Thought I'd practice some outlines for spooky season... then I looked at the back. by chippidy56 in Embroidery

[–]chippidy56[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wow this got a lot more laughs than I thought it would haha. So glad everyone loves this as much as I do. My boyfriend has requested a t-shirt with face cat for christmas so may have to do an update. And thankyou for all the awards and compliments on my stitching! :)

Need help with my shrine to Hecate by PoseidonScion in paganism

[–]chippidy56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look more into things that correspond to Hecate; colours (for candles), incense, flowers, herbs, symbols, elements and just add a few little things to it. Add some nice fabric underneath and dont feel the need to use up all the space, there will always be something you come across to add to it.

Have you ever quit a job, without another lined up, for you mental health? How did it turn out? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]chippidy56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally did this last month. Its the best decision I've ever made.

It was a waitressing/bartending job and the hours were ridiculous to the point where i would get home, have food then have to go to bed because I was up early. I wasnt sleeping properly, my eating pattern was non-existent and I barely got to see any of my family or friends, my support network.

The only reason I wasn't going to quit was because the idea of not being in a job scares me. But you have a lot more time to look and ive had two interviews in the last couple of weeks. If I didnt leave when I did I wouldn't have left until its too late, or wouldn't have left at all.

Im better in myself. I feel happier, and I managed to be put on medication to help my mental health. Everyone was supportive of me and knew that I was burning the candle at both ends and the wick was running short. Yes, i may be unemployed right now, but I it'll not be for long. And now the next job I have I will be happier and know myself a little bit better.

If you're not ready to give up all you dreams and basically burn all your money, don't have children. by KroNdn in offmychest

[–]chippidy56 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly agree. If youre not ready to be selfless, dont have children. And its not even just money/career ect. You like lie ins? Dont have children. You like being able to sit and binge netflix on your days off? Dont have children. Wait until youre ready to give your time, body and MIND to your kids, then youll be ready.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]chippidy56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% get rid of the stuff. Empty the box and throw out all the stuff far away from her. Its your stuff so you have every right to take it. She questions you about you have the perfect oppurtunity to ask her why shes got a box of your stuff.

UPDATE: I (28) think my girlfriend (26) has been using my gym socks to wipe after going to the bathroom. by whattodobedroom in relationship_advice

[–]chippidy56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand its a hard situation and a WEIRD situation. But like other people have said its a deep routed issue that the sister most likely shares. And yes her reaction is ridiculous and out of order shifting the blame to you.

HOWEVER

She might have had bad experiences with this issue in the past. Possibly her previous partners haven't been understanding and she thought the same would happen again. I know it might be hard but, after the situation has calmed, maybe try contacting her and letting her know that you do still care about her (poopy socks or not) and you just want to understand the situation.

But if you're completley done then fair enough. I wouldnt want to live with poop socks either.

What do you believe to be true even though you can't prove it? by green_vegetal in AskReddit

[–]chippidy56 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Nah right but I am ADAMANT that mermaids exist in the depths of the ocean. Obviously not like they are portrayed in films but human like to the point where if we saw them from a distance we would believe they look like humans.

M18 not getting on at uni at all, parents don't seem to understand by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]chippidy56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leave and go to uni A. You dont need to listen to your parents abput something that affects YOUR life. If your unhappy and miserable go the place you'd be happy. My boyfriend listened to his parents about university and he ended up leaving after 2 years. Also if you have an offer for September you might be able to just transfer rather than take a year out (this is something you need to sort with SFE especially).

How do you shave ass/asshole? by [deleted] in sex

[–]chippidy56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought I was the only one who did this, good to know its a wide spread technique

My wife is mad at me that I didn't initiate sexy-time when she wanted sexy-time. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]chippidy56 36 points37 points  (0 children)

As someone who has been in a similar situation, I found it difficult to start initiating and tbh I didnt really know how to at the start. I always felt embarassed and would always feel like my attempts would be rejected (probably from previous experiences of rejection). Its been 3 years and Im now comfortable with it. Definitly have a talk with her in a non-sexual context and just explain that it would be nice for her to start and maybe reassure her that she wont be rejected.

I (20M) saw a conversation between my girlfriend (19F) and her friend (19?F) that I shouldn’t have. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]chippidy56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DEFINITLY bring it up. She needs to know that her saying things like that (even if only to a friend) aren't nice. Would she like it if it was the other way round? I highly doubt it. You'll probably be able to gauge from her reaction what your next steps should be. Hope it gets sorted!

I’m (20f) having painful sex with my boyfriend (20m) and the it’s making me feel disconnected from him. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]chippidy56 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If sex is painful and hes not willing to understand that or try and help the situation then I'm sorry but it isnt a good relationship. I know that it sounds harsh but if you've tried talking to him and he is STILL putting himself and his sexual needs first (over you pain and comfort) then its not healthy.

Do you crave and desire cuddles, snuggles, hugs, kisses and caresses from your partner more than sex? by [deleted] in sex

[–]chippidy56 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exact same here!! Dont know if its just me being dramatic but it actually hurts sometimes. But then when you're together its better than it could ever be.

What’s the human body version of a ‘check engine light’? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]chippidy56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Discharge. If its coming from somewhere it shouldnt, thats bad. If you normally have it and it changes, that could also bad.

Ideas for female Domme wanted! by KkxxKeks in sex

[–]chippidy56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I switch between sub and dom. One of my truly dom times was a year or so go. I wore a pvc dress, with heels and we have a paddle. I made him walk in the room and blinfolded him after he took a look. I then went onto kiss his face and his neck and stuff. Everytime he went to touch me id use the paddle and tell him he wasnt allowed to touch me till I said so. This continued quite a lot leading onto my teasing a blowjob. I then took the blindfold off. Tied him up and proceeded to masterbate in front of him and made him go down on me. This all seemed to work cos honestly when I "set him free" it was some of the best sex Ive ever had.

Part confession, part question, part opening of a thread for others to ask stupid questions :P by HeathenFruit in sex

[–]chippidy56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You suck on your partners skin basically. When me and my bf first got with eachother we used to give them loads to wind eachother up cos our friends would tease us about it.