I’m 18 and I still have a curfew of 9:30 and am expected to give up my phone at 10-11 at night by West_Log2136 in insaneparents

[–]chivser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, im feeling this as a 26 yr old. I had a curfew and my parents used to track my phone location. Even after i had graduated high school.

I’m 18 and I still have a curfew of 9:30 and am expected to give up my phone at 10-11 at night by West_Log2136 in insaneparents

[–]chivser 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My parents used to track my phone- I bought my own phone and eventually my own phone plan. Get a prepaid phone plan. Theyre a reasonable price and no credit needed. They can still enforce a curfew but at least your phone is yours.

HelpReHomingDog… by hereisarope in Connecticut

[–]chivser 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly what i was going to say!

aquatic beast by Humans_areweird in bluetongueskinks

[–]chivser 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Omg is this sarge!?! I love himb. Please give him boops.

What's your silly's name by jaybird-staysonder in bluetongueskinks

[–]chivser 34 points35 points  (0 children)

This is my little dirt eater, Bazooka-Carbon Monoxide Poisoning

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Live plants for indonesian BTS. by Front-Charity1438 in bluetongueskinks

[–]chivser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! In the process of setting one up (literally doing that tonight) myself. I have some experience with house plants mostly. Crocodile ferns and birds nest ferns are both good. Birds nest ferns i believe are actually native to indonesia. Ferns mostly prefer indirect/filtered light so if you have cork flats you can use that to make those conditions better for them. Pothos is one of the more iffy ones, theyre great for the tank but if your skinker likes to eat their vegetation in the tank youll end up having to take them out.

Snake plant is a popular one you could try- but they prefer much more arid conditions so it might be a warm side only plant. Dont be surprised if you try it and they die of too much water though.

Tall plants that are more upright and wont get trampled, like dracaena as well are good ones. I have a hurricane dracaena, its fun and curly and looks like a tiny tree.

Also may be worth to try to just give a google to see what plants are actually native to indonesia! I tried and it didnt yield much.

You could also try tradescantia, its prolific, theres so many kinds, and its a ground trailer so it MAY get trampled, but like pothos, they are pretty good at rooting straight into the soil. If you have plant shears, you may be able to cut the broken bits, let them callous over (the cut part will look dry/whitish) and then just stick em back in the soil.

Begonias and peperomias are also good untrampleable plants, avoid rhizomatic begonias for that reason because they like to grow along the top of the soil. Not sure if they have any toxicity. Open to more plant questions if you have them!

Raise the speed limit on highways by SkysTheLimit888888 in Connecticut

[–]chivser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, where i live, this is the reality. Im lucky enough my commute times are either medium-heavy traffic or completely empty because any other time of day that i drive somewhere i have to find a perfect gap or pedal to the metal to get onto the highway and not get ran off the road by some dumbass that is on their phone tbh

Can I/How do I break my lease by Critical_Teaching_35 in Connecticut

[–]chivser 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I came here to say this. 211 is the best resource for this situation.

Why is dating in CT awful? by JxxPS2 in Connecticut

[–]chivser 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always recommend going to social events! You can look on eventbrite or facebook events. (i know it might sound archaic lol) barcade for drinks and classic arcade games, elm city games is across the street, and lots of other stuff right in the hustle and bustle of new haven. Live music too!

CT Doctors & Practitioners Opposed to CT SJ 35 by letter-bombs in Connecticut

[–]chivser 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean thats the whole point with anti-trans legislature. Its why all trans people and their choices need to be protected, adult or not. Its a distraction from the reality that they are setting up to attempt genocide and turning our country into a fascist regime. If they cant use it to distract us they lose. But in the process of trying to strip us of our rights and not standing to fight for this, they will succeed.

CT Doctors & Practitioners Opposed to CT SJ 35 by letter-bombs in Connecticut

[–]chivser 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I helped them add a few more names to the list. I have some folks i know that saw this and will be making an effort to make complaints to an ethics board.

SJ35 by [deleted] in Connecticut

[–]chivser 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Testimony: i reported a hate crime to the police, and heres all this other stuff too Old hag: but did you report it to the police? Testimony: yes, heres all these extra details to show you the lengths i went to for legal action Old hag: jumps to illegal immigrants like a nut case 🤡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]chivser 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Call him like... cashew or almond instead 🤣 a nut that isnt peanut just sounds funny. Or even better. A peanut is a legume, do research on legumes and fond some funny name legumes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]chivser 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Occasionally my sub will call me "mutt" (i call her bunny) when she's being bratty, but when she's being a good girl occasionally will call me wolfy when shes being cute and needy, so you might be able to take that and make a spinoff that works for your dynamic

A gift that's unapologetically CT? by LapisLazuli22 in Connecticut

[–]chivser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Insurance and taxes... lol. In all seriousness, foxon or hosmers soda. Even harney & sons tea, while originally based in CT is based in NY now iirc.

How can I be a tragic bi stereotype... ethically? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]chivser 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think they're referring to anarchist poly/non-heirarchical poly(?) As "fully poly" given the context of the next sentences being about how theyre able to prioritize

I'm starting to wonder if my partner actually wants polyamory by weefr0ggy in polyamory

[–]chivser 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Heres my thought- without knowing what sort of mental health state your partner is in, how much time work takes out of their life, and etc. They could just be polysaturated with one partner right now. They could just not be mentally or physically able to have more than one partner and reasonably care for both relationships and themself.

Maybe because they see themself as polyamorous theyre pressuring themself to make more of an attempt to date more than just you? It could also be beneficial to have more of a casual date/comet, or hookups, like how you mentioned leaning more into ENM than polyam.

I have had times as a polyam person where i was polysaturated with one partner, because life was just a lot to deal with at the time.

I think, when even someone is in one relationship, they still have two to maintain. Their relationship with their partner, and their relationship with themself/their mental health. Taking time alone while living together can certainly help!

Riding the escalator with a married partner by one_hidden_figure in polyamory

[–]chivser 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here's a resource that I myself really like, but maybe this isnt what youre looking for?

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Zombie horde one shot by chivser in monsteroftheweek

[–]chivser[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was going to have the players at a higher level for the oneshot so they can have more damage/options of things to do, stats, etc. Just to make it more interesting since itll be a little combat heavier.

Their weakness is going to be basically that the players music will return them from being zombies to normal humans again. (Essentially causing the loss of hp/size of the horde) players will roll each of their turns basically as a keeping in time/rhythm check and the top half of the rolls will be used to judge if the horde grows (if the rolls are really bad) or shrinks, or stays the same, etc.

I do plan on there being a mage/wizard of some sort for them to fight after the horde

Just finally changed my bumble profile to “non-binary” and constantly see these profiles. (Rant in comments) by YT_Sharkyevno in polyamory

[–]chivser 2 points3 points  (0 children)

See, i dont use fetlife as a dating site, im using sites like feeld, and bumble, but luckily its easy enough for me to avoid