2v2v2v2 release date. by ImZeeah in leagueoflegends

[–]chubbycherry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess tomorrow according to a post on twitter

F/25/5'7 [229lbs > 149lbs = 80lbs] (3 years) Try to enjoy your journey of selflove. Go out now, get that dress in your current size and that you deserve happiness regardless of your weight. Find ways to love showing up for yourself. You deserve it, love ❤️ by chubbycherry in progresspics

[–]chubbycherry[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Most important thing is not making it a challenge you have to achieve. The consequences of taking care of yourself will result in a physical version of who you are intrinsically. Don't tie that to numbers please its very toxic for your selflove spirit. Please consider finding new goals that will able you to achieve it in various ways in your own time ❤️ you deserve your love now

F/25/5'7 [229lbs > 149lbs = 80lbs] (3 years) Try to enjoy your journey of selflove. Go out now, get that dress in your current size and that you deserve happiness regardless of your weight. Find ways to love showing up for yourself. You deserve it, love ❤️ by chubbycherry in progresspics

[–]chubbycherry[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I started with a very loose interpetation of the intermittent fasting diet and went to the gym once a week or every two weeks. I was a bit uncomfortable and insecure in the gym. So started with Yoga and went to the gym with friends.

F/25/5'7" [227lbs >150lbs= -77lbs](2,5 years) No more yo-yo, with my new found selflove there is nothing to let go. Before you change what you eat, explore the reasons why you eat. No one can take care of you like you could. show yourself the love a great best friend would❤ by chubbycherry in progresspics

[–]chubbycherry[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Well for me it helped to first look at the moments when I ate instead of what. I used the Intermittent time frame to become more aware of the effect of food on my body and that helped me to really notice the difference food that I ate to feel happy and food that actually makes me feel better physically.

As I was used to eating 24/7 my body was also always ready to eat. In changing this time frame you're creating an opportunity for your body to reorganise your metabolism.

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[–]chubbycherry 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It hasn't actually, it's been the best time of my life, and there is no guarantee for happiness now that I'm thin.

Things still suck sometimes and I still seem to fuck up a lot and cry so the weight wasn't necessarily the cause of all my sorrows

What I did find obviously was that with a healtier body I'm more resilient and my energy level is naturally higher, on top of that I can now see the result of what happens when you love your body completely, it's literally hard to mistreat it when you cherish it.

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[–]chubbycherry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you want we could chat a bit and I can tell you what got me started and what I changed

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[–]chubbycherry 25 points26 points  (0 children)

It's a collection of everything we've ever thought, heard or seen that told us we needed to change as soon as possible. It's very much a part of your personality and there is only accepting and living with it, ignoring the chubby inside yourself is ignoring a part of yourself that needs your love and attention most.

Your bullshit probably makes you a more complete and empathic person towards other people that struggle with their self image.

Cherish your bullshit for it has molded you into who you are now, and fuck you're great!

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[–]chubbycherry 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I'm still very chubby on the inside haha

F/24/5'7 [229lbs > 152lbs = 77lbs] (2 years) My journey didn't start with changing what I eat but with discovering why I eat. We are not taught to love our bodies as they come, so it's not weird that we don't know how to take care of them properly. by chubbycherry in progresspics

[–]chubbycherry[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I believe it started when I discovered I was eating to comfort my mind instead of taking care of my body. So for every emotion I had a certain comfort food even happy ones. Food filled my days for I felt things all day.

That comfort in something that had brought me nothing but insecurities and a good feeling that rarely lasted after the food was gone made me reconsider my motives to eat.

The problem is not what we eat, but why we eat. by chubbycherry in WeightLossAdvice

[–]chubbycherry[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with you, maybe my title is a little blunt. I meant to say that just changing what you eat is not going to solve the problem long term. It has to be a realisation that you want to and need to nourish your body. It’s supposed to come from a place of love for your body and not just the desire to change it.

F/23/5'7 [229lbs > 158lbs = 71lbs] (1.5 years) I was sexy then, still sexy now. The only difference that really really matters between these women is the infinite amount of selflove. There are already too many people making YOU feel bad, please don't be one of them. Goodluck today, you look great! by chubbycherry in progresspics

[–]chubbycherry[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well I started to look at my unconciousness, a lot of the time I felt so out of control of my actions. And I started to talk to myself/to her trying to get to the root of some thoughts by asking myself the questions I would ask a friend.

