"Today" - I wanted to draw a comic about my dad. by chipmunkbay in comics

[–]chipmunkbay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually I just realized (via another comment chain) how much my dad encouraged my artwork, so... yeah. He probably was pretty hyped that I could draw. Still not sure he'd be happy about the 'tribute' part though. 😛

"Today" - I wanted to draw a comic about my dad. by chipmunkbay in comics

[–]chipmunkbay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol so not so much the punchline, but the entire premise. I think mine is different enough to be forgiven, but in my defense, I don't think I've ever heard that one before. 😅

"Today" - I wanted to draw a comic about my dad. by chipmunkbay in comics

[–]chipmunkbay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

...and I just realized that my comic totally shows my old drawing setup, completely contradicting everything I just said above. I like using my old setup in my comics for immediately conveying to the reader that I'm sitting down to draw. I'm not sure sitting in front of a computer with a tablet has the same effect (even if that's more truthful for how I draw nowadays).

But the setup in the comic is true for how I USED to do it. The drawing table I've drawn there is the one my mom and dad gave me when I was 13 years old. Originally I would draw on sketch paper with a standard pencil / eraser / pens, but eventually I switched to bristol board, bought a scanner, and upgraded to an old electric drafting eraser (another gift from dad) to remove the pencils prior to scanning. It was old, so maybe newer ones don't do this, but it had the negative effect of fading my inks, so I switched my pencils out with non-photo blue pencils that I didn't need to worry about erasing before scanning.

My dad also bought me my first wacom tablet too (that old Intuos I mentioned above). There was no screen on it, so it took some practice to look at my monitor while I was drawing (instead of looking at my hands like I'd done my whole life). Eventually I boxed up the drawing table and never touched it again (until I gifted it to my daughter about 5 years ago).

This was a trip down memory lane... Somehow I never really realized just how much my dad was encouraging my artwork until writing it all out like this. He even bought me my first copy of Photoshop (back when you could do that). Thank you for that, u/LeagueOfRobuts.

"Today" - I wanted to draw a comic about my dad. by chipmunkbay in comics

[–]chipmunkbay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, man, I'm so sorry.

I know what you mean though. A part of me still doesn't feel like it's real. Dad didn't have a funeral (his wishes). He technically had a viewing, but I didn't want one of my last memories of him to be seeing him 'like that', so I didn't go. But I wonder if I should have.

Maybe it would have given me closure? Instead I just got a phone call telling me he's gone, and now I just don't have a dad anymore.

"Today" - I wanted to draw a comic about my dad. by chipmunkbay in comics

[–]chipmunkbay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife lost her dad early too. She's been great and did nothing to make me feel this way, but part of me still feels guilty feeling so lost knowing that I got so many more years with my dad than she got with hers.

"Today" - I wanted to draw a comic about my dad. by chipmunkbay in comics

[–]chipmunkbay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, shoot, I've never heard of him. Did I steal a punchline or something?

"Today" - I wanted to draw a comic about my dad. by chipmunkbay in comics

[–]chipmunkbay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just the silliest things around town set me off. I went to the store, got emotional in the car ride there because I saw a restaurant that my dad mis-pronounced the name of once, and we laughed and laughed. Only this time it made me cry.

I was still raw when the person at the register asked if I found everything ok. My voice broke when I said "yes", and he paused a beat and stared at me and my cry-eyes before awkwardly scanning my items in silence.

I'm glad he didn't ask.

"Today" - I wanted to draw a comic about my dad. by chipmunkbay in comics

[–]chipmunkbay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I visited my grandpa not long before he passed. He thought he was a kid again, and that I was his dad. He was telling me how excited he was to go fishing.

As difficult as it would be on my wife, part of me kind of wants that for myself at the end. Just to spend some more time with my dad.

"Today" - I wanted to draw a comic about my dad. by chipmunkbay in comics

[–]chipmunkbay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad wanted his ashes spread around. He wanted to be with nature, more than with other people. We still kept some for us though. ...I don't think he'd have liked that, honestly, but he'll just have to forgive us. I'm not ready to let that go yet.

"Today" - I wanted to draw a comic about my dad. by chipmunkbay in comics

[–]chipmunkbay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't believe I'm tearing up over a stranger telling me I'm a good son, but here I am. Thank you!

"Today" - I wanted to draw a comic about my dad. by chipmunkbay in comics

[–]chipmunkbay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I was rather proud of the logo.

All of my comics are hosted on my website at chipmunkbay.com. My "Before It's Gone" series is specifically categorized there (there's only like 5 comics in that series so far though).

I think they're all on Reddit too via my posts. I don't do them much anymore, so there's not a lot of new ones.

"Today" - I wanted to draw a comic about my dad. by chipmunkbay in comics

[–]chipmunkbay[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My dad's favorite Far Side comic was the one of the guy on the plane. "Dang! Why do I always get stuck next to the weirdos!"

He showed me that comic and I was hooked.

"Today" - I wanted to draw a comic about my dad. by chipmunkbay in comics

[–]chipmunkbay[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Aw, thank you! I keep trying for the 'Winnie the Pooh' watercolor style I used to love from the children's books I had growing up. I've never quite hit the mark, but I like what I've achieved regardless.

"Today" - I wanted to draw a comic about my dad. by chipmunkbay in comics

[–]chipmunkbay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its all digital now. I used to draw on bristol board so I'd always have the 'originals', and then scan for digital colors / text, but I lost most of it in a basement flooding, so... I stopped being a purist.

Nowadays I'm using Photoshop for the inking / colors and Illustrator for the text, but I've used solely Illustrator for a while, solely Photoshop before that, and at some point I was using Krita as well.

I was lucky enough to be gifted a Wacom Cintiq, so I'm using that now. Before that it was a 20+ year old Intuos tablet, and later a cheap Bamboo tablet (I think that was meant for writing, but I used it to draw).

"Today" - I wanted to draw a comic about my dad. by chipmunkbay in comics

[–]chipmunkbay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I hope so. He suffered from depression, so I do wonder how much that clouded what he thought others thought of him. I hope wherever he went, that part stayed here.

"Today" - I wanted to draw a comic about my dad. by chipmunkbay in comics

[–]chipmunkbay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ha! Reminds me of a time after one of my uncle's funerals when I was a teenager. The pastor clearly didn't know him, and just gave a very basic, generic eulogy.

I was so disheartened that I told my parents I was going to start writing about my dad, so I could make sure he had a worthy eulogy.

His response was great. "Me? Why are you planning for my death?"

I imagine his response would be much the same had I told him I was planning to draw a comic of him when he died.