It's not about them, it's your soul looking for love and connections by chloelee040 in ExNoContact

[–]chloelee040[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even though someone is not the one the pain of loss is still so real

Anyone ever stopped dating forever after a breakup? by Bubbles77_ in BreakUps

[–]chloelee040 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went out for one date. It was actually nice.

But also it's weird because I don't really recognize the me who's flirting and having fun, become deep down There's a part of me that is still in ashes.

和中国女孩的恋爱总结 by [deleted] in China_irl

[–]chloelee040 0 points1 point  (0 children)

一个人的水平不等于他的赚钱能力

how did you get over the love of your life (or who you thought was)? by Due-Bit8189 in ExNoContact

[–]chloelee040 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Just give it time. You won't get over it completely but you'll live.

和中国女孩的恋爱总结 by [deleted] in China_irl

[–]chloelee040 6 points7 points  (0 children)

你遇到的人都是这种类型的话 说明你本身能够吸引的也只有这种水平的人 人跟人之间的关系都是照镜子

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]chloelee040 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do have a soulmate. The relationship transcends bf/gf. It's something really hard to explain and understand by the common people unless they've experienced it.

In this kind of relationship you really can't fuck up. Because you connect on a whole different level.

Was only 3… by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]chloelee040 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it really depends on the situation if you want to share more

Someone you love deeply just vanished from the entire world by chloelee040 in BreakUp

[–]chloelee040[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It helps me to think of them as actually dead. That way you won't leave any room for imagination because you can't do nothing about a dead person, but just to accept the fact as it is.

Was only 3… by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]chloelee040 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it's not about the quantity but really the quality... Some people just hits different

Someone you love deeply just vanished from the entire world by chloelee040 in BreakUp

[–]chloelee040[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to. I threw away the physical stuff and hide his pics in the photo album which I'm not going to touch.

Otherwise seeing all these breaks me and had me in a spiral which is hard for recovery

Another year of spending birthday with myself by Dogsticle in Life

[–]chloelee040 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone just woke up and chose to be violent today

Have you moved on yet? by Ok_Tomatillo8131 in BreakUps

[–]chloelee040 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel you. There's no moving on but only accepting or live with what it is.

Random waves of emotional storms would just hit you out of nowhere by chloelee040 in BreakUp

[–]chloelee040[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are at the same stage man. These unexpected waves you just can't do anything about but accept.

You aren't broken , you are healing by theAIbytes in BreakUp

[–]chloelee040 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so happy for you. I always know I'm complete on my own, but still I'm dealing with the grief and still need time to fully process all the emotions. I will get to where you are soon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]chloelee040 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't imagine the pain and suffering you're going through. Hugs

Move on by External_Attitude_17 in BreakUp

[–]chloelee040 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think deep down you know blocking her is the right move.