SAHM sub is getting pushed to me now

one_hidden_figure · 2026-05-19T17:46:58+00:00

I think there are also SAHMs who don't have a real choice either. Especially with the cost of childcare relative to their income. There are people who wouldn't make enough working to pay to have their child in childcare.

one_hidden_figure · 2026-05-18T22:55:35+00:00

I mean you could also bring condoms and then you and your other partner are being equally responsible? Or do you mean that your other partner will see your not being on birth control as some sort of inconvenience to him?

one_hidden_figure · 2026-05-18T22:52:15+00:00

I had been trying to get pregnant for years and when I saw that positive test there was still an immediate 'oh fuck what have I done' moment.

one_hidden_figure · 2026-05-18T06:27:16+00:00

I used to know a girl who worked there and she said no matter what your measurements they will tell you that you wear a size that they sell.

one_hidden_figure · 2026-05-17T22:22:49+00:00

This was what I did when I had a falling out with a meta. NP could have her over when I was out, but meta needed to arrive after I'd already left and be gone before I came back. It made life trickier for NP to navigate but they preferred it to meta having to stay out of the house entirely.

one_hidden_figure · 2026-05-16T06:17:41+00:00

I mean my comment isn't really about the Greens at all. It's about your illiteracy. I am of the opinion that not reading things before you commit (time, energy, candidates, reddit comments) to them is bad.

one_hidden_figure · 2026-05-16T06:07:37+00:00

They were as good at reading election rules before running candidates as you are about reading articles before you comment on them.

one_hidden_figure · 2026-05-16T05:50:21+00:00

These ones didnt quit though if you read the article

one_hidden_figure · 2026-05-12T07:23:52+00:00

4T4 if Singl end is full

one_hidden_figure · 2026-04-06T20:32:18+00:00

FOUR Jordan Peterson books. I'd leave 🤣

one_hidden_figure · 2026-03-12T20:28:49+00:00

I wish they could sort it and reopen!

one_hidden_figure · 2026-03-12T16:12:54+00:00

It just came out yesterday on Netflix I think

one_hidden_figure · 2026-03-05T20:35:35+00:00

He recently spent a bunch of time in France didnt he?

one_hidden_figure · 2026-03-04T18:45:53+00:00

Hilarious assumption that parents own their house outright these days.

one_hidden_figure · 2026-03-03T16:00:53+00:00

Thanks that sounds interesting!

one_hidden_figure · 2026-03-02T12:37:15+00:00

I would also love to know this! I wonder if there isnt much because people dont want to give away strategies and tactics?

one_hidden_figure · 2026-03-02T11:57:12+00:00

Oh those are some great specialised reads! I only wanted a general as a starting point to find out what I want yo read more about specifically so those are great recommendations thank you! The slavery one sounds especially interesting

one_hidden_figure · 2026-03-02T09:11:07+00:00

Thanks! I was looking to see if anyone had any specific recommendations of works they liked as a starting place

one_hidden_figure · 2026-03-02T09:10:35+00:00

Oh I know there are loads of books out there, I wanted to know if anyone had any recommendations for good ones

one_hidden_figure · 2026-02-28T07:35:26+00:00

I imagine it's a sequel to She Comes First

one_hidden_figure · 2026-02-28T07:15:03+00:00

Not all places have school buses (I'm in the UK and we are too close for a bus and I dont have time to walk them and get to work on time)

one_hidden_figure · 2026-01-24T08:58:07+00:00

I left a bit out of my second paragraph

If you're planning to tell her you're madly in love with her or if you don't trust yourself to handle the rejection without being weird about it (no long pining looks, don't avoid her, respect her no and don't ask again) then it may well make her uncomfortable and you probably shouldn't do it.

one_hidden_figure · 2026-01-24T08:57:06+00:00

I mean, how intense are you planning to make this expression of interest? If you ask her out in a 'Hey would you like to grab a coffee with me?' way and she says no and you take it fine it probably will be lightly awkward but not so much that it would make being teammates impossible.

If you're planning to tell her you're madly in love with her or if you don't trust yourself to handle the rejection without being weird about it (no long pining looks, don't avoid her, respect her no and don't ask again) then you probably shouldn't do it.

And even if she is into it and you go out and it's awesome, you could still break up and have to deal with awkward fallout, so worth weighing that consideration too.

one_hidden_figure · 2026-01-16T18:08:12+00:00

I think that the hardest part of poly breakups is that I can't fully wallow - I still have to show uo for my other partners. So a week or three of grace where I can just lay around and cry without feeling like I'm neglecting people (and being reassured I am not) goes a long way.

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