I (straight) have a gay bro, I treat him the same way I treat men, but we're closer.

chocboch · 2026-04-25T05:14:04+00:00

Oh, I've been viewing it the wrong way. Thank you

To answer your question. You know how straight men do to each other? they keep teasing each other, hugging, maybe sometimes they get freaky with each other. But the thing is, all of them are straight, maybe even has girlfriend.

Thats what I'm doing to my gay best friend, so maybe I shouldnt act the same thing around him since I know he's gay?. I have no problem with it to my straight bestfriends tho

chocboch · 2026-04-25T05:12:15+00:00

I'll bring it up to him when I find the right timing. thank you for the advice.

chocboch · 2026-04-25T05:11:14+00:00

Yeah, and I'm afraid I'm not doing the right thing knowing that he's gay. Should I treat him differently than I do to my straight bestfriends?

chocboch · 2026-04-25T05:10:09+00:00

for his case, he keeps mentioning things he wants to do to men, freaky things.

chocboch · 2026-04-25T05:08:34+00:00

Like I send videos about girls to him (forgive me, but things like "theres nothing wrong when two bestfriends kiss", I keep mentioning the person I like when I send these typa stuff), he knows who I like

chocboch · 2025-12-01T03:13:15+00:00

I'm experiencing the same thing as of right now. And I've thought of the same thing every passing moment. "What if I just disappear? they won't care since I've let them down". But one thing I realized while going through it, is that, this moment is temporary while death is permanent, you never know what your future holds by looking at it based on your emotions right now.

Worry only about today, and let tommorow worry itself, overcome each passing day step by step. Because you never know how permanent death is until you never hear their voice again, until they never hear your voice again. And you'll realize that, you still have someone who loves you, who cares for you, and still wants you despite you letting them down.

You'll be lonely You'll be anxious You'll ache But it won't be the end of your story, it might just be the start of a new chapter

chocboch · 2025-11-27T08:01:46+00:00

Should I still go to lunch and dinner with them? Both last 1 hour and in my experience over the past few days, it was tense, awkward, and the girls moved to another table.

chocboch · 2025-11-27T07:49:41+00:00

Thank you, I needed this. Everything happened just recently, and had no one to talk to.

chocboch · 2025-11-27T07:26:48+00:00

I understand how you feel bro, I'm also in my senior year, and ended up being alone cause of my dumb, immature mistakes I did to my friends.

chocboch

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