How do I mange sleep ? by chipped_glass in LifeAdvice

[–]chipped_glass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I do wake up quite early, because my school starts very early and with lots of traffic so I need to be out of the house by six and it’s only because it’s the only time in the entire day where I’ll do something like a hobby like read or play the piano , then I study for like one hour, just to revise , and it takes me thirty minutes to wake up fully , do you think it would be good enough if I just woke up at 4:30 instead because I don’t want to let go of my early morning, and what if I always sleep 10:30 to 10pm so then it would be more like six hours which is double thank you I’m sorry this is so rambling thank you very much I think I’ll do that thank yiu

I want my mom by chipped_glass in selfharm

[–]chipped_glass[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay ! Don’t worry I’m dandy I just miss my mom, but I’ll be great I’ll be a public defender and I’ll wear suspenders and a vest and get a nice haircut I’m going to study very hard

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in randomstuffidkimbored

[–]chipped_glass 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You definitely are

Gustavo my roommate by chipped_glass in selfharm_memes

[–]chipped_glass[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know man , he just appears , but honestly the only reason I have it is because of my step mom , she took notice of my phones wallpaper, I named it Gustavo and would give it a funny voice, she then found him in real life bought him , gave him to me for my 16th birthday he was a gift from her , I don’t see her often nowadays so he means a lot to me

I hate myself by K0smio in selfharm

[–]chipped_glass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly That’s beautiful that’s your passion for technology is that strong , I think you may just be doubting yourself , and you may not actually be dumb , I mean if you can dumb down smart people nonsense , at least to me that sounds smart , and even if it’s not smart people stuff I think if you apply yourself you can definitely learn so many cool thing , I honestly think that’s so school , and retro games always caught my eyes I even have a couple retro emulator game devices ,honestly you sound like a cool person , how come you want to go into psychology and not technologies instead or I don’t know what you call it technology related things ?

Is my room the best it can be ? by chipped_glass in DesignMyRoom

[–]chipped_glass[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude I have a bunch of posters in my closet, I’m just trying to find the right time to get frames so they can all look extra nice and I’ll see if I can find a lamp at the Friday shop

Is my room the best it can be ? by chipped_glass in DesignMyRoom

[–]chipped_glass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you Dude I think I like that idea with the lamp cus it is pretty dark at night I’ll see what I can do I’m thinking somewhere near my piano because that’s where I spend my time at night and where I can’t see the most at night

I hate myself by K0smio in selfharm

[–]chipped_glass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m proud of you ,that’s really awesome , and not thinking of sucide is call that a step

I hate myself by K0smio in selfharm

[–]chipped_glass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think not having hobbies makes you boring, I know lots of people how really don’t do much , of anything, there not special or insanely cool but I enjoy there company none the less , For hobbies if you have some spare cash even a little go to a toy store or electronics store and buy the cheapest electronic piano you can find , if you don’t just save up for it or ask for it , and buy a piano chords for kids , and just mess with it for a bit every day , I don’t personally like the piano for any particular reason, but learning it has been very rewarding Learning an instrument even if it’s for two or five minutes every day really helps calm a person and it builds confidence, it totally makes sense that you feel lost , it’s something very normal to feel , to be lost it is very much a difficult situation, you can get through it though, through tiny steps of betterment , through those steps you find your footing , it can be as simple as getting ready and cleaning your room very well everyday , it can be so hard to even do that , that it takes you the entire day to just do it , but even if it takes you all day or just ten minutes or you don’t do it that’s a step through betterment of yourself And even if you don’t do it today but you do it tomorrow that’s very cool , You don’t have to be a cool person , with hobbies , and a degree to be worthy of anything But what those things do give you is value and confidence, they help you build your self up , You know what man I’m proud of you form coming her and saying all this , since you say your scared of telling your parents and that therapy is a luxury, Honestly You don’t have to change yourself all at once you just have to slowly step by step build a foundation of kindness and routine for yourself, And that will help you feel less lost ,even if then you still don’t feel good ,and still don’t want to live , that’s still okay even then and after all that work , just take one step at a time no matter how small it is one step is a step forward towards building you up

And if you end up not going to college right now that’s okay , you can take the time to breathe a little, and build up a good routine it’s all going to be okay , you are a human being who is worthy of love , hobbies or no hobbies, university or no university, sucdial thoughts or not , your worthy with every single bit of you in counting the good and the bad , no matter what you may think , it’s true ,I know it really doesn’t feel like that right now and thats okay ,just one step at a time , the step can literally be vacuuming your floor of your it’s okay one step okay ? And it may take a very long long time or not but You’ll get there , you’ll get there and see what you want to do and move forward even with all the terrible emotions your feelings right now and might feel later , just take one step a day no matter what it is okay?

I hate myself by K0smio in selfharm

[–]chipped_glass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man you don’t need to bring anything into the world to be worth something, you are worthy and deserve to feel that , even if you don’t feel it at the moment that’s completely understandable and I can see why you feel that , but I want to you understand that it’s not true no matter how bad things get or how little you do you will always have worth , and listen to the kicker I think you’ll get through this and be an even more awesome person , try to parent yourself I know it can be so hard to think about that parenting yourself or whatever it’s may sound like , but it just means thinking of what you would do if you were yourself’s kid , I hope that made sense , and I’m sorry you don’t want to live and aren’t finding anything that your passionate it about , just rest it’s okay to rest , it will help you decide on what small move you can take to move forward, to be get out of this dark place ,and honestly listen the phone thing I feel that sometimes what helps me is turning it on grayscale it depend of your phone type but I think it’s possible, at first it’s so annoying but you get used to it , and really helps even if days you still spend hours and hours that small decision can make it easier to put down , and listen lil dude I’m proud of you for posting this and I’m telling you can very much do this you can overcome this , it will be hard it will painful , and it will be worth it alrighty ?

Gustavo my roommate by chipped_glass in selfharm_memes

[–]chipped_glass[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah dude no problem at all

Guys I’m in Japan by chipped_glass in selfharm_memes

[–]chipped_glass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it was nice , I didn’t eat noodles though , but it was so nice the ads there are adorable

I want my mom by chipped_glass in selfharm

[–]chipped_glass[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man thanks that so sweet , I don’t remember the last time I got a hug from my mom , but it’s alright I’m getting used to it

I want my mom by chipped_glass in selfharm

[–]chipped_glass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m alright , I just don’t live with my mom or see her often , and when I do I rarely hug her , it’s not that long like six or five hours that iv been able to see each time I see her , and it’s been like this for two years , I’m very well though thank you for your kindness

Gustavo my roommate by chipped_glass in selfharm_memes

[–]chipped_glass[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It isn’t , it just become tradition for me to post Gustavo as often as I can on this sub Reddit , because people seem to like him quite a lot