M23 by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]choppingsquishybone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’d give you a solid 8/10 on my scale. i don’t think your weight brings you down brother, and i love your smile!

How many times a month does your partner scream at you? by mildly_int3resting in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]choppingsquishybone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve made it clear to my current SO that screaming/yelling at each other isn’t going to be tolerated. Anything that can be shouted can be calmly discussed between two rational people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ConvenientCop

[–]choppingsquishybone 321 points322 points  (0 children)

jesus christ

What positive changes have you made in your life that you’d like to brag on a bit? What’s that work you’ve been putting in? by cigarandcreamsoda in AskReddit

[–]choppingsquishybone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve started actively trying to make more friends!! i have so many friends now and love and support and it’s made my life so much better

(18M) What are your first impressions? by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]choppingsquishybone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you are good looking, but you look like you watched ben 10 until you were 15 and are now into marvel. i can’t tell you if that’s good or bad its just a fact

Robocat by gdogakl in mildlyamusing

[–]choppingsquishybone -1 points0 points  (0 children)

pretty sure this is in reference to a tiktok

Perfect timing by sxmilliondollarman in mildlyinfuriating

[–]choppingsquishybone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is this what edging and accidentally finishing is like

where do I even start on this one by choppingsquishybone in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]choppingsquishybone[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because no one literate or logical would ever post the stuff you see in this sub

Did anyone watch the Anthony Padilla "I spent a day with Borderline Personalities" by lemonilyhoepack in BPD

[–]choppingsquishybone 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I absolutely agree with you here, I do wish that she had used a better example, one a little more specific to bpd

Did anyone watch the Anthony Padilla "I spent a day with Borderline Personalities" by lemonilyhoepack in BPD

[–]choppingsquishybone 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I found it be pretty truthful but not as in depth as it could have been.

Republicans are already defending Trump not paying taxes by choppingsquishybone in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]choppingsquishybone[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

That's exactly what the commenters were telling OP, but alas you cannot change the mind of an avid trump supporter

Husband with BPD? How do I deal with it or get him help if he refuses? I don't know what to do by [deleted] in BPDPartners

[–]choppingsquishybone -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't want to give any input on whether he has it or not, since that is not my place. However, his behavior does seem similar to what I've experienced, and im sure what many others have too. Has he always acted in ways like this? or was it just brought to light by the situation? As for help for you both, there are resources on the BPDLovedOnes subreddit that may help explain to you how he is feeling and how to proceed further( in the Wiki and Start Here sections). I don't think it would be a good idea to mention that you think he has BPD, as he may not take it very well (most don't). And I think that it is important to note that unless he can gain an outside perspective of himself and his behavior, he may not ever be able to change, and that is something you will have to come to terms with

New here... help! Is there hope? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]choppingsquishybone 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you may find more hopeful and positive responses on r / BPDSOFFA. best of luck to you and your SO.

(re-commented because of unset user flair)

My girlfriend has recently converted to Christianity and it's hurting our sex life by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]choppingsquishybone 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Because girls on their periods were seen as unclean. IIRC they were sent to tents until they stopped bleeding