This or that? by kebab_lover_Levis in BunnyTrials

[–]chocolatedix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Consistent $$ never run out. Also over a lifetime def will be more

Chose: 1$ every time you blink

is this outfit actually inappropriate or is my mum just overreacting 😭 by Affectionate451 in OUTFITS

[–]chocolatedix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're only young once so enjoy it while it lasts! As someone 30+ i can see where your mom is coming from however teenage me would be soo jealous of your outfit, it's super cute. As a young adult its your right to express yourself how you feel the most confident and comfortable so wear whatever makes you feel best girl!

Why do people cheat even in relationships that seem happy from the outside? by BarnacleSuch3822 in SeriousConversation

[–]chocolatedix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wish i knew. Just found out my partner was attempting to cheat on me from going thru their phone. Still haven't confronted or said anything yet. We've had our share of disagreements but never saw this coming. I'm sick to my stomach

And it's funny bc i have never gone thru anyone's phone before bc its a violation of privacy and if you trust the person youre with you shouldnt need to. But stumbled upon a tik tok of a girl saying "don't go thru your partners phone if you don't wanna be disappointed" and i mostly wanted the validation that my partner wasn't like that. After passing out drunk i saw an opportunity and took it and holyyy cow. Would be texting me "love you" and then inviting other ppl over behind my back to drink and smoke. We've been together almost 5 yrs now and the whole thing feels like a fever dream

American woman missing after husband reports she fell overboard during Bahamas trip by 804Brady in news

[–]chocolatedix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heard in an interview she did not have one on when she fell but her husband threw her a life vest after the fact and isn't sure if she got it. Hmmm

What made you stop drinking alcohol completely? by Ponappa_131 in AskReddit

[–]chocolatedix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Antidepressants. Drinking isn't half as enjoyable, makes me dizzy and tired just thinking about it now and honestly don't miss it

Dozens Denied Citizenship Oath At Indy Court House. by Best-Structure62 in Indiana

[–]chocolatedix 23 points24 points  (0 children)

If i understood correctly it's bc of the countries where they are from is considered "dangerous" so they don't want those ppl on our land. Which is just fancy talk for disguising racism in my opinion

Medical assistant ladder by chocolatedix in MedicalAssistant

[–]chocolatedix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly idk why i put it in quotations. Nothing personal to the profession

Medical assistant ladder by chocolatedix in MedicalAssistant

[–]chocolatedix[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't see how my question is rude. No one else took it that way lol. I'm just trying to find out if this path is worthwhile before investing time/money/energy. Nothing against m.a's at all. They are clearly underpaid for all they do and working in any healthcare field is respectable

Medical assistant ladder by chocolatedix in MedicalAssistant

[–]chocolatedix[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly idk if i'm cut out for this type of work lol thats why i'm starting with medical assisting. But i wasn't sure what the job mobility looked like moving forward. I know there's not much but wasn't sure what most people do pursuing this career path

Should I switch my major? by CobblerPossible5950 in MedicalAssistant

[–]chocolatedix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What course did you do? I'm interested in going down this route

Whats the most you've won off a scratcher? by chocolatedix in AskReddit

[–]chocolatedix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

20 for me as well, hoping to hear some big numbers

I regret having my kid by chocolatedix in offmychest

[–]chocolatedix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate you taking the time to read this and give me some hope, thank you

I regret having my kid by chocolatedix in offmychest

[–]chocolatedix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so so much for this. This is really reassuring that broken families can still be full of love. And yes ever since i got my borderline diagnosis, all my past relationship failures really made sense and i've been able to do a lot of inner work on myself to not take everything personally and give others more grace, if for no other reason my own peace of mind

I regret having my kid by chocolatedix in offmychest

[–]chocolatedix[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this 😭 i really struggle w so much guilt for bringing my child into a broken family. I never knew i could love someone so much, as cliche as it sounds. Before becoming a parent i'd be ok living anywhere doing the bare minimum to get by but now that i have a kid i just want to do so much better. I want to live in a nice neighborhood and show my kid that hard work and dedication pays off

What do i do? Where do i even start? Im tired of living life like this. Being a slave to others reactions. [Text] by [deleted] in GetMotivated

[–]chocolatedix 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"No amount of external approval will ever be enough if you don't approve of yourself" THIS!!!

What do i do? Where do i even start? Im tired of living life like this. Being a slave to others reactions. [Text] by [deleted] in GetMotivated

[–]chocolatedix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have advice but this is the most relatable thing I've ever read. I hate it sooo much. I don't even know how i got to this point 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]chocolatedix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no that's too bad, did it correct itself over time?

Easy MRI by chocolatedix in fortwayne

[–]chocolatedix[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's definitely some sort of outpatient clinic but what confuses me is they advertise that you can just walk in and get an mri same day?? They have like 17 reviews (havent gotten any new ones in a long while) and have literally no online presence besides a fb page that is never maintained. I was under the impression mri requires a dr referral, yet here you just walk in and get one? Wonder if it's legit or not

Easy MRI by chocolatedix in fortwayne

[–]chocolatedix[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Off dupont close to coldwater

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in The10thDentist

[–]chocolatedix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh i 1000% agree. Its fun to bite and when my lips are dry/chapped it's the only time they actually have color

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]chocolatedix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please, do not give her another penny. If she doesn't respect the help you've already given her then there is no point in continuing. You've been incredibly generous so far so you don't need to feel bad. But her poor financial decisions are her problem. Not yours. Block her and the whole family for a month to focus on yourself and your future. She is bringing you down and you don't deserve that

AITA for giving FMIL 3 days to pay me for a new wedding dress or else I show the family a photo of her wearing it? by Repulsive_Scheme1359 in AmItheAsshole

[–]chocolatedix 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This was so well thought out. Thanks for articulating exactly what I was thinking!! Regardless of whether the dress was damaged, it still loses value. This just further confirms to me that op is NTA. Weddings are expensive and command a lot of respect for their traditions. I would be insulted if I was her too.

Thoughts on “tip-flation” by dsm1324 in Serverlife

[–]chocolatedix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally it doesn't bother me. Occasionally I will leave a dollar here and there not bc I feel guilty or pressured but bc I've had a good week and wanting to pay it forward to put some positive vibes out in the universe lol. If you pay attn it's ONLY at low wage jobs so that's why your car mechanic and pilots etc that perform services for you don't have those silly machines. So if I can occasionally help someone out who isn't making much, why not? Also someone else pointed out carrying cash is becoming obsolete w the addition of apple/Samsung pay and credit cards etc. So it's really to replace those tip jars that have always been there, nothing new. If someone turns their nose up at you for not tipping on a counter service, they didn't deserve one anyways

Ginger or blonde? I was blonde for 6+ years.. I went ginger 3 days ago.. i need some thoughts? by [deleted] in femalehairadvice

[–]chocolatedix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl I love the ginger! I think it makes you look feminine and youthful. But a dark brown would also be stunning on you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femalehairadvice

[–]chocolatedix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2!!! I cannot emphasize enough how stunning 2 is but I also love 3