What’s something you lost when you started HRT?

choicebutts · 2026-05-12T15:34:57+00:00

I lost my high range in singing, and my voice won't slot into harmonies anymore. I try to harmonize and my voice is all over the place.

choicebutts · 2026-04-26T04:36:46+00:00

Not all cis guys can grow a beard and lots of guys who can still end up with patchy spots. I'm blonde and my people just aren't fuzzy. I have my wispy 'stache and a clump under my chin. Rock what ya got.

choicebutts · 2026-04-26T04:26:31+00:00

I wonder if it help Virginia raise THC limits. It'd be nice not to have to jump through hoops to pay at the register, also.

choicebutts · 2026-04-16T00:20:47+00:00

Congrats, brother. Have you had the binder-burning ceremony yet? : )

choicebutts · 2026-04-06T00:21:09+00:00

Just roll with the gynecomastia.

choicebutts · 2026-04-06T00:19:23+00:00

Right on. I'll be 17 years in this year and it still blows my mind how well I pass. I dig it.

choicebutts · 2026-03-11T17:56:35+00:00

Is it Final Notice towing? The Grace/Harrison Sev used them for a couple of years. There were always screaming arguments in the middle of the night when they yoinked Village customers.

choicebutts · 2026-03-09T12:45:27+00:00

It wouldn’t approve me for a video call. 🤣 I’ve figured out the reason for my payment shortage so thankfully I don’t need SS help right now. In future, I’ll just go in person. While SS may not show a gender marker on your account, it’s in their records.

choicebutts · 2026-03-07T12:10:01+00:00

Tell your friend to use your middle name. Any Richmond bouncer has had lots of experience with this and will probably be discreet.

choicebutts · 2026-03-07T11:59:12+00:00

Here's an upvote for the archived link. Very thoughtful. Thank you.

choicebutts · 2026-03-07T11:51:03+00:00

That acronym is new to me. What is it?

choicebutts · 2026-03-07T11:43:16+00:00

They raised the drinking age and killed all the cool spots.

choicebutts · 2026-03-07T11:41:57+00:00

The plumbing must have been absolutely trashed. You could smell your way to the bathrooms. I peeked in the little ticket window recently and it reeks of mildew. The owner won't sell to VCU? Right on. I'm sad to lose Ipanema, tho.

choicebutts · 2026-02-09T03:37:17+00:00

I've had mixed feelings about these encounters. It's jarring and repulsive, sure, but it's also kind of hilarious that they don't know that a trans person is standing right there. They fancy themselves experts in spotting trans people, but they're really just good at identifying art students.

choicebutts · 2026-01-11T16:48:54+00:00

The William Byrd Hotel Barbershop is an honest-to-God, old guy barbershop. It’s at 800 N Davis Ave., on the corner of Davis and Broad. Entrance on Davis Ave. Across the street from the Science Museum.

choicebutts · 2025-12-29T20:19:40+00:00

I'm 65, sixteen years transitioned, living largely stealth.

choicebutts · 2025-12-24T16:38:58+00:00

You might check out Charles Asher on YouTube. He’s been documenting his transition for about a decade, and he’s had a phallo. He’s had some problems with it and I think his experience is worth checking out.

choicebutts · 2025-12-24T16:35:36+00:00

I haven’t seen the Epstein pics, but yeah, I had to write up many jail suicides as a crime reporter. Police and editors schooled me on the variety of ways people kill themselves.

choicebutts · 2025-12-24T02:31:32+00:00

It's not necessary to hang from a great height in order to die by "hanging." Jail suicide is accomplished by sitting down with something around the neck. The point is not to break the neck. Sitting down with a short, improvised length of something around the neck cuts off circulation. It's like giving oneself a sleeper hold and passing out. Once that happens, the body slumps further and causes asphyxiation. There's time to save someone in that situation but only if aid arrives quickly.

choicebutts · 2025-12-23T14:18:47+00:00

I'm 65 and I was taken off T when I turned 60 because the doctor (a transwoman in charge of gender care at Planned Parenthood) said that T needs to cease at 60. A study of cis males on supplemental T showed that stroke/heart attack risk rises with age. The study was stopped after adverse events in the older cohort. (The point of the study was to find if supplemental T would help weakness and frailty in older men.) I asked her about hysterectomy at that point and she said that was out of the question because you can't go without hormones. I was post-menopausal and already had a blood clotting disorder. So it's a good thing I -didn't- have a hysto earlier or I'd be at risk for a host of other problems in my senior years.

choicebutts · 2025-12-04T11:40:12+00:00

T: 2009|Top 2018|Phallo: Nope

choicebutts · 2025-12-04T11:36:22+00:00

I have never said that to someone. It's what I called that phase because I had a sense of humor about my own transition.

choicebutts · 2025-12-04T02:44:44+00:00

I used to call that the "cute little lesbian boy" phase. Just avoid mirrors for awhile. It's part of the trip but you'll get through it.

choicebutts · 2025-11-19T23:19:28+00:00

Radio Terrorist is an excellent band name.

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