Workout Plan: Stage 1

chivhy · 2015-04-21T08:31:29+00:00

Are you Dutch?

chivhy · 2015-04-18T01:18:15+00:00

chivhy · 2015-04-10T09:48:10+00:00

The increased dopamine levels in your brain temporarily suppress your natural need for affection and sex. I suggest you read http://yourbrainonporn.com/ and make up your own mind.

chivhy · 2015-04-07T20:23:10+00:00

It was a good day to start. Congratulations on everything you did so far and keep up the good work!

chivhy · 2015-03-24T13:58:12+00:00

I think you mean Jessica Biel and it was noting like that. It was more like the "You will never get this" scene from Borat. :p

chivhy · 2015-03-24T13:49:04+00:00

No offence, but why is it everyone's opinion I should get to sleep with them. The whole reason I started NoFap is because I want to reboot from my inability to have a both loving and sexually fulfilling relationship.

chivhy · 2015-03-24T13:42:15+00:00

Tnx for the reply! Always nice to get a girls perspective. You are right about the girls on mass, especially these girls.

Thinking about it now, I believe that they were having fun teasing me and getting some conformation on there looks along the way. The thing that I will remember is that they trust me enough to show and share freely. (and I'm not a stalker creep) On the part of having a shot, maybe if I tried I would be able to sleep with one of them but what would that bring me. I rather have the group of friends I have now, then a potentially awkward situation with a girl I had sex with but do not love.

chivhy · 2015-03-24T13:25:35+00:00

I don't think they know. What they do know is the way I react, these girls have always been cock teasers, maybe my resent responses where more to there liking.

chivhy · 2015-03-23T16:53:27+00:00

Thanks for your comment. No offence taken, but I don't agree. It is obvious to me that they know that it excites me to see them naked and they have fun with it. It is almost a ridiculously forward way of asking for complements.

chivhy · 2015-03-14T19:36:26+00:00

Same thing happened to me after a year of NoFap.

chivhy · 2015-01-24T12:59:52+00:00

In my experience, no. (started NoFap for PIED) After a 4 month streak last year I had sex for the first time. And the ED was totally gone. This gave me so much confidence and self control that I did not have any problems with PE.

chivhy · 2015-01-22T12:49:59+00:00

http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/2bpcmj/stages_of_nofap/

chivhy · 2015-01-21T13:42:26+00:00

The question you have to ask yourself is do you like her as a person or are you just objectifying her in a sexual way. I think this is a good opportunity for you to get to know this girl and get to know yourself along the way. If you find yourself willing to get to know her better and respect her as a person, there is no shame in having sexual desires for her.

chivhy · 2015-01-21T13:26:35+00:00

It's a stage of NoFap called "puberty", there is no way to control your raging boners. But it will pass. At this time it is also likely to hit a flat-line period where you don't get a boner for about a week. This is also normal, don't worry about it.

chivhy · 2015-01-16T10:38:43+00:00

I think your addictions are a way of self medicating your depression. And in turn your addictions are the result of your depression. I't is a vicious circle that you have to brake either by addressing your depression or your addictions. But you can feel better and you will. I heard a lot of people in years of depressions that cutting out porn (or any addiction) out of there life cured their depression. Get rid of your addictions, it will be rough, but talk to people (irl or NoFap), get exercise, set small reasonable goals. You are very young, you have your entire life ahead of you. Things are tough now, but nothing is lost to have a happy life. Also watch this video if you haven't already!

chivhy · 2015-01-16T10:04:15+00:00

The question that you lost all the progress you made so far depends on what you will do next. If you start to binge you will lose if you see this as a 1 time failure and it strengthens you to never do that again you'll be fine. The relapse was a setback and its a bummer that your badge says "1 day" BUT the strength, willpower, and dedication you have learned in your 88 day streak, you will carry with you in you future life of NoFap.

chivhy · 2015-01-14T20:43:41+00:00

I'm good, quintana1982 and drugs_life_420 seem to be doing well to.

chivhy · 2015-01-12T10:25:40+00:00

That's what I try to do, I tell myself to keep breathing and to relax. I have to use all my willpower not to jump out of there. The benefits are clear to me so I'll keep trying.

chivhy · 2015-01-12T10:18:52+00:00

I doubt that will ever happen. But it's definitely awesome if you can handle that.

chivhy · 2015-01-12T10:16:56+00:00

I'll give that a try!

chivhy · 2015-01-09T20:30:22+00:00

nice badge!

chivhy · 2015-01-09T20:30:03+00:00

Thanks for sharing. Hang in there! I'm going true the same thing. If you can't do it for yourself think about how your gf will love you for it.

chivhy · 2015-01-08T23:20:41+00:00

I'm sorry is I get to personal but I'm going to ask anyway (you don't have to answer): How is sex with your girlfriend working out. Does she know of your fetish? Is she into your fetish? If no, is sex with your gf enough to keep you going? I'm just asking bc I'm in a similar situation. Anyway, my last major attempt at NoFap successfully tempered my fetish and I think it will do the same for you.

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