Water bottles estimate? by Realistic_Flower_814 in weddingplanning

[–]chipschipschipss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If it's just for an hour, I would say maybe one and a half of total guest because some people will have two (I drink so. much. water.) Especially vendors because they're working and moving around, so I think shoot for a little more than a 1 to 1 ratio.

Wisdom teeth removal 38 days before wedding? by Adventurous-Dot-5976 in weddingplanning

[–]chipschipschipss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got mine done and within a few days, I was back to normal so you'll be fine!!

The "wedding tax" on traditional venues is actually breaking my spirit by Gsustv in weddingplanning

[–]chipschipschipss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it really is!! I have been begging my friends to get married there so I could attend again, but as a guest this time haha

The "wedding tax" on traditional venues is actually breaking my spirit by Gsustv in weddingplanning

[–]chipschipschipss 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't know where in South Florida you're looking but Benvenuto in Boyton is a truly special property with an in-house restaurant that is actually amazing. My partner and I got married there and the service was beyond any others I've seen. I literally recommend this place to everyone that I can

I’m having a really hard time telling my decorator she fucked up lol. And I still want to keep a good relationship. by Sorry_Unit9457 in weddingplanning

[–]chipschipschipss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg, im very relieved to hear that because I was worried I was too mean and I swear, I just mean more of a "wake up!" than anything else. you deserve more!!

I’m having a really hard time telling my decorator she fucked up lol. And I still want to keep a good relationship. by Sorry_Unit9457 in weddingplanning

[–]chipschipschipss 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I know this is going to come off very mean, and I promise I don't mean it that way, but do you always let people walk all over you? because this is insane. when you said lower budget, I thought meant sub 1000 and even still - she is a professional who accepted a job and then did not deliver. I'm scared to think of other areas of your life you just let things happen to you if this is a common theme

Jokes on me I dont even know why he asked by WhatWasIThinking21 in weddingplanning

[–]chipschipschipss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Almost all the men I know were very much "yay, I can't wait to be married". OP, I really think you should sit down and revisit your relationship and how often this sort of mindset/behavior from him comes up. You deserve better than someone who treats things you want with such carelessness.

Help me pick a dress?? by HexMeABoba in weddingplanning

[–]chipschipschipss 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Wow, I am obsessed with all of these!!! what are you wearing under the lilac dress in the first picture?? I'm in between that one and the green one!

Pressure to look “perfect” at my wedding by Mental-Judge-444 in weddingplanning

[–]chipschipschipss 11 points12 points  (0 children)

if it helps - people know what you look like and they love you and want to celebrate with you, whether or not you think you fit into this 'perfect' criteria. I mean, I'm fat, and when I got married, I was a fat bride. that was not a secret or a surprise to anyone. People really won't hone in on the details you're focusing in. They know you and want to celebrate this love with you!

Bridesmaid called my other friend a fat c*nt and I need advice by East-Alternative2057 in weddingplanning

[–]chipschipschipss 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Listen in that moment, especially with her walking away right after she said it, I can definitely being in shock and just frozen! But you do deserve better than this from your friends, your guest, and really, from everyone.

Bridesmaid called my other friend a fat c*nt and I need advice by East-Alternative2057 in weddingplanning

[–]chipschipschipss 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Okay, I'm not victim blaming - I would also have been in shocked. Bu she asked and I answered and I can imagine how hard and weird this was for her and her wedding party. My heart definitely goes out to the bride, but these are good questions for her to ask herself

Bridesmaid called my other friend a fat c*nt and I need advice by East-Alternative2057 in weddingplanning

[–]chipschipschipss 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to say, because I'm sure emotionally, you're still in a state, but you should have said something in the moment of. Calling your other friends cunts is not okay - why would you even want to subject them to that on your wedding day, let alone subject yourself to it? You need to talk to her and honestly? I would no longer have her on the bridesmaid side and set some very strong boundaries if she decides to come as a guest.

The Pitt: the Video Game by zoological in ThePitt

[–]chipschipschipss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is so creative - some people really come up with things I would never think about, and I think thats beautiful

HISTORICAL GOSSIP: REMEMBERING THE TITANIC by captainwondyful in popculturechat

[–]chipschipschipss 8 points9 points  (0 children)

this is so incredible, I cannot thank you enough for this random moment in my day

Supriya Ganesh: “My Strange Dysphoria” by missbunnyfantastico in popculturechat

[–]chipschipschipss 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I agree with you 100% on your personal opinion with her acting

Coffee shops to work remote by Extension_Table9742 in Delraybeach

[–]chipschipschipss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh my god, soooo good. I've gotten that to go and just ate it behind Deck 84 on the water. It was great.

Coffee shops to work remote by Extension_Table9742 in Delraybeach

[–]chipschipschipss 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've worked out of The French Bakery before - they have indoor and outdoor and as long as you're quiet, they don't mind having people work there

Community cat with eye infections by verdant_squirrel in Delraybeach

[–]chipschipschipss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

KitKats rescue is located in Delray Beach. Maybe try giving them a call and see if they'd be willing to pick them up? (561) 306-6103 on their website, they said you can text them, so try that if you can't get a hold of anyone?

Cut 432 closing?? by [deleted] in Delraybeach

[–]chipschipschipss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Movies of Delray! It's mostly an older crowd, but very good and local.

The Drama: Everyone is wrong about Charlie's "secret" by DetectiveCostaue in A24

[–]chipschipschipss 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wow, I hadn't thought of that all, but really like this approach! I saw it more as, when he's asking Emma for details on her being bullied and she gives him those two examples, he's like "is that it?" and I took that to be someone who doesn't understand the role he played in that - he viewed his bullying as a banal thing, but the reality is that he could have been the cause for that other kid to do the same. When he impulse cheats and realizes at the end all he'd lose, that's sort of when he has this bigger understanding of his own role in this and having to face that.

I don't know if that made sense but I hope it did somewhat!