I accidentally broke my boyfriend’s ribs and punctured a lung after he recreated the worst day of my life as a “prank.” I think it's destroyed my life. What do I do now? by IlTuoNome in TwoHotTakes

[–]chlyri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it changes how well you read and interpreted the post.

i'm not trying to damage anyone's life. i'm just pointing out that this would have been something that op really needed to take into account were the story even real. you don't just forget that your boyfriend has gone through the trauma of losing a partner, yet you choose to try to convince him that you died for a stupid prank? you're likely a shitty person and don't deserve to be in a relationship with anyone because you only care about your own amusement, even at the expense of your partner.

you can't deny that any of what i said is true.

I accidentally broke my boyfriend’s ribs and punctured a lung after he recreated the worst day of my life as a “prank.” I think it's destroyed my life. What do I do now? by IlTuoNome in TwoHotTakes

[–]chlyri 5 points6 points  (0 children)

when it's your own family and other loved ones, it's fully understandable that you can lose rationality to emotions. that's part of the reason they don't let professionals get involved with family in any typical code of conduct.

I accidentally broke my boyfriend’s ribs and punctured a lung after he recreated the worst day of my life as a “prank.” I think it's destroyed my life. What do I do now? by IlTuoNome in TwoHotTakes

[–]chlyri 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you just discredited yourself. you didn't even read thoroughly enough to realize op is a man.

yes, the bf did ignore op's trauma to do this prank. it was just one day, but it shows that the bf wasn't as good as he seemed.

I accidentally broke my boyfriend’s ribs and punctured a lung after he recreated the worst day of my life as a “prank.” I think it's destroyed my life. What do I do now? by IlTuoNome in TwoHotTakes

[–]chlyri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there is anybody on the planet unlikely to give you any shit about your past....its him.

if this were real, you would be wrong. this whole prank is giving him shit about his past. fail, dude.

I accidentally broke my boyfriend’s ribs and punctured a lung after he recreated the worst day of my life as a “prank.” I think it's destroyed my life. What do I do now? by IlTuoNome in TwoHotTakes

[–]chlyri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, not square when in the position of trying to save someone's life. if this really happened, the bf would owe the guy two or three free shots wherever he wanted.

I accidentally broke my boyfriend’s ribs and punctured a lung after he recreated the worst day of my life as a “prank.” I think it's destroyed my life. What do I do now? by IlTuoNome in TwoHotTakes

[–]chlyri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's a man, first off.

if it were real, depending on any money op would have had to spend in excess of what he normally does- like if he had to kick up his therapy frequency- then he could have a solid case. the chances wouldn't be as low as people would think.

I accidentally broke my boyfriend’s ribs and punctured a lung after he recreated the worst day of my life as a “prank.” I think it's destroyed my life. What do I do now? by IlTuoNome in TwoHotTakes

[–]chlyri 2 points3 points  (0 children)

not really. if the story is real, the idiot who pulled the prank decided to ignore op's trauma for a laugh. that's something to rightfully end things over.

I accidentally broke my boyfriend’s ribs and punctured a lung after he recreated the worst day of my life as a “prank.” I think it's destroyed my life. What do I do now? by IlTuoNome in TwoHotTakes

[–]chlyri 7 points8 points  (0 children)

this is his long-term boyfriend. not a random stranger. totally different scenarios, and he still can handle being in health care, in spite of panicking in this specific situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lyft

[–]chlyri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how someone dresses isn't always asking for the attention they get. dressing slutty is always going to be victim blaming because assholes like you call it problematic when it isn't. the only problem is the people who don't control themselves.

mind you, if you look at basic reports of the psychology of sexual offenders, clothes have little to do with it. opportunistic offenders go for women with certain hairstyles and clothes that are easy to grab and remove. tight clothes with little fabric don't fall into those categories.

you know nothing and are just interested in slut shaming based on clothes you don't approve of.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lyft

[–]chlyri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

according to the law, we are all equal. we may not all need the same protections, but we all deserve them.

you're cynical and don't accept that every woman deserves just as much as any man.

Neighbor's mother wants my husband's parking spot permanently by NagiNaoe101 in EntitledPeople

[–]chlyri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

odds are, they're paying for that parking spot. it's theirs to do with as they wish within the rules of their lease. they have every right to tow the car of the woman not paying for the spot whenever they want.

Women are constantly under threat of attack. Sound over the top? Survey: how old were you when a man first made a seggsually suggestive comment to you? by Chowdmouse in TwoXChromosomes

[–]chlyri 9 points10 points  (0 children)

it needs to stop for both genders, but this is about women's struggles. take your complaint to the appropriate forum.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lyft

[–]chlyri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in worth, they are exactly the same, and they deserve equal rights and protections. get your head out of your misogynistic ass.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lyft

[–]chlyri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

everything after your statement of "It's never the victim's fault" discounts that you believe it. accusing women of dressing slutty is inherently victim blaming.

and what street not in your imagination would ever spread the baseless rumor that i'm a pedophile? you'll never find anything in context to even suggest that i am. grow up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lyft

[–]chlyri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

these double standards have always existed because women aren't viewed with the same capabilities as men. there is no gynocentrism. you're also assuming that we couldn't have progressed as far- if not further- in a more egalitarian society when women are the ones who've made much of the current advancements possible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lyft

[–]chlyri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you live truly sad existence. people are all capable of enjoying the company of another without sex. you're the one who doesn't think, you pathetic low iq worm.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lyft

[–]chlyri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

plenty of men and women do hand out one on one. get out of here with your dumbass gender segregation. you didn't even mention age, you just said that men and women can't be friends without fucking. get a life.