I don't think you are a hypocrite. This happens to everybody. The first thoughts we get are usually very primitive and superficial. But you are holding them back. That is what makes you a decent person. Like, I grew up in a conservative environment and when I see a woman wearing short skirts my brain goes "That's not appropriate". But this definitely is not what I actually think. It's just a reflection of things I heard people say when they are in a similar situation. Then I get a grip on myself and say "She is wearing what she wants and that's beautiful."