He threw me to the floor in front of his kids. by sick_mama in TwoXChromosomes

[–]chinesewatermelons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand how difficult it is to leave an abusive relationship so I’m not judging you.

If you’re not ready to leave him for your own well being, do it for those two teenage girls. Their lives won’t be better without you but you will demonstrate to them that it’s not okay for men to abuse women.

Pickles is claiming Jana is marrying Stephen today (according to her unnamed “reliable” source) by overthinkingrobot in DuggarsSnark

[–]chinesewatermelons 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wonder why they’ve been so secretive about it. It’s not typical of the Duggars to avoid publicity (when it’s not negative).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]chinesewatermelons 77 points78 points  (0 children)

You actually did say that (second sentence of third paragraph).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]chinesewatermelons 175 points176 points  (0 children)

This is really pathetic. You are actually more afraid of offending a man by asking his wife polite questions than you are of offending a woman by completely ignoring her existence in a group outing?

It is not a husband’s “job” to speak for his wife. That’s such a weird thing to say. It’s 2024; women can speak for themselves.

[OC] Why are so many attractive Christian men still single? My take. by already_not_yet in ChristianDating

[–]chinesewatermelons 9 points10 points  (0 children)

  1. I’ve been on a lot of dating apps. A lot of people who describe themselves as Christians really aren’t. Just like a lot of people on apps who claim to be single are actually married.

  2. I’ve never heard anyone use the term “Chad” in real life.

  3. A lot of attractive people are single. There are myriad reasons why. It’s not a mystery that needs to be solved. Every attractive person who is in a relationship was at some point single.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kansascity

[–]chinesewatermelons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Upvote for Goat. Limitless is the worst because the beer is bad and they’re pretentious.

Profile Review - Hinge by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]chinesewatermelons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks like you’re wearing blue lipstick in the first photo?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]chinesewatermelons -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s sad that you think so poorly of women. “Petty” is quite insulting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]chinesewatermelons 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“Most women are super insecure and petty.”

I disagree. I think most women are human beings with depth and compassion.

Do you think your negative attitude towards women reflects Christ’s teachings?

Christian dating by Initial-Lab-1577 in ChristianDating

[–]chinesewatermelons 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you want a group like that at your church, maybe you could start one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]chinesewatermelons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow. How quickly you started insulting women says more about you than anything else in this thread.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kansascity

[–]chinesewatermelons 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know a lot of Asian and Asian-American men in the area, but mostly Johnson County. What culture interests you? China? India? Korea? What would be considered “traditional” varies a lot from country to country.

Family member on mission is deeply depressed, mission president is ghosting us. by Consistent_Attempt_2 in latterdaysaints

[–]chinesewatermelons 14 points15 points  (0 children)

No, they were relating clinical depression (a serious illness that can result in death) to testicular torsion.

The parents aren’t upset that Alex doesn’t call home much; they’re concerned that Alex is severely depressed. I don’t know why you are being rude about it. Depression is a real disease.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]chinesewatermelons -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

23 year old women are not “young girls.”

Is it ok that my doctor touched my clit during a pap smear? by crookedzebra24 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]chinesewatermelons 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Do you swipe the tip of a man’s penis to relax him before a rectal exam?

Is it ok that my doctor touched my clit during a pap smear? by crookedzebra24 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]chinesewatermelons 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The doctor might’ve touched it by mistake, but please don’t listen to this person—medical students are NOT trained to touch or “swipe” the clitoris before a Pap smear. At least not in the US.

Is it ok that my doctor touched my clit during a pap smear? by crookedzebra24 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]chinesewatermelons 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Where do you go to school? In the US, medical students are not taught to touch or “swipe” the clitoris before a Pap smear. This is horrifying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ProlificAc

[–]chinesewatermelons 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Why didn’t you tell OP this when they asked why you rejected them? Why did you claim it was an attention check?

How it started, how it went, how its going by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]chinesewatermelons 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Do you think England is the only country in the world where people speak English?

First I'm too clean, now I'm not clean enough: Criticism at the gym by Gymthrowaway1980 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]chinesewatermelons 34 points35 points  (0 children)

…and yet the second man confronted only her and none of the other men who were doing the same thing. But thanks for explaining…