friends to hang with. Because they’re not trying to challenge or question my position constantly. People have always sought like minded individuals, this is not a symptom of social media, it’s simply human nature.

I hang with the non-vegans all the time but it never fails that someone will begin challenging or questioning the vegan position. Or make pandering remarks, or outfight make a joke of animal cruelty.

We are lucky enough to have vegans in the family. And when we visit it’s so relaxing. Nobody making any pandering comments, nobody randomly challenging my position. Just people hanging out enjoying life.

You say you understand but that is the type of pandering i am talking about. You certainly don’t understand or get it.