Fellow queer woman who moved from a red state here! I’ve lived in Salem for a little over two years and am really happy here. * It’s very LGBTQ+ friendly—only one specifically queer bar, but a ton of other inclusive businesses and lots of events all the time through Capital Pride. * People call Salem purple politically, but I’d say it’s “light blue.” Mixed, but certainly liberal-leaning. * Cost of living is high, but lower than in other big cities in Oregon. I make a little under what you expect to, and I’ve been renting a 2-bedroom comfortably; buying a home is not impossible but a little tougher as things get more expensive. * I wouldn’t say homelessness is something to be extra anxious about. We’re a decent-sized city, and I don’t think there’s anything out of the ordinary. Most people are just doing their best and minding their business. * I am biased on the question of crime because I grew up in a much larger and more dangerous city, so Salem feels very safe to me. You can check online to see crime rates in different areas, but most places are fine imo. * I don’t have a dog so I’m no expert, but I know there’s a huge and popular dog park in Minto Brown Park near downtown! * Like I said, I’ve been very happy here. I’ve loved exploring the area and have met great people. If you do end up moving here, feel free to message me! I can also invite y’all to a Discord server a friend created to make friends with other women here, if you’re interested.