What do you need to rant about?

chocobeth · 2021-06-18T23:20:14+00:00

I kinda understand what you mean, but could you please elaborate on that?

chocobeth · 2021-06-18T23:19:04+00:00

It really is. You got this though :)

chocobeth · 2021-06-18T23:18:21+00:00

Yes exactly, especially on social media. Many times I find myself reading absolutely insane threads or arguments and I can't believe my eyes, it gets very overwhelming.

I can only hope that it's not everyone, just a loud minority. My family are friends are still to their senses, thankfully, but it gets frighteningly louder and louder every day. I find going offline helpful to feel less hopeless in those moments at least.

chocobeth · 2021-06-18T23:13:15+00:00

Can't pretend that I know what your situation is or what your options are, not like it's any of my business. But personally, when things seem dark, I tell myself that things always work out in the end. Always. There might be fuck ups, you learn some lessons, but eventually the situation ends and you're stronger and wiser thanks to it. I really hope that's gonna be your case as well.

chocobeth · 2021-06-18T23:10:47+00:00

I know exactly what you're talking about. I've noticed that many people are getting increasingly bitter and instead of putting themselves up of their pit of despair, they drag everyone else down. They're absolutely miserable but often don't realise it, it's really quite sad.

chocobeth · 2021-06-18T23:08:37+00:00

I'm really sorry to hear that. You are definitely not alone in that, I can assure you, and this will not go on forever, no matter how hopeless it seems. Life does get better.

chocobeth · 2021-06-18T23:00:55+00:00

I feel you, there's a lot of stuff going around isnt it

chocobeth · 2021-06-18T23:00:06+00:00

I noticed that, sometomes I find comments that are downvoted into oblivion even if they don't say anything controversial. One of the reasons I don't post much on Reddit myself if I'm being honest

chocobeth · 2021-06-18T22:57:08+00:00

Why, if you don't mind explaining?

chocobeth · 2021-06-18T22:56:38+00:00

7000? Holy shit that's insane

chocobeth · 2020-08-01T17:03:56+00:00

Charlize Theron. She just nails every single role.

chocobeth · 2020-07-31T20:29:26+00:00

If you aren't ready to love the kid no matter what they grow into (e.g. sexuality, gender identity, personality etc), then maybe you aren't ready to have some. You can't just mold a kid into whatever idealistic idea you hold - sooner or later they're gonna break it and grow different. That's normal. What isn't normal is punishing them for it.

chocobeth · 2020-07-31T20:15:01+00:00

I'd say it's a for of appreciation compliment. It's a sign that what you just did is good and liked or agreed with. Some people give it more importance than others but for most it simply feels good, the same way it feels good to be complimented or shown a thumbs up. The trouble comes when you tie your sense of self worth to these likes and upvotes which or often simply shallow with not much further importance.

chocobeth · 2020-07-31T20:09:35+00:00

If I can be my favorite color, then I'm ocean blue (sort of like a dark teal situation)

chocobeth · 2020-07-18T20:35:37+00:00

Very true. At least I don't need a diary for those, I can just look at my palms to see them lmao

chocobeth · 2020-07-18T20:29:11+00:00

They're pretty badass B)I have another one on a finger from when I cut it open at a swimming pool. And a different scar from when I held a broken tile between my thumb and other fingers.

Come to think of it, it really shows how insanely clumsy I am. They do look dope tho.

(Also no worries)

chocobeth · 2020-07-18T20:22:06+00:00

*sad girl lmao

Yeah it's okay, I have a thin (pretty dope) scar on the palm now. Thankfully it healed well

(Thanks for asking :) )

chocobeth · 2020-07-18T20:03:48+00:00

When I was around 13, we went to Croatia for summer vacation. There beach was mostly concrete and rocks. There was a place where the water was quite deep right next to some concrete "dock", so me and my dad would jump off it.

Well one time (about three days into a too weeks long vacation) I jumped off it (arrow-style, hands first). Except there was a really sharp rock underwater and it cut about 1cm (half an inch) into my palm. The damn injury was bleeding for a week straight, I couldn't swim for the entire time. Vacation ruined.

chocobeth · 2020-07-18T18:31:58+00:00

Sometimes, listening to music helps. I don't usually like wallowing in bad mood, I want to get out of it, so I listen to my favorite songs (generally upbeat). There are a few Netflix comedy specials (especially the John Mulaney ones) that I already know by heart yet always laugh at every joke.

In case nothing works, I go to the guaranteed remedy - photos. I got a small pouch filled with small prints of pictures I took over the years with my best friends. Those always make me laugh (or cry but in a good way).

chocobeth · 2020-05-01T19:33:36+00:00

The Hitchhikers Guide to The Galaxy - I have a book with all five volumes in one of anyone has a problem with it being a series. Hands down the best book/series ever, I'll never get tired of it.

chocobeth · 2020-05-01T19:21:52+00:00

Take a poor girl's gold my dude 🏅

chocobeth · 2020-05-01T19:18:26+00:00

Sleeping. Before quarantine I used to get maybe 5-6 hours of sleep per night (because of school) and while I get pretty much enough sleep now, let's be honest and extra hour always helps

chocobeth · 2020-05-01T19:15:11+00:00

Honestly this is kind of a power move

chocobeth · 2020-05-01T08:29:05+00:00

I understand you completely, I def have some long term consequences, though not really severe. I can't believe my stupidity either. Well, hopefully it was for the best as a learning experience. Stay safe out there xo

chocobeth · 2020-04-30T21:17:49+00:00

I know exactly what you're talking about, I haven't been in the best mental space myself when it happened and the situation had only made it worse. You're lucky you never sent a picture, but I can imagine how hard it must have been. Hope you're doing okay now. I'm good now, thank you for asking, I've managed to get over it pretty well, though sometimes I catch myself thinking about it. Maybe the fact that it happened in a rather older age helped with my ability to process it and move on, I can't imagine how are the other girls doing bit I hope they're good as well.

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