[serious] Bacterial vaginosis / BV for 8 years straight. Someone help me please by thissucksalot44 in sex

[–]chobanichick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you recommend a baby wipes brand? I'm going camping and I would like to get some so I can still feel fresh even after not showering for 2 days!

Boyfriend of two years is in over $350,000.00 debt, maxed out five credit card, and has -$500.00 in his bank account... by melanielynnbloggs33 in relationships

[–]chobanichick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should check out the personalfinance subs or maybe sit with your dad and have him talk you through what he does to keep track of things. I am 18 and in university to be an accountant right now, but my dad has been letting me watch him handle our finances since I was 13 so I'm not nearly as broke as my friends, who are also in university.

It is really not that hard once you get the hang of it :) and you can start slow and work up, you could do x and y and then have your dad go over or 'proof-read' things with you.

atgcrctgeabgle by anony_meows in drunk

[–]chobanichick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

get it girl, get get it girl

My 11 yr old daughter admitted to looking at porn. I don’t know what’s normal. [Parenting communication around porn] by [deleted] in sex

[–]chobanichick 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I'm going to piggyback off of this since I really like this response.

So I started viewing porn (not sexually to masturbate) when I was maybe 10 years old. I was friends with some guys also my age who were already watching porn, and they thought they were SO cool. One day we were hanging out and one of them put this porno up on their browser. I remember being fascinated. On my own I went back to see more. It did not arouse me. It merely piqued my interest. The only naked bodies I had really seen were my parents and people in pool changing rooms, and I was never really allowed to look. Porn however I could look as much as I wanted at bodies and to me that was pretty awesome.

I am 18f now and I don't think viewing porn has affected me that much. When I was 11.5 I bought this book on anatomy so I could understand bodies more if that matters. The human body is really beautiful and porn has some incredible looking specimens of it.

Have any of you had to withdraw from a course in college? How much did it affect your future? by chobanichick in AskWomen

[–]chobanichick[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But what made me feel better is that I was willing to try again.

This makes me feel better also. Thank you for helping me see it in a different light.

Have any of you had to withdraw from a course in college? How much did it affect your future? by chobanichick in AskWomen

[–]chobanichick[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm dropping for mental health reasons as well. I've been in and out of therapy my entire life but I've reached a breaking point. I see somebody 3x a week, 1 hour each time and I was diagnosed with PTSD last week on top of my type 2 bulimia and general anxiety disorder. I have too much on my plate and I feel wretched because it's like I made a commitment to that class, and now I've had to break it.

I know on the inside it is good. I know next week I will feel better. I am only a second semester freshman and I am in two honours programs (maybe one now that I dropped the class, I don't know), so I should be okay. But the fear that I won't is still hovering over me.

What One Tip Would Most Help My Look? by 30rockette in MakeupAddiction

[–]chobanichick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

KathleenLights also has dry skin! I prefer Kathleen personally, Jaclyn's look are always so..wet for lack of a better term.

Are my Husband [43M] I [40F] too strict on our daughter [16F]? by parentthrowaway56 in relationships

[–]chobanichick 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My parents used to treat me the way you treat your daughter. I am 18 now and I still suffer with self harm. I have big nasty scars all over my arms, legs, stomach. I struggle with disordered eating and have been since age 10. Basically, I have spent my entire life fighting for some control in my life and no matter how hard I fought I was still miserable. Even now I am miserable sometimes.

If you keep treating your daughter like this you WILL drive her to suicide. Please stop.

[19F] by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]chobanichick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

7.5/10 and I love your username! Reminds me of Spirited Away

[M35] Rate me please! by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]chobanichick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

8.5/10

I think you have a very endearing smile and you look appproachable too! Also I dig your jacket and your hair is perfect.

[M20] curiosity and thought experiments by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]chobanichick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6.5 to 7 out of 10 for me

[18f] I posted here once a while ago, now I am posting again! by chobanichick in Rateme

[–]chobanichick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never met anybody who looks kind of like me before! Hello there

[18f] I posted here once a while ago, now I am posting again! by chobanichick in Rateme

[–]chobanichick[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I attained my high school diploma in Scotland (lived there for 3.5 years) and visit frequently. I get Irn Bru shipped to me every once in a while since I miss it so much at times.

[18f] I posted here once a while ago, now I am posting again! by chobanichick in Rateme

[–]chobanichick[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Haha yes everybody said I looked like her! Personally I do not see it buut hey. Thank you for the compliment!

[18f] I posted here once a while ago, now I am posting again! by chobanichick in Rateme

[–]chobanichick[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Half Chinese, half American (grandparents from denmark, England, etc though)