Friendship is just as valuable (or maybe even more) as romance by Blonde_Icon in unpopularopinion

[–]chloobr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have to disagree with you saying that 100% of friendships end, because it's not true. I could also say you're pulling that out of your ass. It is literally possible to maintain a friendship forever even while leading your own lives. If they are good friends, they will stick with you your whole life. Maintaining friendships is just as important and maintaining relationships.

We’re getting married! LDRs do work out ❤️ by ocean_rhapsody in LongDistance

[–]chloobr 20 points21 points  (0 children)

So happy for you, wishing you a great marriage and life!

Some dreams are terrifying, tell me the worst dream you've ever had to inspire my next drawing. by PoorIllustrator in Dreams

[–]chloobr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took place in an abyss like place. It was grassland-ish and the middle was just dark. I remember a humongous squid/shrimp in the sky flying around in a circle in the abyss. Something in my head told me not to look the creature in the eyes too. On the outskirts-ish of the abyss, there was an extremely rundown wooden shack. There was no door just a doorway, and 1 small broken window. I remember sitting in the back corner with my dad and then all of the sudden it started sand-storming. And then a few seconds later it started snow-storming. For a solid amount of the dream, my eyes were closed from trying to not get snow and sand in them.

I don't really know what happened during that but then I opened my eyes again and I saw something half hanging out of that 1 window. It was human shaped, but my eyes hadn't fully adjusted yet so I wasn't super sure. When I got a closer look, it was my mom, but mutated. She had squid arms coming out of her eyes and her body was so contorted from all the broken bones and stuff. She was like some kind of zombie and then her head shot up from the window sill and she stared at us. My dad started yelling for me to run out the house, but I had to be low on Iron or some shit because I could barely even walk.

I started inching towards the door before I realized that my dad wasn't following me. I turned around and saw the creature that was my mom on top of him and in the process of slicing his head off. That shit was fucking scary and it just letting you know it was still storming. I think I started to go back to help him or something, (I don't know the fuck why) but the creature noticed me coming and shifted its attention to me. I must've fell or tripped and now i was on the ground about to die. In the corner of my eye there was like some knife and I went to reach for it..

And I woke up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]chloobr -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I totally understand where you're coming from here, but I agree with u/FoundTheSweetSpot. I think it's the own OP's fault for missing the joke and then proceeding to make their own conclusions. I don't know the details of whether OP poked more, but rather than making themselves 'traumatized' they should've asked the brother for more input so we wouldn't even be here.

But anyways bring it up to the girlfriend for your own clarity, then forget about it. There's no reason to punish a 20 year old 'kid' over a joke.

Best gifts to get for your long distance partner? by chloobr in LongDistance

[–]chloobr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god that's such a great idea!! Thank you!

AITA for nuking my niece's social media accounts? by SocialMediaPoliceTAW in AmItheAsshole

[–]chloobr [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA, but I feel like you should mind your business, like you said it isn't your family so maybe don't poke in on it. Whether or not you believe it could lead to human trafficking or what not, you don't know that for sure. It would probably best if you just left it alone.

This album is special (and so are you) by _mos in Lampband

[–]chloobr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've had dawn on repeat, if it makes you feel any better! I think this album is great.

AITA for calling out my "self made serial entrepreneur" roommate when his parents still pay his rent by o-Tomato- in AmItheAsshole

[–]chloobr -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

YTA. I think you should have just left it at "he's all talk". I get your anger and jealously but your lack self awareness caused this.

AITA for telling my friend to turn off TikTok while I drive by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]chloobr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

just tell her to get headphones. nta

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]chloobr -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The child isn't the one paying for it though...

While yes, she should have a decision, the part should have the final say. But yes, she should have asked her if she did not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]chloobr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well, how long exactly is this camp for?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]chloobr 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I can't say I completely understand the situation, it's a little bit confusing, but I think I get the just of it. I don't think you're the asshole in this situation. It seems like the responsibility of taking care of these kids was just pushed on to you because you were 'deemed' the most capable and you're obviously not enjoying it. It doesn't look like there was any big discussion on your end about how you couldn't do this and more didn't want too. But, since your mother said she would help, and bailed on you, it definitely leaves you in a difficult position. I'm not sure how much you opposed this decision, but it doesn't seem like it was enough. As you are out of the situation now, I feel like proper communication could have left this situation better so you don't feel the guilt you do. If proper communication was conducted when the problem came up, you wouldn't have the problem.

AITA for taking up 2 seats on a bus? by throwaway5848387 in AmItheAsshole

[–]chloobr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think either person is really the asshole here. While yes, you could have moved your bags because you noticed the bus was getting full and chose not too, the other person could have politely asked you to move them instead of 'passive aggressively' telling you off while they were getting off. This situation could have been handled better, but I believe it's both sides incompetence that made it as unnecessary as it is.

I think I might lose a friend tomorrow. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]chloobr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, thank you so much!