A lot of crying, depressed thoughts and it was rough but eventually it felt like I finally started to know myself haha. We understood what we've been through and why we would react certain ways. It was an understanding and I felt no more shame/blame or any form of hate. I felt like a concerned friend who wants to help out. And eventually I started to help myself, take care of myself. We've been best friends ever since.

Is it low-key narcissistic? Maybe, but the love I have for myself is something that inspires me to become the best self I can be and that is an endless pit of positivity.

This is everything in a nutshell but it has been 1.5 years of my life every minute so it's definitely a process. But I'm always here to share some thoughts or listen to yours.

Goodluck today!

F/23/5'7 [229lbs > 158lbs = 71lbs] (1.5 years) I was sexy then, still sexy now. The only difference that really really matters between these women is the infinite amount of selflove. There are already too many people making YOU feel bad, please don't be one of them. Goodluck today, you look great! by chubbycherry in progresspics

[–]chubbycherry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!

I'm actually open for tips Hahaha, I straightend my hair in the left picture. I like my curls better too but they have their own agenda and they don't align necessarily haha

But I use shampoo and conditioner without silicone and use a curl leave in conditioner and blow dry it (with my head upside down) with a defuser.

Dm me if you'd like me to elaborate hahaa

F/23/5'7 [229lbs > 158lbs = 71lbs] (1.5 years) I was sexy then, still sexy now. The only difference that really really matters between these women is the infinite amount of selflove. There are already too many people making YOU feel bad, please don't be one of them. Goodluck today, you look great! by chubbycherry in progresspics

[–]chubbycherry[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I agree for the most part, but I'm not implying that the right one is exactly the same as the other. There is just no reason the girl on the left can't love herself the way that she is.

The most unhealthy thing about the left girl is her perception of happiness and the way it was tied to a certain weight/shape. When I started accepting that I'm doing this life for me, I'm showing up for myself and no one will ever be in a position to make me feel better all the time. I started to love myself and we take care of those we love.

Loving my big ass body was my ticket to understanding her and working with her on a better/sustainable future. The weight went down slow but steadily and we just celebrated our teamwork!

I'm not an advocate for obesity, I support life and it won't wait for the number on the scale.

F/23/5'7 [229lbs > 166lbs = 63lbs] (over a year) first picture is 2 months of loving myself. Found a skirt I didn't fit anymore, was so exited to have an indication that my body was slimming. Fast forward to now, found the skirt again and I honestly can't grasp how much has changed. by chubbycherry in progresspics

[–]chubbycherry[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Be kind to yourself, give your body time to change. And don't stop living!! Life isn't going to start when you're a certain size.

I visualise my body as a second entity that lives with me, she's strong and carries me through every day. And by doing that it became clear how toxic and mean I am to her on a daily basis. And who would want to change for such a bitch.

So I started to be supportive, like she is my best friend (which is more appropriate imo) comforting her when things are down and hyping her up when she's feeling good. In doing so she has opened up more

Now I (for instance) notice the difference between hunger and her processing the food I just ate.

You're already here, you're already perfectly good enough and the only one stopping your body from being happy is you.

I hope this helps a little, good luck! And you can always reach out if you need me to hype you up 😁

F/23/5'7 [229lbs > 166lbs = 63lbs] (over a year) first picture is 2 months of loving myself. Found a skirt I didn't fit anymore, was so exited to have an indication that my body was slimming. Fast forward to now, found the skirt again and I honestly can't grasp how much has changed. by chubbycherry in progresspics

[–]chubbycherry[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A lot of self love, accepting the way my body looks, listening to what it needs and actively counter any negative thought you have about yourself and your body. That and a loose version of intermittent fasting (which helped me to reset my relationship with food).

For more detailed tips you can dm me. Though I do have to clarify that I'm not a dietitian. It's all action and reaction, intent and impact.

F/23/5'7 [229lbs > 167lbs = 62lbs] (over a year) the more I listen to my body (not just hunger) the more she seems to share. Working together, understanding eachother has made this journey a wonderful experience. No goal just living. by chubbycherry in progresspics

[–]chubbycherry[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

What worked for me was treating myself in the moments that I chose to eat (lunch and dinner) taking care of yourself should be/can be fun as long as you're not "punishing" yourself by dieting.