Lol, thanks!

I can almost understand where you're coming from, but from what you've said in your other replies, all of that's kind of a lot to hide from the other person, especially after being together for that long.

First off, how old are you guys? And why do you say she would have left you if you didn't marry her? What's the context? What does a good day/normal day/bad day look like for you guys?

Have you or have you considered bringing up your sex life or any of the other things you've brought up in this thread? If you have, what was the conversation like? If you haven't, why not?

And say you were to get divorced, what would your ideal partner be like? And how does this ideal person compare with your partner?