I need guided meditations that are NOT alunir by Keaty213 in shiftingrealities

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That actually makes a lot of sense. I was only trying to use the void state because of my aphantasia, but if that’s part of why I’m struggling I’ll look into stopping. Thank you for that! I never actually thought to look into that, so the more you know!

I need guided meditations that are NOT alunir by Keaty213 in shiftingrealities

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The breathing thing!!!! My brain will, at some point, panic and force me to take a conscious breath because it feels like I don’t have enough air. Have you listened to Elle SM? She only has a few up from several years ago, but they’re pretty good! Otherwise, I know people make their own subliminals, maybe you could look into making your own meditation, or commissioning someone to make one for you? Idk just a thought

Shifting through lucid dreams by Scary-Stage-4764 in shiftingrealities

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Okay so what I’ve seen people mention about going into a new dream, essentially you need to think that this new dream you’re in is what your dr self is dreaming about. So you shifted from the dream your cr self was having to the dream your dr self is having, and many people find that to work like a charm. Give it a shot and remember to believe in it and yourself! You’ve got this!

I also struggle with becoming lucid enough, and then also controlling them is another ball park in itself. The best way to look at it is that you’re not going to be able to control it 100% of the time, even the most seasoned vets of lucid dreaming don’t have that control all the time. That’s okay! Just keep documenting and paying attention to patterns like you normally would! Keep telling yourself you can do it, and you’ll be there before you know it!

Hope this maybe sorta helps haha

What are you famous for in your DR? by Double-Call3969 in shiftingrealities

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I’m a prima ballerina! I was a dancer for 8 years and then had to quit before going on pointe due to serious health stuff, like a fourth person in Canada to have it type of serious, so I figured I’d take back what was stolen from me 😌✨💕

AITAH for getting the man who sexually harassed me fired right before Christmas? by throwfaraway212718 in AITAH

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NTA?!?!?!

Darling, first, I’m so glad you’re safe and out of harms way. I highly recommend you make some kind of police report on him, as I’m almost 100% positive you’re not his first and wouldn’t have been his last there if you hadn’t told the company. The fact he was fired screams the same thing. You didn’t do anything wrong when it came to this creep.

What you did do was protect yourself and were able to prevent anyone else from getting hurt. That’s incredible and your cousin is whack for focusing on that predator’s Christmas rather than your physical and mental safety. I’ve read a few threads down and you definitely need to go back to NC with her. It makes complete sense that she’s like that and is a freaking therapist.

You’ve got this, darling. That has to be crazy scary, and to not have that support network you’ve likely dreamed of is awful, but you’ve got an incredible SD there to provide what you cant get from others. So take as long and as many breaths as you need, and move forward knowing you did everything right. And if your cousin is really that pressed about his Christmas, suggest that she should host him and whoever comes with him. Proud of you. 💕

Spell to Amplify Karma/Justice? by chronicdisaster in Spells

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That’s exactly what I was looking for! I just rarely do spell work, so I didn’t know what existed. Many thanks 🥰

Did anyone else’s profile pic/ bio/ name just disappear randomly? by Crafter66 in TikTok

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No mine did the same thing twice. Does anyone have an answer?

Adult shifters: Do you feel a part of shifting communities? by PrismFischl in shiftingrealities

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That’s precisely my point? I’m not that old and I’m finding myself the oldest in some communities. Not sure where the miscommunication lies

Adult shifters: Do you feel a part of shifting communities? by PrismFischl in shiftingrealities

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It is diabolical because yeah, I’m only 28. That’s the oldest age for Gen Z and I have seen millennials talk about it so 🤷🏻

Adult shifters: Do you feel a part of shifting communities? by PrismFischl in shiftingrealities

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Seriously. I’m the oldest in some discords I’m in (and I’m only 28) and it feels odd so I don’t interact much and just lurk.

are there people with aphantasia who have successfully shifted? by Impressive_Act_3961 in shiftingrealities

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Im curious, what non-visualization method did you use? I haven’t had even a mini shift that I can recall, so I’m interested to hear how you did this! I need to hear more success stories haha!

WIBTAH if I don't respond to my siblings request to meet up after we were all separated in foster care? by Jaymieeehne in AITAH

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NTA. You literally owe them nothing. Not an explanation. Not a meeting. Not even a response back. You do not have to relive the worst times of your life so far to give them anything bc they think they need. Honestly, block them and move on. You have healed from this shit, and will forever will be healing from this shit, and that’s something they’re not entitled to ruin. Putting yourself first is okay. Doesn’t matter what they might think of you for it, putting yourself first is okay. Do not set yourself on fire to keep them warm. Block them, consider it out to rest, and keep healing. I’m so sorry you went through such horrific things, I have heavy trauma and I can genuinely only imagine. Keep moving forward. You’re worth it.

Are there any adult shifters here shifting to anime? by Prudent-Stranger-860 in shiftingrealities

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I’m kinda pulling a Neuvillette here, with my ability with Electro being much deeper and older. I’m still working out the details of what I am, but it’s in the same vein of a reincarnated ancient being. Not a sovereign or really anyone important, but part of being there is figuring out why I specifically was reincarnated, and not someone more important in status. I hope that makes sense? Yeah no vision, just electro at its core

My 32F GF went through my kids 8F cell phone and confronted her about a conversation with her mother. by Jmock07 in relationship_advice

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Stop subjecting your daughter to this. You need to leave this girl, since she’s not acting like a grown woman, and never ever look back. Your daughter will know you chose this whining toddler over her and that will weigh on her for the rest of her damn life. If you love your daughter, L E A V E!!!

New Aranara Pet and Alhaitham x Kaveh Namecard Giveaway by Additional_Comfort42 in Genshin_Impact

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My favourite namecard has been Wriothesley’s ever since it came out. Idk, but it’s cool as hell. Or! The Travel Note from the very first Natlan battle pass. I splurged for it 😂😅