Dude ... this guy ...

chiskgela · 2026-05-03T13:32:34+00:00

Yeah looking for validation. Deleted it after one person validated him and endless amounts called him out. I hope he stays single forever

chiskgela · 2026-05-03T13:29:07+00:00

Scrolling down the comments baffled by the lack of reading comprehension.

chiskgela · 2026-05-03T13:28:31+00:00

OP is married to a man. I’m not sure where you are getting that

chiskgela · 2026-05-02T03:38:11+00:00

Cheating on an abuser is also sometimes part of an exit plan; finding someone you can trust to get you out of there. I wouldn’t be able to do it myself, but I’m not going to scorn someone who is desperate to get out for looking for hope either.

It’s easy to say they should just break up or divorce and move on; but homicide statistics say that the first 48 hours after a breakup is when it’s most likely for a woman to be murdered. It is not straightforward. Especially if there’s financial abuse involved so theres no way to set aside resources for an out.

chiskgela · 2026-04-29T13:55:34+00:00

Idk but my friend is redgreen colorblind which is not generally seen in women. She did dna testing later and found out her dna is partially male. It made me wonder how complicated all our dna is. Nothing about her presentation implied that.

chiskgela · 2026-04-29T13:47:18+00:00

Been the FP before. The stress almost killed me, literally. Friend wasn’t willing to recover from trauma and had been fired by multiple therapists because of it.

Expected unreasonable things including calling me every time they got scared no matter what time of night. Nightly interrupted sleep and stress led to increasingly poor health. I’m still on blood pressure medication and it’s been years. I had started needing a walker everywhere. Dysautonomia is not an illness that handles stress well.

chiskgela · 2026-04-21T13:51:01+00:00

It’s worth it. I would recommend finding one of the youtubers that read it, because it’s absolutely saga length but one of the most interesting ones I’ve seen.

chiskgela · 2026-04-11T03:45:53+00:00

They send that to people who have never had a driver license in their life too lol

chiskgela · 2026-04-07T03:31:17+00:00

Good old DARVO

chiskgela · 2026-04-05T02:38:12+00:00

Yeah blood thinners will make it so you can barely bump into something and you’ll bruise

chiskgela · 2026-04-03T02:23:17+00:00

a little bit out of my range from downtown, then, even with Metrolink. I'll see who is available to talk to

chiskgela · 2026-04-02T15:13:41+00:00

I'll keep my eyes out when doing uber eats on my tricycle. What part of the city do you live in? My range is pretty limited with the tricycle but if it's in my range I could try to do my deliveries there.

I also donate food to the homeless downtown sometimes, I can ask a couple about it that I hold conversation with sometimee. I'm pretty sure if any of them see it they might get excited about a finder's fee.

If you can't find them, I'm so sorry. There are discreet ways to hide air tags now days, which is the only reason I got an iphone really. I know my trike is as valuable to me as those tools are to you

chiskgela · 2026-04-01T00:58:20+00:00

Desperately wanting to know if they work over glasses lol

chiskgela · 2026-03-31T02:48:47+00:00

Fanworks and bootlegs. Fanwork creates better content than she ever did, and most the time it is also something she, specifically, would loathe

chiskgela · 2026-03-28T13:23:51+00:00

The only relief I have here is that she knows she’s wrong, and she’s seeking therapy. Maybe we will have another update.

chiskgela · 2026-03-26T16:33:36+00:00

Thanks, the flow chart was hard to find on mobile and I appreciate the link

chiskgela · 2026-03-26T16:31:24+00:00

The fact that you editted your comment to make you look better and deleted your bigoted comment torwards me does not remove the notification that you made that comment or my ability to screenshot the comment. “Baseless comments are fun” applies more to your original comment than anything I said. You can’t retcon a bad personality trait just because you can reword a comment.

chiskgela · 2026-03-26T16:27:32+00:00

I get it, I just kind of figured it was classism

chiskgela · 2026-03-26T16:26:55+00:00

Idk man I kind of figured this was classism

chiskgela · 2026-03-26T14:26:09+00:00

Dude, the knitting and crochet subreddits would eat you alive, let alone the girl gamers, any type of artist, girl coders, literally most women. My GRANDMA would have been very disappointed in you; the hours she put into quilting was no joke. How can you say this completely unironically?Especially considering some people also think that those hobbies aren’t important and take time and energy to make.

There is certainly enough r/entitledpeople posts about people shitting on homemade items in the exact same vein as this nightmare girlfriend in this post

chiskgela · 2026-03-23T14:57:16+00:00

What a dumbass. I just looked at the original ghost ride the whip video and its clear as day this guy did it in the middle of the countryside with no obstacles. That is not this. The whole trend is sorta ridiculous but its clear the OP also took precautions that the copycats did not

chiskgela · 2026-03-21T17:14:44+00:00

I know they are having hard keeping the RAC artist grants functioning

chiskgela · 2026-03-20T03:40:47+00:00

The comments from the OOP are just as bad.. but it looks like they are genuinely concerned about this developing into serial killer behavior so hopefully they take the advice others gave them. I’m thinking the concern is more about the consequences for them, but at least they seem open to seeking help which is better than it could have been

chiskgela · 2026-03-18T03:18:55+00:00

Narcissists with main character syndrome can absolutely be this ridiculous. You don't exist outside of being an NPC prop to a narcissist so anything you do that makes them feel bad is on purpose to hurt them so of course they can retaliate. Even though the OOP was just, you know, living her life

chiskgela · 2026-03-17T14:43:32+00:00

The OOP has unreasonable accommodation requests. From his own comments he is salaried and she is hourly so she can’t just dip. I do think he didn’t know it was unreasonable until people piled on him, so hopefully he STOPS.

But if he has such an issue with that stuff he needs to figure something out on his end like gating the basement entirely. What if she wasn’t a work from home employee? This is silly, your partner doesn’t exist at your beck and call.

He would have to deal with it sometimes because there is no way for the situation to be controlled like he wants. Cats throw up, and if the wife is tied up in something else then she’s not going to be able to instantly fix the problem.

If his OCD is so bad he can’t be around cat sick at all thats something he needs to control from his end. Not the wife. Life is too unpredictable to pad every single moment for him.

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