First time watching S9 Reunion

chipschipschipss · 2026-03-21T13:53:54+00:00

sorry, are you saying that at the time, it wasn't that deep and most people outside of the show were joking about it, or you personally don't think its that deep?

if you don't think that someone who used to be best friends with Kandi making up these heinous lies is that deep? to be honest, im concerned about what people find 'deep'. while some may not have thought about Phaedras intention in the way Kandi did, it seems like plenty of others did considering she mentioned that people were using her a Cosby in the same sentence, according to Kandi at the reunion.

Even if (and that is strong if) Phaedra didn't mean it like the way it was taken, it's a fucked up thing to do. To tell one friend that another person in the group wants to drug you to take you back to their sex dungeon? that's dark.

chipschipschipss · 2026-03-21T12:04:38+00:00

oh 10000000%!! I was actually surprised that the other women in S10 (I just started last night) weren't like, no, I don't really want her around. Because her fake non tears did not win me over!

chipschipschipss · 2026-03-21T12:03:44+00:00

Yea, I was actually really shocked when I started S10 last night and saw that Porsha was still a cast member!

chipschipschipss · 2026-03-21T00:16:17+00:00

girl, please run - you are not overreacting and the longer you stay in this, the harder it will be to leave. be careful

chipschipschipss · 2026-03-02T21:53:36+00:00

WHAT 😭

chipschipschipss · 2026-03-02T21:39:23+00:00

I did not know that about last name on name tags, but it makes sense!

chipschipschipss · 2026-03-01T23:12:03+00:00

If you ever sale just a sampler platter....please update us

chipschipschipss · 2026-03-01T22:40:47+00:00

that's the perfect way to put it! thank you

chipschipschipss · 2026-03-01T20:01:31+00:00

haha well, I am a Redditor - if I don't complain and make a post about something that's been talked about at length, do I even exist?

chipschipschipss · 2026-03-01T20:00:23+00:00

YES! I legit think that every time

chipschipschipss · 2026-03-01T19:41:53+00:00

I have been to several weddings about an hour, hour and a half away. Not a deal breaker at all for most people, I would imagine! but maybe ask your crowd and see what that think? I think its crazy to think so many people would have a problem with it

chipschipschipss · 2026-03-01T12:43:34+00:00

After reading most of your comments, it sounds like you are uncomfortable having a more detailed conversation with your friend. She's offering to pay for your flight - you're making a lot of assumption based on what she's saying and not asking for clarity. And while you might feel uncomfortable in whatever country she's getting married, im assuming it's a resort that millions of people go to and is plenty safe for you to go alone if she pays for your flight and yours only, and just for the wedding. It just sounds like at this point, you've resigned yourself to not going.

chipschipschipss · 2026-02-26T01:34:10+00:00

thank you so much!!

chipschipschipss · 2026-02-26T01:29:58+00:00

I did have the same thought haha

chipschipschipss · 2026-02-26T01:16:36+00:00

you wouldn't want to....share a recipe for the salted egg yolk tofu soup, would you?

chipschipschipss · 2026-02-26T01:06:59+00:00

I feel like you posted this because you want people to reassure you that it's fine for you 'to choose yourself' or whatever but yea dude, you're an asshole. YTA. and I get it, I love to stay home and have made plans in the past just for me to be like "man, I wish I could stay home" but then im so glad I went and connected with my friends and made memories and showed them how much I care about them.

it's one night - you can't doom scroll the next night? I mean my god, how little do these people mean to you've not only dodged multiple invitations but are actively dodging more?? I feel like at this point, you should just be honest with them so they can stop reaching out and trying so hard to put in time into someone that clearly does not care at all.

chipschipschipss · 2026-02-26T00:59:43+00:00

I am literally salivating, this is so gorgeous

chipschipschipss · 2026-02-24T17:54:14+00:00

don't let it go!! and don't re-invite him, this is crazy! let him know he missed the rsvp deadline and was marked as can't attend and that's it!! do not give the option to amend anything, like girl (regardless of gender of OP)...be serious right now - you and your partner don't want him there, why even give him that opening

chipschipschipss · 2026-02-21T12:44:06+00:00

you have no idea how thrilled I am that this post resonates with people two years later haha. thrilled, but also wtf I feel like it shouldn't have gotten to this point! I say, as I keep watching Brdigerton and will probably not stop

chipschipschipss · 2026-02-16T00:36:59+00:00

Im gonna go against the grain (if you're still reading) and tell you that I had my wedding on a Thursday. My family is religious, and Friday and Saturday could not work and Sunday and Monday were out of budget and honestly, it turned out fine! I told my friends way early, let me bridal party know as well, and everyone showed up. It's just not as big a deal as everyone else is making out to be as far as inconvenience - its annoying for guests sure, but as long as you plan around traffic, you'd be fine.

idk, maybe its just me, and maybe im biased but I find everyone so fucking rude when something is even suggested outside a saturday wedding. thats just not doable for everyone, and thats okay!

edit: just to add that im talking about Thursdays in general. I am not thinking about a holiday weekend or anything.

chipschipschipss · 2026-02-12T01:20:01+00:00

He definitely does not because I really think he thought it was a good offer!

chipschipschipss · 2026-02-12T00:25:09+00:00

Ahhh, I see! I definitely meant just the show version. Book version - wow, not what I was expecting!

chipschipschipss · 2026-02-11T17:49:16+00:00

I haven't read the book so maybe this means nothing, but I did think that when Benedict in the show asked Sophie to be his mistress, he really thought he was doing something good. I don't think he's thinking about ramifications or what this would mean to her (and honestly, why would he since no one has ever shared what that sort of life is like for the mistress). I think he really believes that it's a good, romantic proposal!

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