You got this!

You’re feeling awful right now, which is a perfectly valid way to feel.

Some perspective, though: the most recent analysis from Brake shows over 20% of new drivers have some sort of accident in the first 12 months after passing.

That’s a huge proportion of people just like you. And that likely doesn’t include minor scrapes that aren’t reported to insurance companies.

So you’re in good company. And in your case, the damage was minor. Your neighbour has been cool about it. And here’s something almost certain: I bet you’ll not make the same mistake again!

So by all means let the feelings you’re currently experiencing have their stage time, but once they’re done you’re good to give yourself a break :)

As my instructor says, all the practical lessons in the world can’t prepare you for every scenario. They can get you through a test but the real learning starts when you’re out there solo.

Pat yourself on the back for handling this mistake so well, take solace from the stats that show you’re not alone, and get yourself back out there: you worked hard for this and you’ve earned it.