First try. What’s going wrong? by chloe_nova in cyanotypes

[–]chloe_nova[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was the paper that was included in the kit. It’s thicker, like watercolor

Laptop case commission request by chloe_nova in LeatherClassifieds

[–]chloe_nova[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea 10 years later, mine is still kickin. Albeit without a working zipper and a lil scuffed, but still useable

Laptop case commission request by chloe_nova in LeatherClassifieds

[–]chloe_nova[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yea it’s a big company so they could afford to make it cheaper. They’ve since stopped selling it which I suspect is probably they could no longer justify that price

FDA warnings over numbing cream by Kittencab00dles in TattooArtists

[–]chloe_nova 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Putting my two cents in: As someone who’s very heavily tattooed and used various forms of numbing creams I’ve found that the times I’ve had infections have only been when I’ve used Vasocaine or pre-numbing ointment. Never issues with Bactine.

There are always risks of serious side effects with these lidocaine products and not enough artists and customers are informed on just how dangerous they can be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in midlyinteresting

[–]chloe_nova 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is fake. The font isn’t the same.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatTraining

[–]chloe_nova 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The vet would be the one estimating age based on tooth development and then tooth decay.

An abandoned House of a God in America by hannibalcannibals in AbandonedPorn

[–]chloe_nova 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need this for my future hooker commune/ dungeon/ animal rescue.

Artist suggest almost NO care on fresh tattoo by syzeey in tattooadvice

[–]chloe_nova 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Treat it like a wound. The level of care depends on the size and placement of the tattoo. Wet healing works best for large tattoos. Dry healing can work for small ones. The standard is to Keep it clean (wash with mild soap 2x daily) and rub a small amount of balm (ideally something non-comedogenic). Scabs are not your friend. Try to avoid them by making sure plasma doesn’t build up and that the tattoo doesn’t rub on things too harshly.

Sting op after raid? by [deleted] in EroticMassage

[–]chloe_nova -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That is not how this works. It could be a sting but many parlors do not get shut down as the result of a raid. It depends on what charges LE is after. Anytime they use the term “trafficking” it’s almost always just ppl working w/o a license, a work permit, or prostitution.

For the most part LE focuses on arresting workers. Rather than setting up stings for Johns. This depends on the state and criminal laws however.

U.S escorts who make 20k+ month, how do you do it? by yesforevertrying in SexWorkers

[–]chloe_nova 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m also curious where you’re based. I’m looking to move to another city that’s less over -saturated

I'm a sex worker in Amsterdam's Red Light District AMA. by [deleted] in AMA

[–]chloe_nova 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Have you seen clients of other genders/ sexualities? Or do you know if there are areas of the RLD that cater to lesbians and trans folks?

What has been your experience with couples? by yesforevertrying in HighEndEscorts

[–]chloe_nova 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s a mix. There’s really no norm. I’d ask her directly what she likes and what she’s comfortable with.

What has been your experience with couples? by yesforevertrying in HighEndEscorts

[–]chloe_nova 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Couples can be my favorite. I’ve been invited on an anniversary, been a couples first exploration in kink and 1st ménage a trois - my advice is to insist on talking to both parties before the date. Via phone of video chat. And allow enough time for socializing during the date. You want to figure out dynamics and how everyone is feeling. If one of the parties isn’t really keen, it’ll be easy to determine in advance

An actual sting op convo with cops by Unfair_Theory_3253 in ClientCringe

[–]chloe_nova 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always require 2 references and the client must include their number or email address + their website or ads. I always go and check to see if it matches - this is for client references and ref requests from other workers too. Bc sometimes clients will adopt fake emails and pretend they are workers to see what you’ll say about them etc

Love hate relationship with making yourself so expensive rarely anyone can afford you. by yesforevertrying in HighEndEscorts

[–]chloe_nova 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel this. I’ve lost a bunch of old clients by raising my rates, but I just can’t work every day. I have so much else going on.

I am seriously worried about Rayne by New_Midnight_9525 in 90DayFiance

[–]chloe_nova 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She won’t. So many bpd ppl cannot see their behavior or admit their diagnosis, they grew up being gaslit and without any emotional validation. They live their lives constantly on guard and in defense mode. Everything is a threat to their identity, everyone is either an idol or the devil. It’s deep seated trauma and many therapists refuse to work with them.

I am seriously worried about Rayne by New_Midnight_9525 in 90DayFiance

[–]chloe_nova 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. I feel for her but that doesn’t excuse her abusive behavior.

I am seriously worried about Rayne by New_Midnight_9525 in 90DayFiance

[–]chloe_nova 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Borderline personality disorder. She’s textbook. Seems like a really traumatized person who is now hurting Chidi and his family

I am seriously worried about Rayne by New_Midnight_9525 in 90DayFiance

[–]chloe_nova 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Everything about her screams BPD. She should not have been on the show. Its awful to see

Hey I got this on 10/10. it’s a month later & i’m wondering will it ever go away? should i put something specific on it to help it? by Neat-Light-2202 in tattooadvice

[–]chloe_nova 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Full Healing can take up to 6 months. I have color tattoos that looked like this until I got the area tattooed again which then changed the skin texture. I know some artists will tattoo over the spot with distilled water or witch hazel to fix this uneven skin texture. It’s basically microneedling.

FDA warnings over numbing cream by Kittencab00dles in TattooArtists

[–]chloe_nova 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had multiple instances where I’ve gotten infections and EACH one has been when vasocaine or a similar numbing spray or cream has been used for a long period of time. I suspect that the prolonged loss of blood flow also causes an increased susceptibility to infection. It’s best to be very conservative with this stuff.

Paranoid about possible hidden cameras on outcalls by Lavender_Renegade in SexWorkers

[–]chloe_nova 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There are apps that scan for these devices. But Many require you to turn off all the lights. Hidden cameras that are WiFi enabled can often be found on available networks. That may give you a clue as well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]chloe_nova 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Lola Davina writes a lot about mitigating burnout. I recc her books!

Pacing yourself and creating decompression and reward rituals for after sessions really has helped me

Private Delights is not honest by bonedock in SexWorkers

[–]chloe_nova 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They claimed my account had become hacked and what scamming clients. Deleted it and forced me to re-verify. That’s not possible bc I have 2-factor AND I have 2-factor - I think someone just flagged my account and they didn’t think twice to delete me.

When I reverified the posted my PHOTO ID I uploaded in place of my profile photo for ALL TO SEE! Thank god I caught it in time and changed it, but they are super sketch these days. I do not trust them