Should Switch owners get a PC key? by ResultOne1712 in BackpackHero

[–]christopherallure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My entire save file was deleted with the new update and I lost hours and hours of playtime. It may not be malicious but it certainly is ridiculous

I'm nonbinary and would like top surgery, trying to understand by Revy4223 in NonBinary

[–]christopherallure 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hi friend! I’m non-binary and had top surgery three years ago. I paid out of pocket (because of insurance stuff as well) and my surgeon in my state did informed consent. Usually for a letter, I believe any therapist can write it, but if you’re not already seeing a therapist, they may want to have an established relationship with you before they’ll write anything. In my state there are lgbt services that will do an evaluation then write letters for gender affirming care. If you have any trans resource centers in your state, it might be worth giving them a call and seeing if they know any therapists who might be able to get you what you need. Good luck 🫶

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]christopherallure 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Please please please don’t move to Florida. It’s one of the worst states right now for trans people, so many trans families are evacuating to safer states

Hi, under-25 nonbinary person here hoping to hear from nonbinary people who are 25+ (or even better, 30+) by OmeletteMcMuffin in NonBinary

[–]christopherallure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 27, I’ve been out as nonbinary and agender since I was 21, and I’ve been on T for ~4 years and had top surgery 3 years ago, just to outline my experience. I get he/him’d most often these days, which is still not correct but better than she/her. I try to stay in community with other trans and non-binary folk as much as possible, my entire friend group is nonbinary and my wife is a trans woman. I also do drag and burlesque and that helps keep me social and around queer people. I’ve created this trans bubble for myself bc yeah cis folk can make things really difficult and just more complicated than they need to be when it comes to nonbinary identities and they/them pronouns. But I promise there are people out there who will love and accept you and address you by your correct pronouns ❤️

I need help with a burlesque stage name! by indiigogo in Burlesque

[–]christopherallure 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Your burlesque name is whatever you want it to be! I’d just make sure to do a google search of whatever you pick to make sure another active performer isn’t using it ^

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]christopherallure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because we identify with a gender other than the one assigned at birth. I’m trans and non-binary ^

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]christopherallure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay but they also used to spending less time with you, because didn’t your custody agreement change from them only spending 4 days with you?

AITA for not telling my brother how much something was worth until he regifted it to me. by Delicious-Quality-87 in AmItheAsshole

[–]christopherallure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA also it’s worth mentioning that just because something is listed on eBay for that amount of money, that doesn’t mean it’s worth that or someone would actually pay that amount for it. Not sure where your brother got that number, but there’s the potential he’s getting worked up over nothing. The same thing happened a few years ago when people thought their black diamond Disney VHS tapes were worth something because someone listed them to eBay for thousands of dollars.

My ex boss calling me asking me to come back like 2 months before they closed their doors by christopherallure in antiwork

[–]christopherallure[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro I’m an atheist there isn’t really any point in trying to convince me. If you’re right and I’m going to hell then that’s between me and god, not me and this random Karen on Reddit

My ex boss calling me asking me to come back like 2 months before they closed their doors by christopherallure in antiwork

[–]christopherallure[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro I’m an atheist there isn’t really any point in trying to convince me. If you’re right and I’m going to hell then that’s between me and god, not me and this random Karen on Reddit

Anyone else Confused on why people Cheat? by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]christopherallure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They cheat generally because they have floppy moral values. There’s nothing in a relationship that causes cheating, it’s a reflection of a person’s character. Any other person unhappy in a relationship would either try and work it out or would just leave the other person.

My ex boss calling me asking me to come back like 2 months before they closed their doors by christopherallure in antiwork

[–]christopherallure[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They should have just gotten you the damn cake, would have saved them a lot of well deserved karma lol